Speaking of feathers (making me tingle :twisted: ) I bought a beautiful deep red feather from Pulse and Cocktails recently and it REALLY does the trick for me
CA xxx
Well smiler, looks like you are having fun with us already.
Age really isn't an issue.
Gill x
I keep being told i look 10yrs older than i am
We haven't got an issue at all with age, I'm 21 and Mr Snowcpl is 49. Yes we have found that the majority of the people we have chatted to have been 35+ but have never found anyone that is not happy with our age gap, me being what they consider to be too young or my boyfriend being too old. The only comments we've had is that I 'look' too young and they wouldn't feel comfortable with that.
As long as people are honest when it comes to their reasons then thats fine with us, we'd rathersay thank you and move on than waste anybody's time.
Two years ago when I was 52 I met and eventually had a fling with a girl of 33 who was a fitness instructor. Not only was the sex good but we also got on very well together out of bed. It only ended when she moved to another area to take up a new job so the relationship ended but we are still the best of friends. The odd thing was that when when first stated dating I was more bothered about the age difference than her plus there were the usual cracks and jokes from my friends, who were probably envious of my good fortune.
Bump up time again!! Sorry - but I just enjoy reading some of the threads that were around before me!!! This subject came up in an msn chat earlier - so I was kinda drawn to this one.
I have always been drawn to older people and can't quote figure that out. Have to say that i do fight shy of younger ones. Haven't quite figured out why yet - so don't ask me why!!
Just thought it'd be nice to hear the views of some of the newbies on here - seeing as we have had quite a few join lately.
So.......?
i personally think age is just a number if you are attracted pysically and mentally to a person then why should there age get in the way.
that's my opinion anyway
When you say you drawn to older people how old are you then Rainbow?x
We just had the most wonderful 4 days with a guy who is 2 years older than my dad. No complaints from any of us.
This seems like a good time to mention that I am about nine days older than God. :lol2:
To us age is irrelevent, it's just a number!
Since we started swinging 4years ago, M has been with guys from 21 to 57!
For me age is largely irrelevant because:
- I'm a much better lover now than I was in my 20's & 30's - OK so I may have been a late developer, but practice makes perfect!
- Physiological age varies greatly between individuals of the same age in years so specifying an age in years is misleading. Most people when they see me clothed or naked think I'm 10 years younger than I am.
- The most important thing for me is to make some human contact with a person otherwise it can be a pretty sterile experience, satisfying physically but not mentally.
I'm comfortable with any age / size / race / sexual preference (!) provided we can establish we have something in common. Otherwise there's no sense of fun and what do you talk about between / afterwards? Agreed, its probably easier to talk to people of a similar age, but learning to see the world through other's eyes is an essential and fascinating thing to do for all sorts of reasons.
I wasn't ageist till I first came on this site and went into the chat room. People would chat to me, then ask how old I was (I'm 42), and then say "sorry, you're too old for us". Too old for what? I was chatting, what did they think I wanted? Cheeky barstools! But it did kind of give me a complex.
So now I'm ageist, but not against other people, only against me :cry:
I better have my twopenny worth......
since i'm one of the oldies on here (( no offence Medic ))
I've been to 3 munches and evryone appears friendly to me.
However that Chat room !!!!!
there are a certain number of females who always take the p**s outta me.
Spose i wind them up a little.
Anyway gotta go now....Matron coming round
Well I love older men.......the first man that i ever had sex with was 26 years older than me.....and it didn't matter in the slightest....
I must admit that when it comes to younger men I am a little wary as they're often not very mature about looks and I can't claim to be a size 6 model.....LoL....but obviously that's not ALL younger men, just some.....so it depends on what they're like and how they talk to me.....and whether we get on or not.....
Well my most recent long-term relationship was with a woman 25 years younger than me, and we got on fantastically well in every way.
I don't really know what "maturity" means, everyone has a different idea of it I think.
Mike.
I was in a relationship with a woman 10yrs older than me and the age was never a problem