Isn't it a bit squidgy??
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I like to have a bit of a freshen up first of all then a cuddle and chat, more wine/coffee/fag etc. I hate the thought of a 'fuck and go' meet.
The last meet I had we both fell asleep afterwards and woke with the alarm at 7am :shock: It was a very enjoyable evening and night :twisted:
Squidgy is good – as is a lot of holding stroking and cuddling – if you have a good thing going the last thing you want is to cut and run !!! So the answer to the question is that afterplay is important as well