Well princess it all depends on how you want to start. In my opinion it;d be better to start of privately with a female or couple etc rather than jump right into the deep end and go to a party. Just the way we chose to do it but people are different and like different things.
But on the other hand you could go to a party and not join in the first time, just sort of watch and if you like the look of things then go back a second time and perhaps try it.
Either way youdont have to do anything you dont want to do so it all depends on what youd like to do first really.
Vicky xx
My first experience was at a party in a small hotel who caters for swingers, it was really good. They all said to me that I didn't have to do anything I didn't want to do but I was free to join in also. It was a good laugh and REALLY good fun! The atmosphere was relaxed, it was couples only which could be a good thing for a first time couple I think and when we got down to the real fun the other people were keen to include me once I had decided to join in.
I found once I got turned on the nerves floated away and I was completely relaxed and I had a fantastic time.
So I guess maybe what I'm saying is, try a smaller party or swinging with another couple, whichever you prefer and see how it goes. All you need to remember is that no means no for everyone involved and you can go as little or as far as you are comfortable with.
wellcome to you both.
the guys and gals here may be amongst the best people you could turn to for advice, friendly and honest, and also happy to help
have fun
Erm i usually find a nice park, not too big, not too small....
Now for the technical bit. Find a swing!
Once your sitting correctly either get someone to push you or move it yourself.
Are all questions this easy
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does your b/f have a nick, or will he post as princess pussy too?
Hi Princess Pussy,
I'm not an experienced swinger, so I'm about as useful as a chocolate teapot!
You may find it useful to post on here for a while and go to some munches, where you can meet people for a social chat and a drink or two.
Welcome to the forums and enjoy!
We started in clubs and have never seen any reason to do anything but use clubs. We've never been troubled by timewasters or had long journeys to meets that have not been successful. They are sociable places where you can do as much, or as little as you want. If we were starting again that is definitely the route we would take.
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