I'd never really considered my age until I arrived on this site. It never seemed important, I'd always just been me being me. I can't believe how conscious of it I've become since I've been here.
I remember my ex wife being quite depressed coming up to her 30th birthday and me thinking "yeah right, what difference does it make? You'll only be a day older" and the same thing happened again coming up to her 40th.
The question of age never seems to be far from the surface on here though. To the majority it could probably even be the most important statistic they look for. So, if anybody wants to buy a bottle of my patented elixir of youth send me a pm. :shock:
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Orgasminator
Quote by Clare_Lincs
Age doesnt mean a thing Steve your great thats all that matters,your only as old as you feel.
Steve got told that he didnt look old enough to have sex ffs !!!
I prefer 'your only as old as the woman you feel', so cum'ere clare ;)
Sex God
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if anybody wants to buy a bottle of my patented elixir of youth send me a pm. :shock:
Steve
Is there any chance of you sending my bottle to me with a free Tommy Tippee cup, cos I spilll a lot these days
A very good friend of mine actually chips a few years off in things like ads. I never have as I fail to see the point.
I think the problem with the concept of age is not chronological years but looks, TBH. If you are 40 and look good for your age, you feel more inclined to honesty. If you have that 'lived in' look, I can understand the tempation.
I'm 39 and couldn't give a stuff about numbers... I just go for looks and personality.
Hxx
I think the problem with the concept of age is not chronological years but looks, TBH. If you are 40 and look good for your age, you feel more inclined to honesty. If you have that 'lived in' look, I can understand the tempation.
I'm 39 and couldn't give a stuff about numbers... I just go for looks and personality.
Hxx
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One of the oldest women on here
or should I say - Old Minger
If you're fishing for compliments, I'll gladly take the bait.
You're beautiful, inside and out! (And no, I'm not still drunk)
Sex God
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Steve
Can I arrange an intravenous drip?
Alex x x
One of the oldest women on here
or should I say - Old Minger (tm Punky 2004)
I will join you Alex
P.S. there are advantages..........cant wait for Harvest festival handout from the local school, cos I'm clean out of tinned peas.
Quote by Ice Pie
One of the oldest women on here
or should I say - Old Minger
If you're fishing for compliments, I'll gladly take the bait.
You're beautiful, inside and out! (And no, I'm not still drunk)
I never fish for compliments.
But thank you Ice - what a lovely thing to say!
(suspects Ice has been having one too many 'hairs of the dog' - rushes to phone to book him an opticians appointment ............... what am I doing!!!!!!!!! - best keep the bad eyesight)
Sexlightened
I think todays society places too much emphasis on trying to look young and cosmetic surgery etc. There is alot of emhasis on looks and not on attitude , have met alot more liberated people over 40 then 20s so think the emphasis should be on outlook. Also remember as a teenager when my friends mother was more attractive then the girl next door.
Sex God
Age, I have a few observations:-
It seems to me that there is never "the ideal age"... everyone either wants to be older when they are younger or younger when they are older...... The logic of that is that somewhere in the middle one must be at some point in their life "the ideal age". What is that ideal age???
Are we talking Age as in looks and the effect it has on them, or Age as in mental attitude?
Outside of looks, age is just a number, but you need to get to a certain place in your life to be able to understand and accept that fully. I felt older 10 years ago than I do now....
I agree I may physically look older, but my mind and actions are younger... Subsequently as I act younger, I attract younger friends etc..... When I do tell people my age quite often they reply that they thought I was younger.
I remember getting to 40 and having a bit of a crisis about getting older.... it took 2-3 years to get past it, and once I accepted that the clock kept ticking no matter what, and there is no way to stop or turn it back, it ceased to matter so much.
I’ve now past 50 but feel 25, however, as if to balance things out the old bones sometimes feel 75.
Just IMHO
Frogster
It seems to me that there is never "the ideal age"... everyone either wants to be older when they are younger or younger when they are older...... The logic of that is that somewhere in the middle one must be at some point in their life "the ideal age". What is that ideal age???
Are we talking Age as in looks and the effect it has on them, or Age as in mental attitude?
Outside of looks, age is just a number, but you need to get to a certain place in your life to be able to understand and accept that fully. I felt older 10 years ago than I do now....
I agree I may physically look older, but my mind and actions are younger... Subsequently as I act younger, I attract younger friends etc..... When I do tell people my age quite often they reply that they thought I was younger.
I remember getting to 40 and having a bit of a crisis about getting older.... it took 2-3 years to get past it, and once I accepted that the clock kept ticking no matter what, and there is no way to stop or turn it back, it ceased to matter so much.
I’ve now past 50 but feel 25, however, as if to balance things out the old bones sometimes feel 75.
Just IMHO
Frogster
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Quote by frogster
I’ve now past 50 but feel 25
I'm 41 and feel about 14. Well I've been acting 14 anyway. Need to get a grip.
I had a severe crisis approaching 30, but since then life has passed rather quickly and all of a sudden I was approaching 40....
I thought "uh oh here we go again" but nope..... no crisis, just an acceptance that comes with age and wisdom....
However........... I have just realised that I am fast approaching 41 and I realised I kinda like being 40......
I can blame all of my antics on having reached the "rebellious" age..... What am I going to blame it on now??
I think I am going to stick with being 40
Shireen
xxx
I thought "uh oh here we go again" but nope..... no crisis, just an acceptance that comes with age and wisdom....
However........... I have just realised that I am fast approaching 41 and I realised I kinda like being 40......
I can blame all of my antics on having reached the "rebellious" age..... What am I going to blame it on now??I think I am going to stick with being 40
Shireen
xxx
Sex God
Quote by lilacgem
I had a "big" thing when I reached 30, but like you say its just another day & I'm still me, but now as 40 is fast approaching I'm having the same feelingsheres hoping :P
When I turned 20 I was terrified that people would start taking me seriously, hold me responsible for my own actions and not let me behave like a kid any more. I got over it eventually though, and by the time I was 29 I was ready to become an adult.
When I turned 30 I was terrified that people would start taking me seriously, hold me responsible for my own actions and not let me behave like a kid any more. I got over it eventually though, and by the time I was 39 I was ready to become an adult.
When I turned 40 I was terrified that people would start taking me seriously, hold me responsible for my own actions and not let me behave like a kid any more. I'll get over it eventually though, and by the time I'm 49 I'll be ready to become an adult.
(Edit: Post number for this is a binary baker's dozen. Not that I'm superstitious or anything, but as I hit the submit button, my favourite picture fell off the wall and the frame's broken :shock: )
Warming the Bed
I'm 23, but sadly look older... But I don't give a fcuk! I'm a top lad, not too bad looking and have a real 'zest' for life!
Woo YAY!
Woo YAY!
Why are all you youngsters claiming to be old? I'm just past the 60 mark, so am really in there!
The trouble is, the enthusiasm is still there, but will one be taken seriously, or just be classed as a DOM?
One advantage of more advanced age, of course, is that the youthful enthusiasm to get to the crisis is gone, and I like to ensure that the lady has all the O's she requires before I climax.
A disadvantage is that it takes me much longer to recover than before - so that's another good reason for the aforementioned consideration, 'cos I won't be expected to recover too quickly. It's also a good reason for MMF rather than any other combination.
Hope this is not too serious a reply!
The trouble is, the enthusiasm is still there, but will one be taken seriously, or just be classed as a DOM?
One advantage of more advanced age, of course, is that the youthful enthusiasm to get to the crisis is gone, and I like to ensure that the lady has all the O's she requires before I climax.
A disadvantage is that it takes me much longer to recover than before - so that's another good reason for the aforementioned consideration, 'cos I won't be expected to recover too quickly. It's also a good reason for MMF rather than any other combination.
Hope this is not too serious a reply!
I think age is nothing but a number.
Im 23 and have been with younger girls girls my own age an older women.
Personaly i prefer an older lady as i find ladies become more open minded about life and sex as they mature.
I also find 30 plus women and guys my age sexually are very compatable.
I think the big key is the chemistry u need 2 be able 2 hold a conversation and have a sense of humour and that is just down to the individual rather than the persons age.
I also think that some women saying young guys cant hold a conversation are very naive as i have held conversations with women and had more to talk about experiense wise in my 23 years as they did in there 40 years.
so lets keep age as a number and chemistry as a reason 2 be friends!
Im 23 and have been with younger girls girls my own age an older women.
Personaly i prefer an older lady as i find ladies become more open minded about life and sex as they mature.
I also find 30 plus women and guys my age sexually are very compatable.
I think the big key is the chemistry u need 2 be able 2 hold a conversation and have a sense of humour and that is just down to the individual rather than the persons age.
I also think that some women saying young guys cant hold a conversation are very naive as i have held conversations with women and had more to talk about experiense wise in my 23 years as they did in there 40 years.
so lets keep age as a number and chemistry as a reason 2 be friends!
Age has never been a problem for us either....It's the person inside that matters. I'm 26 but often feel 96 LOL. Hubby is 11 years older than me and it doesnt bother us. We have never put ages for peeps on our ad either (Lokking for 20-50) eg.
Steve u are lovely hun Dont let anyone ever tell ya different. You are wot u are so enjoy it....Oh btw...cute arse hehehehe
(not that i was peeking...honest
Steve u are lovely hun
Dont let anyone ever tell ya different. You are wot u are so enjoy it....Oh btw...cute arse hehehehe(not that i was peeking...honest
