We are very much into multi guy playing but have only experienced this at clubs but wold like to arrange something at our home or a hotel venue.
We would like to hear from other couples who have made successful arrangements and advise us of the best ways of going about planning such an event.
Your help and advice would be greatly appreciated.
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Cant offer you any advice on this but I am certainly sitting back and hoping to get some tips on the best way to organise this 
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We are very much into multi guy playing but have only experienced this at clubs but wold like to arrange something at our home or a hotel venue.
We would like to hear from other couples who have made successful arrangements and advise us of the best ways of going about planning such an event.
Your help and advice would be greatly appreciated.
Here's a few ideas to save your time
Decide what you want before you advertise and stick to it. You will get a lot of replies so pick your requirements and state what they are. If people reply who are not what you want, ignore them, they are wasting their own time.
You will get drop outs and dreamers. If you, say, want 5 guys, consider not everyone will turn up. It's up to you how you deal with this. One way is to have a reserve list.
On the day you might get people who say they're gonna be late, or whatever. Up to you how you deal with this, but consider that someone arriving late might well ruin the atmopshere. Be prepared to be harsh and not let them in.
If you're doing it at home, think about neighbours, parking etc - practical issues can ruin an otherwise good time.
I could go on but I won't :P
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On the day you might get people who say they're gonna be late, or whatever. Up to you how you deal with this, but consider that someone arriving late might well ruin the atmopshere. Be prepared to be harsh and not let them in.
Do I get away with it because you just know I'm going to be late from day one
Goodluck goodtimegirl, hope it works out, a couple near me tried to do one, even invited the blokes back in twos before the event to check out how genuine they were but as I was the only one who sent a text a few days before saying can't wait, hope plans going well etc, the rest hadn't even been in contact, it got cancelled. There are decent folks out there, it's just picking them out.
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Harry Jones
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If you change your mind, and you want say 5 guys at your G.B, book at least 15 to 20, then you have some hope at least 5 will turn up!! 
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If you change your mind, and you want say 5 guys at your G.B, book at least 15 to 20, then you have some hope at least 5 will turn up!!
Ah yes, been there tried that, and every bugger turned up -- LOL
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Quote by bluexxx
If you change your mind, and you want say 5 guys at your G.B, book at least 15 to 20, then you have some hope at least 5 will turn up!!
Ah yes, been there tried that, and every bugger turned up -- LOL
They were probably too scared not to!! :scared:
Consider recruiting a single guy to organise it for you. He would take charge of finding the participants (with your approval, of course) and supplying a venue.
This way you avoid many of the hassles that come with organising such an event yourself. You can also often find male gangbang groups that are standing by, much like the A-Team, to respond wherever there is a need.
This way you avoid many of the hassles that come with organising such an event yourself. You can also often find male gangbang groups that are standing by, much like the A-Team, to respond wherever there is a need.
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Quote by Browneyes71
Consider recruiting a single guy to organise it for you. He would take charge of finding the participants (with your approval, of course) and supplying a venue.
This way you avoid many of the hassles that come with organising such an event yourself. You can also often find male gangbang groups that are standing by, much like the A-Team, to respond wherever there is a need.
I have always steered clear away from efforts like that as I have never trusted anyone enough to choose the right guys. I have been to group meets organised by friends (who were couples) without knowing what guys are going to turn up. But that was different as I trusted them to be able to deal with the situation should it get out of hand, and in those situations I wasn't the bangee anyway
I do know that some guys do successfully organise group events, but personally I would have to know that guy really well - and that probably defeats the object.
But it's horses for courses, it could be one way to go if you fancy that type of thing. I guess it's like buying Xmas :P
