Advice on how to start swinging

17 Feb 2005

Hi there.
Can anyone please give me advice on how to join the swinging scene.
My boyfriend and I would like to get into swinging. We have been together for quite a while and are interested in meeting other couples of girls for fun and sex. I have never been with another girl, although I have snogged some and enjoyed it very much, but have always been turned on by the thought of having sex with a girl. I have now got to the stage that I want to explore my sexual feelings for women. I have also always been turned on by the thought of my boyfriend shagging another girl whilst I join in.
We have looked at this site and decided that we both definately want to give swinging a try, but don't know whether we should try a swinging party or club, or whether we should reply to one of the ads on here.
As newcomers to the scene, we would really like some advice from experienced swingers.
Thank you. biggrin

17 Feb 2005

Well princess it all depends on how you want to start. In my opinion it;d be better to start of privately with a female or couple etc rather than jump right into the deep end and go to a party. Just the way we chose to do it but people are different and like different things.
But on the other hand you could go to a party and not join in the first time, just sort of watch and if you like the look of things then go back a second time and perhaps try it.
Either way youdont have to do anything you dont want to do so it all depends on what youd like to do first really.
Vicky xx

17 Feb 2005

My first experience was at a party in a small hotel who caters for swingers, it was really good. They all said to me that I didn't have to do anything I didn't want to do but I was free to join in also. It was a good laugh and REALLY good fun! The atmosphere was relaxed, it was couples only which could be a good thing for a first time couple I think and when we got down to the real fun the other people were keen to include me once I had decided to join in.
I found once I got turned on the nerves floated away and I was completely relaxed and I had a fantastic time.
So I guess maybe what I'm saying is, try a smaller party or swinging with another couple, whichever you prefer and see how it goes. All you need to remember is that no means no for everyone involved and you can go as little or as far as you are comfortable with.

17 Feb 2005

princess pussy
Best of luck to you and your boyfriend, they are a great bunch in here and despite how some of them look they are full of wisdom....... lol

:lol: :lol:
Listen out for advice and you can't go wrong, all the advice given in the previous posts above appears to be sound.
Welcome to the party :twisted:

17 Feb 2005

wellcome to you both.
the guys and gals here may be amongst the best people you could turn to for advice, friendly and honest, and also happy to help
have fun

17 Feb 2005

Erm i usually find a nice park, not too big, not too small....
Now for the technical bit. Find a swing!
Once your sitting correctly either get someone to push you or move it yourself.
Are all questions this easy
(irony detector enabled)

17 Feb 2005

does your b/f have a nick, or will he post as princess pussy too?

17 Feb 2005

Hi Princess Pussy,
I'm not an experienced swinger, so I'm about as useful as a chocolate teapot!
You may find it useful to post on here for a while and go to some munches, where you can meet people for a social chat and a drink or two.
Welcome to the forums and enjoy!

17 Feb 2005

We started in clubs and have never seen any reason to do anything but use clubs. We've never been troubled by timewasters or had long journeys to meets that have not been successful. They are sociable places where you can do as much, or as little as you want. If we were starting again that is definitely the route we would take.