Now our profile states that we dont look for sigle males, we still get contact from them, winks from them etc which by and large we ignore, sometimes we reply to say sorry not interested, sometimes we dont - more often and not when its an obvious cut and paste job or when askes to meet alone or when blatently not fitting in with any of our preferences (age and distance). We do play occasionally with sigle guys... i do have a distant memory of us doing this lol but we would look for them if we wanted to. We have no issues with single guys and have a number who we chat to regularly and meet socially with so we know that not all guys on here are "baduns" but there are those that give a bad impression for the others... maybe it stands out more as the site is prob 40-60% guys 40-50% couples and 10%ish females.
We have a "shouty comment" as bruicie calls them on our profile... its states: -
*single male's please do not whisper in chat room without asking as doing so will probably offend!*
it then further on states: -
*again single male's please do not whisper in chat room without asking as doing so will probably offend!*
Now we shouldn't have to state this as its in the site rules and so everybody should ask...
Now we do get whispers from couples who dont ask, which is very rare say 3 or 4 a week, after further chatting it would appear that a lot of them have female partners who don't play or are out or have left and "for some reason i'm still showing as a couples profile". We get on average 5 or 6 whispers a day from single males now if these said something reasonable then perhaps (and we have in the past) just ignored and/or overlooked it. However the majority of the time it says "nice pics" (when we had pics on profile lol) "you looking to meet tonight" "is that male or female there"... now the latter always makes me chuckle - it says in profile male types in blue, if both there purple and female red or pink - but as soon as they find out its only the male all of a sudden no reply. Sometimes i have said its female for a laugh and instantly its "you want to meet alone" "got time for a meet before he's back"...
Its things like this that make people put "shouty comments" in and if you dont like it ignore them and move on to next profile, we do...
