Dont be dead nice to her leading up to it, be relatively nice cause if your suckin up her bottom shes gonna know your up to something. lol
would love to suck up your bottom littlle miss naughty :mrgreen:
See this thread if you're interested - I asked exactly the same question earlier this year. I think the last post says it all!
www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/8753.html
Good Luck!
Mr RSAB2
Spark61 - at least you're telling her,I'll give you you get to feel it isn't unfolding as you wish have a way to back off from the subject before you have commitedly said it out these things finally get to be said in unlikely moments,the ones that are not planned.
Many thanks for all the responses and links to other threads. What a friendly bunch you are!
I'll let you know how it goes although she has just woken up with a migraine so maybe the Gods are conspiring against me? Or can she sense something?
Maybe she just has a migraine and you are feeling a bit worried about telling her!
Good luck and take it very gently! Preferably after she has had lots of painkillers and is feeling much better!
but u could go for the leftfield view and tell the wife u have invited the little green whore on tour aka leprechaun for some bed room athletics
if this doesn't work leprechaun takes no responsability for any advise that he may give especialy if u is hit with frying pan or wok
saying that m8 hope u are able to bring the subject up with ur other half and have an open and frank discussion and come to a agreed way 4ward with out herself feeling pressured (this advises comes with agreement of invite round positive response)
Funny how reading evryones elses thoughts focus's your own. I need to have a goal from this and apart from divorce (or avoiding it) I think I'll suggest a chat and a drink with another couple to talk about their experiences and issues. I'm sure an ad on this site would find a couple willing to do that. May even be someone in the same situation. No pressure, just a friendly drink one evening, then go away and discuss it after. Then if she says no at least I've tried in an adult and considered way!
Thanks all. I'm feeling confident.
I think this is a good idea spark
Well, due to the wife having a bad head all weekend I never got off the ground. But hopefully one night this week will see me emerge victorious. I'll keep you posted with an in depth report of her reaction for those that are interested.
Hi. Two years ago I wanted the same thing. Sue and I had fantasised about 3somes and 4somes while making love but when i said i wanted to do it for real she resisted. After riasing it a few times I came up witha cunning plan. I bought her some really sexy clothes - underwear, low cut dress and high heels. I took her out for a drink and on our second bottle of wine i suggested we go to a local swingers club - just to look. We joined up but made it clear we would talk to some people but didn't want to be propositioned. After an hour there with lots of male and female attention toward Sue, who is very busty, she started to get quite aroused. She was rubbing my crotch and letting guys caress her breasts. We didn't fuck that night but we did go back again and had our first 3some and 4some - both on the same evening. Two years later we are seasoned swingers!
Bob & Sue
Hi Bob, great story. So dreams do come true!
Well, for those that are interested!
Real fire, duvet in front of, nice bottle of wine, good dvd and a great hour and a half of fun with the missus. Then I raised the subject of swinging. A relatively short discussion ensued with me in no doubt whatsoever that it wasn't something she would consider.
I'm more disappoined than I ever thought I would be so I guess no where to go from here? :cry:
I think it is likely that a woman, who has not thought about swinging much and most of 'em haven't, will take the suggestion to mean that you're tired of being with just her. So, I guess it's possible that immediately after you've had sex, when she is thinking she is the only one for you, may not be the best time. That said if it ain't gonna happen - no time is a good time.
:twisted: worked for me TE :twisted:
In a sun lounger in the garden as I recall, some moments stick in your mind forever, where you were when you heard about Moon Landings, Kennedy, Princess Di, Take That splitting, I'm a celetbrity, Xfactor, and ..... the moment you suggested swinging to your wife!
If nothing else - Sparky has told his wife that their fantasies really turn him on. OK - so they don't quite agree on how far they should go as individuals, what they need to agree on, is how far they will go as a couple. They have been bloody brave to get this far, and should be told so.
Sparky, if you had a choice between a swinging lifestyle withour your wife, and what you have now, which would you choose?
lhk
Kat
If its relevant married 14 years and early forties. 
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