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Am I doomed ?

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I'm just an ordinary guy who lives near the county town of Kent, retired at 55, leads a happy comfortable life but without a physical relationship. My partner had to take strong medication for a long while which completely killed the desire or ability to enjoy sex. I don't believe in paying for pleasure and won't, just to satisfy my lust, as I get as much pleasure and fun from giving pleasure to a sexual partner. Some time ago I met a younger lady (in her 40's, very slim and discrete) who like me didn't want any ties but wanted an occassional afternoon of enjoyment. Unfortunately she moved away for her husbands work. Am I alone in finding that it is impossible to find that someone who is looking for the same in a person? I still get very passionate but looking at the videos on here is not the same, I read some of the posts and a little wet patch appears thinking of who might have posted it. I don't feel sorry for myself, just so much to give that is pent up inside, it is a waste of caring. To cuddle and feel somebody in my arms who wants me to satisfy thier needs is that so wrong? and difficult.
Don't know if this is the right place for my rantings, but thanks for reading and have a good weekend. PyrusBoy
Hang in there buddy.
Sometimes time has a way of providing the perfect solution.
sorry i have no solutions but just wanted to send a big cyber hug x a heartfelt post and I hope u find what u are looking for x