We just lost one of the young members of JGL. Young but VERY mature. He took a break (not left) for very mature reasons.
I have had PM's today from people who met me last night and who are surprised at my age (thank you!!).
I have read sooooo many mesages from people saying "I'm the wrong side of 40"
I've responded to people who have responded to my ad asying "sorry too young"/
I know we have had age threads b4 - but I'm in a melancholy mood tonight after meetimg so many fantastic people of so many diff ages last night.
So indulge me - what is age?
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Age is whatever you make of it.
I have met very mature young people and very immature older people. Look into the person not what is on the outside.
Like you said, JGL is a mature fellah for his age..........and there are older SH members that I have met that are more youthful than their age says they are. I came on here with pre-conceived ideas about age......but thankfully the members that I have met have shown me that it doesn't matter. It is the whole of the person that counts and not the number.
Dave_Notts
I have met very mature young people and very immature older people. Look into the person not what is on the outside.
Like you said, JGL is a mature fellah for his age..........and there are older SH members that I have met that are more youthful than their age says they are. I came on here with pre-conceived ideas about age......but thankfully the members that I have met have shown me that it doesn't matter. It is the whole of the person that counts and not the number.
Dave_Notts
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I'm 32 so not very young nor very old. I have had lovers who are younger and older and I must admit while I am more physically attracted to younger men I have found the older ones to be more attentive lovers. There is a lot to be said for both younger and older lovers I think, younger ones tend to be more eager to please and will learn but the older ones who know their way around are great fun too, a lot more satisfying without as much effort. Overall now I can't say I have a preference either way and it's always good to keep your options open!
Cant help you out really on this one Rainbows only give a personal view.....
For me, age is a factor when we are swinging.... I am nearly 41 so therefore I wouldn't really like to swing with someone that is potentially young enough to be my son/daughter.... And to be honest I do prefer my men younger....
Yeah yeah I know.... I'll get me coat (tm Warwick 2004)
Shireen
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For me, age is a factor when we are swinging.... I am nearly 41 so therefore I wouldn't really like to swing with someone that is potentially young enough to be my son/daughter.... And to be honest I do prefer my men younger....
Yeah yeah I know.... I'll get me coat (tm Warwick 2004)
Shireen
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Age is deff only a number....At 26 i feel 96 LOL. Hubby is 37 feeling 25 (jammie git lol)
Alot of peeps keep saying to us "Is our age a problem?" to which we reply "no....age is only a number!"
The other thing we have found lately is people saying "looking for cpl aged 20-30 or 30+" well this one is diff as im in my 20's and him 30's LOL.
Sod ages lol...only as old as the woman ya feel....."Get here Rainbows!!!"
^Tigger^ Steve xxx
Alot of peeps keep saying to us "Is our age a problem?" to which we reply "no....age is only a number!"
The other thing we have found lately is people saying "looking for cpl aged 20-30 or 30+" well this one is diff as im in my 20's and him 30's LOL.
Sod ages lol...only as old as the woman ya feel....."Get here Rainbows!!!"
^Tigger^ Steve xxx
Some of the most interesting people i have met are late teens or of the most ignorant are in their fifties and sixties.
Age to me is immaterial as are looks,thats not to say that neither aren't triggers to an attraction,but for me it's what's behind the eyes that matters,and the eyes are the windows of rhe soul.
Age to me is immaterial as are looks,thats not to say that neither aren't triggers to an attraction,but for me it's what's behind the eyes that matters,and the eyes are the windows of rhe soul.
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So indulge me - what is age?
Oh wow, can't believe you've asked this .......... it couldn't have come at a better time!!!!
Frogster
:smackbottom: took it upon himself to tell people I was 28 :shock: 
:rotflmao:So you asking this question, has just saved me a squillion pounds on a facelift before the next munch to prevent scaring people too much - or have to witness their embarrassed faces when they say blimey you look old for 28!!!!! :shock:
Misschief - 38
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Orgasminator
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So indulge me - what is age?
Age is how old others think you are...
As for how old I am...' tis my last palindromic birthday till 55 in a couple of weeks... *sigh*
Send cake!
This is just a personal observation, but over the last couple of years when i've met couples & exchanged experiences (as you do). It's become clear that it's nearly always the younger people who don't show up for a meeting, & are never heard from again. Where as the older people if they don't show, usually ring & explain why. This is what i hear from the people i've met anyway, I'd be interested to hear of anybody else's experiences.
With regard to age in general, again from personal experience I know that i'm much more controlled now than I used to be. In my 20s it used to be over quite quickly regardless of my partners needs. These days my partners needs are paramount & only when the're fully satisfied do I let go, not only does it make things last a lot longer but the long buildup makes the finish that much more pleasurable. For me certainly, it's age & experience that has brought about the more considerate & ultimatly more satisfying side of the lifestyle. So if you haven't yet, all I can say is try an oldie you might just like it :shock:
With regard to age in general, again from personal experience I know that i'm much more controlled now than I used to be. In my 20s it used to be over quite quickly regardless of my partners needs. These days my partners needs are paramount & only when the're fully satisfied do I let go, not only does it make things last a lot longer but the long buildup makes the finish that much more pleasurable. For me certainly, it's age & experience that has brought about the more considerate & ultimatly more satisfying side of the lifestyle. So if you haven't yet, all I can say is try an oldie you might just like it :shock:
Orgasminator
I,m 47 ...there i admit it when i first joined this scene i was a bit shy about what part of forty i was ...but now i have confidence enough not to even worry about it :lol: ... cos it,s just a number and i don,t look it or act it anyway, all i know is me and baz have found a new world with lovely people :bounce: :bounce: 
when i first joined this scene i was a bit shy about what part of forty i was ...but now i have confidence enough not to even worry about it :lol: ... cos it,s just a number and i don,t look it or act it anyway, all i know is me and baz have found a new world with lovely people :bounce: :bounce: 
When it comes to friendship, age is irrelevant. All it takes is something as simple as having a similar sense of humour or a common interest.
I've always been attracted to men younger than myself. Since joining this site I've discovered a multitude of seriously sexy 'older' guys that I wouldn't mind a tussle with and now regret my previous ageist attitude. Oh, the fun I've missed!
I still seem to naturally lean towards the 'toyboys' . I think that's just so ingrained in me now, I've got it for life.
BTW, I have no age-restriction on females!
I've always been attracted to men younger than myself. Since joining this site I've discovered a multitude of seriously sexy 'older' guys that I wouldn't mind a tussle with and now regret my previous ageist attitude. Oh, the fun I've missed!
I still seem to naturally lean towards the 'toyboys' . I think that's just so ingrained in me now, I've got it for life.
BTW, I have no age-restriction on females!
Well I have the joy of being one of those young guys who's older than they are... hang round with peeps in their late 30s and mid 40s more than anything else despite myself being 26... but my friends have always been older than me no matter how or where I meet them. Always tended to find peeps my own age rather frustrating...
Moved out from my parents and into a city of wonder aged 15, and had to cope by myself from early on, so quickly got my head screwed on straight after making all the usual mistakes... and sorta feel middle aged now in a lot of ways (altho a lot of my friends would also shoot me for saying that!)
Such is life!
Moved out from my parents and into a city of wonder aged 15, and had to cope by myself from early on, so quickly got my head screwed on straight after making all the usual mistakes... and sorta feel middle aged now in a lot of ways (altho a lot of my friends would also shoot me for saying that!)
Such is life!
Orgasminator
I,m the opposite to marya, i thought i would only get on and meet guy,s my age and older but since joining this scene i,ve attracted a lot of younger guy,s and had good fun, i,ve found them to be respectful , and mature 
, our regular swinging partner is 32 , but none of us have got any complaints :giggle: :grin: but i,m not saying any age is better than another ...it all depends on the individual
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but since joining this scene i,ve attracted a lot of younger guy,s and had good fun, i,ve found them to be respectful , and mature , our regular swinging partner is 32 , but none of us have got any complaints :giggle: :grin: but i,m not saying any age is better than another ...it all depends on the individual:smile2:
