Guess this topic will have been covered before but is there an age where swinging becomes just wrong? I am 46 and my partner 42, we are both fit and happy in our bodies but the thought of perhaps getting it on with another couple at say 55 seems scary and a tad wrong!! I see profiles here of couples that age and I think wow...............
Tricky one just wondered what you all think??
When I was on as a single fem I didn`t really go for younger guys or anyone over 50ish, its nothing to do with rights or wrongs but with personal preference and choice. I`m not ageist, others can meet who they like, it just was a boundary for me.
I don't think I have age boundaries anymore.
I've met guys who are in their early twenties and late fifties and all points in between. It totally depends on the person and whether I find them sexy for whatever reason.
if you go on to have a sexuality which keeps developing, then it just brings into play new stages of frustrations and pleasures. so you more or less retain your equilibrium.
but after your own age moves on you change and providing your sexuality moves with you have just as much opportunity and success as you ever do.
but right now i find older women have sex appeal, some youngsters do.
i don't imagine getting together with someone frail and ailing. but if my sexuality stays with me, i expect i may be looking about for some new adventures.
its something i have to battle with every time i met people, ive had people fly insults at me that im too young to even know what this scene is and ive had people tell me that they wish they had done it sooner...
i must admidt lol however i know 80% of people are always older then me i do tend to go couples who are in the late 30s mid 40s range it isnt a strict boundary but i have always felt comfortable and seem to have alot more things to talk about with people in that age...
i have personally had to really show people that i am differnt why .... so i can get into their pants O_o and amazingly ive had a few people say that i have a very mature out look on certain areas.
please dont get me wrong add alcohol and i want to be peter pan and never grow up.
but all in all if people dont want to play with you because all they see is a number in my eyes then fair enough move along to the next profile.
what an ageist comment to make that its wrong to swing in your 50,s or over
some people are sexully active throughtout their whole life, why should swinging matter if there are mutually interested parties out there
if your not comfortable with meeting older people thats your preference but you shouldnt be so judgemental, how would you feel if you were frowned upon by people in their 30,s thinking your past it? you are not that far off your 50,s yourself, what are you going to do then?
Where did I say it was wrong??
All I said was that I wondered how I would feel about it in my 50's/ 60's??
There are no hard and fast rules for me as it depends on the person and whether we click. I suppose I tend to get on best with people in their 30s to 50s - but that is purely a generalisation. For me sexual attraction starts with the brain. If I really like someone then whether they are older or younger than me is largely irrelevant and actually becomes 'invisible'.
Will
at the end of the day though, its your call 
