All go topless?

29 Aug 2005

Just been on hols and got to wondering - do all ladies who swing go topless on their hols? - I would have thought so.
In which case - are topless women around the pool more likely to be swingers or not?
Dont suppose theres chance of any serious replies without my newby butt gettin kicked around a bit!

29 Aug 2005

its not that ur newbie buttt is getting kicked around its just that this seems to be a bit of a stupid question if truth be known, i mean what has going topless on holiday got to do with being more likely to be a swinger?? confused

29 Aug 2005

I would think a guaranteed way to your your butt kicked is to ask some of the topless women round the pool if they swing!!! biggrin

<< has her helpful head on this morning!>>

29 Aug 2005

Quote by Alleyson
I would think a guaranteed way to your your butt kicked is to ask some of the topless women round the pool if they swing!!!
<< has her helpful head on this morning!>>

thats what i thought so i didnt bother

29 Aug 2005

Quote by bjornblonduk
are topless women around the pool more likely to be swingers or not?

Both my mum and my gran go topless round the pool or on the beach on holiday.. I don't think it means I'm going to bump into them at a munch or in a swing club any time soon... Now THAT would be an embarrassing moment... lol

(er.. your not out there are you mum?)
Topless women on holiday are just that.. usually to get a nice all over tan confused

29 Aug 2005

nobodys answered the first question though - do all swingers go topless on hols?

29 Aug 2005

I think its a fair question.
I go topless but its a matter of personal taste to .
but i dont think people sunbathing topless would all be swingers lol

29 Aug 2005

Well I don't so I guess the answer is no.
<< told you - helpful head>>

29 Aug 2005

i think it might be because it is a fairly daft question and maybe nobody can be bothered, please everybody correct me if im wrong, i will humbly apologise wink

29 Aug 2005

Quote by bjornblonduk
do all swingers go topless on hols?

No

:roll: :roll:

29 Aug 2005

Quote by bjornblonduk
do all ladies who swing go topless on their hols? - are topless women around the pool more likely to be swingers or not?

This reminds me of one of those mensa/IQ questions..
If some swingers are newbies, and some newbies ask daft questions which of these statements is true?
a) All swingers ask daft questions
b) All newbies ask daft questions
c) Some swingers ask daft questions (and as I'm writing this, its obvious some give daft replys as well)
d) Impossible to tell.

29 Aug 2005

I know the question is for women but....
Up until very recently I was quite self conscious and wouldn't ever take my t-shirt off if I was on the beach.
Don't know what changed, but it doesnt bother me anymore, comes off it it needs to...

29 Aug 2005

Quote by wolvie_dude
do all ladies who swing go topless on their hols? - are topless women around the pool more likely to be swingers or not?

This reminds me of one of those mensa/IQ questions..
If some swingers are newbies, and some newbies ask daft questions which of these statements is true?
a) All swingers ask daft questions
b) All newbies ask daft questions
c) Some swingers ask daft questions (and as I'm writing this, its obvious some give daft replys as well)
d) Impossible to tell.
I'd have to answer b) and c) - seems to have got some response from the ladies though - looks like the majority don't go topless

29 Aug 2005

Quote by postie
I know the question is for women but....
Up until very recently I was quite self conscious and wouldn't ever take my t-shirt off if I was on the beach.
Don't know what changed, but it doesnt bother me anymore, comes off it it needs to...

postie i was the same mate.....
it probably doesnt help me that i used to be a lot thinner than i am at the moment. Over the last year i have really started to put on weight, so now i feel a bit more confident taking me top of.
However as i am quite fair, i have to be careful of not getting the sun. Tumours and Cancer is quite prominet in my family, so i have to be carefull of UV rays.
MikeC

29 Aug 2005

Just back from the summer in Spain and ..........
I didn't! redface

Mad aint it?
Quite like the white bits :twisted:
Cathy x

29 Aug 2005

I would have thought they were just avoiding tan lines, if they were swingers theyd probably be trying to find the nudist beaches lol
(p.s. if your a nudist, im not saying your all swingers) lol

29 Aug 2005

I never go topless, to embaressed i guess redface

even tho i swing, i hate my boobs and im very concious of them.
Lindaxxx

29 Aug 2005

Hi Linda
From what can be seen on your avatar, it looks like you have nothing to worry about, boob wise, they look great
NC

29 Aug 2005

Quote by Red(RHG)
Quite like the white bits :twisted:

Cathy I quite like the white bits tooo... I always assumed there was a subconcious belief that women with tan lines keep everything under wraps making me feel a bit more special if I saw some untanned flesh... Of course I now think thats probably some bolox I thought whilst still young enough to need study the mail order catalog underwear and shower curtain sections...
I now like white bits because a bit of colour and decoration makes any snowy mountain peak look just a little bit more challenging!!
On the actual subject of nudity, beaches and swinging... I recently started liking the idea of going naked on nudist beaches, although only in other countries... there are precious few opportunities in the UK. I can quite often be a total prude though. Yet when with a group of people intent on having sex I am the one running round naked with the lights on all the time. Stranger still I never ever use urinals (preferring cubicals above all else) or wander naked around the gym changing room, yet I have no aversion to a bit of cock from time to time.

29 Aug 2005

i always go topless wink

but is nothing to do with being a swinger confused

29 Aug 2005

Quote by HornyRed
i always go topless but is nothing to do with being a swinger

I was assuming that as swingers dont seem to mind getting their bits out in front of others when they are swinging and advertising using pics of themselves - that they wouldn't mind getting em out on hols - obviously that doesnt seem to be the case.
I am just surprised - must be just a bloke thing

29 Aug 2005

Although I class myself as a swinger I am fussy about who I 'show my bits too', as are others on here. (that's not to say anyone who does 'show their bits' is wrong) As I normally go on holiday with family, I'm not sure 'getting my bits out' would be seen as appropriate!! lol
I apologise if I've read this wrong but it seems to me that you may be of the 'oh she's swinger she'll swing with anyone type'
Just my opinion.

29 Aug 2005

Quote by bjornblonduk
i always go topless but is nothing to do with being a swinger

I was assuming that as swingers dont seem to mind getting their bits out in front of others when they are swinging and advertising using pics of themselves - that they wouldn't mind getting em out on hols - obviously that doesnt seem to be the case.
I am just surprised - must be just a bloke thing
I don't mind getting my bits out for people that appreciate them... or might heaven forbid want to fiddle with the a bit.
But I am much less keen on dangling them around just anywhere!!!
Its not about if your a swinger or not, its about if your comfortable in the environment you find yourself in. I am comfortable in an intimate environment... in the doctor environment... in the nudist environment if it feels right (and it doesn't always)... in the internet environment because it feels more anonymous and less real... don't feel comfortable in toilets, bars, nightclubs, or the highstreet.

29 Aug 2005

Quote by EnglishChris99
i always go topless but is nothing to do with being a swinger

I was assuming that as swingers dont seem to mind getting their bits out in front of others when they are swinging and advertising using pics of themselves - that they wouldn't mind getting em out on hols - obviously that doesnt seem to be the case.
I am just surprised - must be just a bloke thing
I don't mind getting my bits out for people that appreciate them... or might heaven forbid want to fiddle with the a bit.
But I am much less keen on dangling them around just anywhere!!!
Its not about if your a swinger or not, its about if your comfortable in the environment you find yourself in. I am comfortable in an intimate environment... in the doctor environment... in the nudist environment if it feels right (and it doesn't always)... in the internet environment because it feels more anonymous and less real... don't feel comfortable in toilets, bars, nightclubs, or the highstreet.
I'm with Chris on this one. I said to someone the other night that I've never in my life gone topless on holiday. Mainly because I've always gone on holiday with my kids and the one girls' holiday I went on was with a very shy friend. She didn't take off her top so I didn't either.
I'm also something of an exhibitionist, but only at what I'd deem suitable places. I have a web page on here that leaves little to the imagination, and have no problem getting into (or out of!) a towel in a swingers club. I also harbour one or two fantasies about discreet flashing in a pub but have yet to find a pub I'd feel comfortable actually doing that in.

29 Aug 2005

Quote by postie
I know the question is for women but....
Up until very recently I was quite self conscious and wouldn't ever take my t-shirt off if I was on the beach.
Don't know what changed, but it doesnt bother me anymore, comes off it it needs to...

Have you got 'man-boobs'? lol

I agree with Steanrachy, it's a daft question really. Also a bit dangerous to make the assumption that wealllike to flash our bits , just because we're swingers. confused

I sometimes go topless, sometimes I don't.

29 Aug 2005

if i go topless on holliday, its more to do with the resort/beach i am at.. rather than if i am a swinger.
i do sometimes take my bikini top off but sometimes i dont. if the majority of the other women are covered, i feel uncomfortable being the only one.. so i tend to just go along with what everyone else there is doing.

29 Aug 2005

We have just come back from a day at a naturist sun club where everyone was topless but the night before 90% of those people were also swinging at the party.
So does this mean that the majority of naturist are swingers. NO.
Does this mean that the majority of naturists go topless. YES.
Or have I just had too much sun today?
Love
Jackie and Ben

29 Aug 2005

answer to this is yes i do go topless on hols yes i am a swinger mind you took me ages to get our lass to go topless lol

29 Aug 2005

Quote by Alleyson
I was assuming that as swingers dont seem to mind getting their bits out in front of others when they are swinging and advertising using pics of themselves - that they wouldn't mind getting em out on hols - obviously that doesnt seem to be the case.
I am just surprised - must be just a bloke thing

Although I class myself as a swinger I am fussy about who I 'show my bits too', as are others on here. (that's not to say anyone who does 'show their bits' is wrong) As I normally go on holiday with family, I'm not sure 'getting my bits out' would be seen as appropriate!! lol
I apologise if I've read this wrong but it seems to me that you may be of the 'oh she's swinger she'll swing with anyone type'
Just my opinion.
I too am fussy about whom I show my 'bits' to - that's my personal demon to face but there are others here who are the same for lots of different reasons.
I think it's been said before, but just because people are on the site, it doesn't necessarily make them "easy" and up for anything.
To be honest the question about the correlation between going topless and swinging really is a bit silly IMO.
smile

29 Aug 2005

maybe we need a secret swingers handshake like the masons biggrin