Advice on Chameleon

21 May 2007

We are new to the scene and are a bi f and straight m ,can you advise the best night to suit us and any tips that may help

21 May 2007

Well, assuming we are talking about Chameleons in Darlaston, I'd say either Sundays (relaxed and a bit quieter) or Saturdays (couples only - a bit cliquey, but you won't be shooing away single men as it's couples only after 7).

22 May 2007

As this is a thread asking for advice rather than a meet, I'll move you into the Cafe.
I think Mister_Discreet has made some good points though :thumbup:

22 May 2007

Also try reading the 'Xtasia or chameleons' thread or the club reveiws for what type of club you think you may be personally suited to :P
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23 May 2007

Quote by Ms_minxie
Also try reading the 'Xtasia or chameleons' thread or the club reveiws for what type of club you think you may be personally suited to :P
xxxx

They might look, they started that one as well!

23 May 2007

Personally speaking i wouldnt recomend saturdays even tho it is cpls night as mr discreet said its very cliquey and as a new couple you will fimd it very hard to mix, even if your not after single men another night would be better maybe a night thro the week when its not so busy or a sunday afternoon and see how you go, most if not nearly all the single guys there are ok if you say no they usually leave you alone, saying that u may be after single guys i dont know lol

23 May 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
Also try reading the 'Xtasia or chameleons' thread or the club reveiws for what type of club you think you may be personally suited to :P
xxxx

They might look, they started that one as well!
Oh Yea!!!!

Im a daft plonker !!

24 May 2007

What about Bi-Night on Monday evenings? Although I'm not sure whether this is mainly for bi men or also for bi women or whether it's best for both members of the couple to be bi...
It also depends whether you're lady is particularly interested in exploring her bi side or not?
Whatever you do, go for it, decide on your boundaries and have fun!!!

30 May 2007

When we were new to Swinging we only went to places on Couples nights as we perceived it to be safer.
I don't get it when people say that Chameleons is cliquey on a Saturday night. Don't get it at all.
There are normally getting on for 150 couples through the doors on a Saturday night and the bar area is a fantastic place to sit and be around sexy, liberated people having a bit of fun. Sure there are reguular groups and friends there, there is bound to be. We don't have any Swinging friends but we would never say that Chams is cliquey on a Saturday night, we always chat and...................
Do yourselves a favour and get down there on a Saturday and make an effort for Mrs to dress up - we love the fact that there are so many women of all ages and shapes and sizes who make an effort to dress and look sexy and it all adds to the atmosphere.

30 May 2007

I've only been to a Saturday night and a Monday (bi) night.
I can't really comment so much on the Saturday as I was a nervous newbie but on the Monday - when you'd expect the age old issues of single males - it was fine! great, in fact. No one over-stepped the mark - in fact the guys were very polite and considerate.
But possibly bi nights not really your thing?
We're thinking to go on a Friday soon - what's that like?

30 May 2007

Quote by Marya_Northeast
We're thinking to go on a Friday soon - what's that like?

Well, funny you should ask.................
We went last Friday and a thoroughly enjoyable time. Yes one or two guys can be a bit forward but hey we know that a mans brain goes to his cock when he gets excited and there was certainly plenty to be excited about.
Overall there were more couples than guys but I think the couples who were looking for threesomes or gang bangs got what they wanted and other couples just did their thing. We had a bit of fun in the top room at the back (with the fire escape) and also watched a woman take on about 8 guys in the orgy room (wow) mostly we played in the alcove in the bar and had a very sexy and enjoyable night - no complaints at all.