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Speaking of feathers (making me tingle :twisted: ) I bought a beautiful deep red feather from Pulse and Cocktails recently and it REALLY does the trick for me
CA xxx
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hehe no need to worry about brushes here, just watch out for the erm feathers and whips and dildos!! lol

you've been looking in my toy box !!!! smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom:
Lucy xx
Well smiler, looks like you are having fun with us already.
Age really isn't an issue.
Gill x
I knew i shouldn't have put that pic on here! lol redface
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I knew i shouldn't have put that pic on here! lol redface

Nowt wrong with the pic. You look great for a young un biggrin
Gill x
I keep being told i look 10yrs older than i am
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I keep being told i look 10yrs older than i am

You look all good to me too! That dundeecpl really do have good taste! ;)
My PM box is always open. :rascal:
We haven't got an issue at all with age, I'm 21 and Mr Snowcpl is 49. Yes we have found that the majority of the people we have chatted to have been 35+ but have never found anyone that is not happy with our age gap, me being what they consider to be too young or my boyfriend being too old. The only comments we've had is that I 'look' too young and they wouldn't feel comfortable with that.
As long as people are honest when it comes to their reasons then thats fine with us, we'd rathersay thank you and move on than waste anybody's time.
Two years ago when I was 52 I met and eventually had a fling with a girl of 33 who was a fitness instructor. Not only was the sex good but we also got on very well together out of bed. It only ended when she moved to another area to take up a new job so the relationship ended but we are still the best of friends. The odd thing was that when when first stated dating I was more bothered about the age difference than her plus there were the usual cracks and jokes from my friends, who were probably envious of my good fortune.
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I keep being told i look 10yrs older than i am

You look all good to me too! That dundeecpl really do have good taste! ;)
My PM box is always open. :rascal:
Cheers guy's didn't think i'd be made to feel this welcome being a young single guy but i was wrong lol wink redface :wink:
^^^Glad to see you've had a warm welcome here so far mate
I would hope for the same biggrin
and like I said in the other thread, I beleive I am younger than you, so you neednt feel like the baby anymore wink
Bump up time again!! Sorry - but I just enjoy reading some of the threads that were around before me!!! This subject came up in an msn chat earlier - so I was kinda drawn to this one.
I have always been drawn to older people and can't quote figure that out. Have to say that i do fight shy of younger ones. Haven't quite figured out why yet - so don't ask me why!!
Just thought it'd be nice to hear the views of some of the newbies on here - seeing as we have had quite a few join lately.
So.......?
i personally think age is just a number if you are attracted pysically and mentally to a person then why should there age get in the way.
that's my opinion anyway
When you say you drawn to older people how old are you then Rainbow?x
We just had the most wonderful 4 days with a guy who is 2 years older than my dad. No complaints from any of us.
This seems like a good time to mention that I am about nine days older than God. :lol2:
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This seems like a good time to mention that I am about nine days older than God. :lol2:

But considerably younger than my dad.
To us age is irrelevent, it's just a number!
Since we started swinging 4years ago, M has been with guys from 21 to 57!
As Steve said earlier in the thread age just isnt an issue for us and never will find all different kinds of peeps attractive and age isnt something worth worrying about,it doesnt really matter at all. biggrin
For me age is largely irrelevant because:
- I'm a much better lover now than I was in my 20's & 30's - OK so I may have been a late developer, but practice makes perfect!
- Physiological age varies greatly between individuals of the same age in years so specifying an age in years is misleading. Most people when they see me clothed or naked think I'm 10 years younger than I am.
- The most important thing for me is to make some human contact with a person otherwise it can be a pretty sterile experience, satisfying physically but not mentally.
I'm comfortable with any age / size / race / sexual preference (!) provided we can establish we have something in common. Otherwise there's no sense of fun and what do you talk about between / afterwards? Agreed, its probably easier to talk to people of a similar age, but learning to see the world through other's eyes is an essential and fascinating thing to do for all sorts of reasons.
I wasn't ageist till I first came on this site and went into the chat room. People would chat to me, then ask how old I was (I'm 42), and then say "sorry, you're too old for us". Too old for what? I was chatting, what did they think I wanted? Cheeky barstools! But it did kind of give me a complex.
So now I'm ageist, but not against other people, only against me :cry:
I better have my twopenny worth......
since i'm one of the oldies on here (( no offence Medic ))
I've been to 3 munches and evryone appears friendly to me.
However that Chat room !!!!!
there are a certain number of females who always take the p**s outta me.
Spose i wind them up a little.
Anyway gotta go now....Matron coming round
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I better have my twopenny worth......
since i'm one of the oldies on here (( no offence Medic ))
I've been to 3 munches and evryone appears friendly to me.
However that Chat room !!!!!
there are a certain number of females who always take the p**s outta me.
Spose i wind them up a little.
Anyway gotta go now....Matron coming round

I've watched you chatting in the chat room, mature, and you're always the one who mentions zimmer frames first! lol
Mike.
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I openly admit that I will say to someone, I'm sorry but I feel uncomfortable with your age.
I am 22 and find that playing with someone who is aged 55 is playing with my parents generation. They are the same age as my parents, which I can't seem to get out of my mind and is a major turn off for me. Likewise I have been turned away because they have chidlren of a similar age to me. I don't grumble, I find someone who does want me. biggrin
I am open to new experiences to a point, so I would never say never.
Would I change my preferences to suit everyone else? confused I don't think so and why should I?

I am 43, I have been lucky enough to have meetings with a 22yr old lass and a 59 yr old lady where both sides were very satisfied, true the stamina with the 22 yr old was found to be lacking towards the end, but as she said, the experience more than made up for the waning energy, perhaps I couldnt come 7 or 8 times in a 6 hours period ( hell I dont think I ever could do that anyway ) but as I kept her cooking all the time she was very pleased
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Bump up time again!! Sorry - but I just enjoy reading some of the threads that were around before me!!! This subject came up in an msn chat earlier - so I was kinda drawn to this one.
I have always been drawn to older people and can't quote figure that out. Have to say that i do fight shy of younger ones. Haven't quite figured out why yet - so don't ask me why!!
Just thought it'd be nice to hear the views of some of the newbies on here - seeing as we have had quite a few join lately.
So.......?

looks like you tend to go for the experienced lover more, the type who may not have as much stamina but will be inclined to look after your needs before their own instead of the younger people who are not always so thoughtful please note, this is not a guaranteed thing with either age group, merely a personal view and not meant disrespectfully to any age group
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I wasn't ageist till I first came on this site and went into the chat room. People would chat to me, then ask how old I was (I'm 42), and then say "sorry, you're too old for us". Too old for what? I was chatting, what did they think I wanted? Cheeky barstools! But it did kind of give me a complex.
So now I'm ageist, but not against other people, only against me :cry:

lol, screw that juliet, if they just are unable to get past the age gap for whatever reason, well so what. I have had rejections as being too old from ppl in their mid to late 30's
I have been rejected also because I am too young as well as being to old, so what, thats just life, the rejections were not crude or nasty, polite and aplogetic would be more to the point
If everybody liked the same things it sure as hell would be a boring world
Well I love older men.......the first man that i ever had sex with was 26 years older than me.....and it didn't matter in the slightest....
I must admit that when it comes to younger men I am a little wary as they're often not very mature about looks and I can't claim to be a size 6 model.....LoL....but obviously that's not ALL younger men, just some.....so it depends on what they're like and how they talk to me.....and whether we get on or not.....
Well my most recent long-term relationship was with a woman 25 years younger than me, and we got on fantastically well in every way.
I don't really know what "maturity" means, everyone has a different idea of it I think.
Mike.
I was in a relationship with a woman 10yrs older than me and the age was never a problem
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My PM box is always open. :rascal:

:wanker: hump kiss
On the subject of age, its the chemistry that matters to me. I've been with a 23 yr old girl, & some up to about 49. I'd be happy to go a lot higher than that, as there are some superb looking women in their 60s. :P :P
And I would agree that posts on the Forum are ripped apart for their content, not because of the age of the poster.
I admit I feel a little uncomfortable with the thought of playing with someone who is old enough to be my parent but I'm starting to calm down a little on that score! My current plans include a guy who is only 2 years younger than my dad!
I always went for younger men as a rule but I have had my eyes opened by a few older, more experienced guys who showed me a trick or two wink Experience is more of an issue than age IMO, I do prefer a man who knows what he's doing now :twisted: