advice from the ladies Please

30 Jul 2005

As a newbie on here I'm never sure what woman are looking for in an advert or how they expect conversation to be conducted on here. Off-line I'm forever being told woman aren't into porn, filthy chat, naked men, sausage pics or anything slightly pervy. Preferring romantic conversations, erotica, clothed men, and wine and roses.
So what angle would you suggest I take in my ad and chat with woman on here ?
I'm Looking for love and tender romance, so lets trip the light fantastic with a meal and good conversation before moving on to more discreet loving times. P.S. be gentle with me ?
Or
Come round, get em off and let me roger you stupid I'm feeling horny. P.S. I don't care what you look like ?
what sort of ad do you reply to ? and what turns you off ?
If this subject has been covered before sorry. please point me to it i can`t find it anywhere.

31 Jul 2005

I'm forever being told woman aren't into porn
Well sum1 is lying ... nothin wrong with a bit of porn...
I like having it on in the background while having fun
Does that mean im a perv????

31 Jul 2005

I hope not.... i like to watch porn look at cock shots to lol.. carnt help you out though mambam If we all liked the same life would be boring

31 Jul 2005

There is no simple answer to this question. Just because the women who use this site like sex, doesn't mean we all like it in the same manner! Some will like the "cum and go" approach and some will be looking to develop a friendship with their buddy. As a starting point, it might be worth writing your advert around what you have to offer or what you are looking for. When I read through the adverts there is a certain content which will catch my eye, so the more detail you put, the more likely you are to press those buttons!!
I would also say I don't advertise myself as I would prefer to approach "my type" rather than be swamped with hundreds of unsuitable matches.
Hope this helps, good luck !

31 Jul 2005

this two might help... they are both in the advice section.....
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/advice/single-men.html
and
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/13919.html
these might give you a better outlook.....
sean xxxxxxxxxx

31 Jul 2005

Thanks to all, maybe i`ll try both and see what gets the best reaction wink