am i fat

17 Jan 2007

Quote by freimation
well im 6ft 2in and 16 stone acording to the machine in the chemist im 3st over weight but i,ve got a big build 38 in waist do you guy think thats fat.

i wouldnt have said so, and you dont look it on your pics
Earthy xxthat was a long time ago
maybe you should put a more up to date pic on ur profile then ;)
them machines only give you a rough guid, if your happy with the way you loook don't worry about it, if your not happy do something about it lol

17 Jan 2007

Quote by jaymar
I agree, but... so often people who are overweight feel they have to conform to society's view that they must be slimmer to be beautiful. I'm sorry but beauty comes from within, personality and nice qualities are important also.

i totally agree with that but speaking as someone whos lost nearly 5 stone in the last 18 week i can say from my own experiences that lots of people also loose weight cause they get fed up of the piss taking and nasty comments about them in every day life, well i did anyway lol

17 Jan 2007

according to scales in my local boots i am about 1 1/2 stone over weight :shock:
I wouldnt take any notice of them like someone said earlier you dont look it

18 Jan 2007

Quote by freimation
well im 6ft 2in and 16 stone acording to the machine in the chemist im 3st over weight but i,ve got a big build 38 in waist do you guy think thats fat.

Take yourself back to the chemist, What did you have in your pockets?
loose coins, five pens, a little black book, god knows how many credit cards, shoes, a wet coat, heavy duty condoms?
There is only one way to weigh, nowt on.

18 Jan 2007

Quote by de_sade
well im 6ft 2in and 16 stone acording to the machine in the chemist im 3st over weight but i,ve got a big build 38 in waist do you guy think thats fat.

Take yourself back to the chemist, What did you have in your pockets?
loose coins, five pens, a little black book, god knows how many credit cards, shoes, a wet coat, heavy duty condoms?
There is only one way to weigh, nowt on.
less?
dunno

less you weigh what is not part of you.
Doctors tend to like pockets heavy with cash, is good for their bank balance. Well they do in H' Street

18 Jan 2007

Quote by naughtynymphos1
I agree, but... so often people who are overweight feel they have to conform to society's view that they must be slimmer to be beautiful. I'm sorry but beauty comes from within, personality and nice qualities are important also.

i totally agree with that but speaking as someone whos lost nearly 5 stone in the last 18 week i can say from my own experiences that lots of people also loose weight cause they get fed up of the piss taking and nasty comments about them in every day life, well i did anyway lol
So did I, that and a divorce some years ago, lost over 4 stone, but contentment etc., put it back on again.. well done to you for your loss xx

18 Jan 2007

Fat is about perception. i don't go for all these medical charts and stuff - we're all different shapes and therefore may well be different sizes.
For example, another female I know of the same age, is the same size in clothing and same height as me yet she is nearly two stones heavier than me. Other than having bigger tits and longer hair, I can't see a great deal of difference between our body sizes.
If you think you are fat and you don't have an eating disorder that is screwing up your perception, then maybe you are fat - for you!
Unless you can't see your feet and struggle to get your socks on, or maybe haven't seen your cock without a mirror, then as long as you're happy within yourself, that's fine.
i think I'm over-weight. i know I am. I'm 3 stone heavier than before I had my daughter and a stone heavier than when i was full-term pregnant. To me, exertion is running for a bus or attemtping more than 10 sit-ups at a time. But I can't be arsed to do anything about it really.

18 Jan 2007

My husband is 6,2 and goes from 13.5 to 14 stone and he says he needs to lose a stone.
I don't think so, but he does

18 Jan 2007

first of all thank you all for your advice and coments im not fishing for complaments just asking a broad view of whats fat and whats fine my build at the moment is more rugby player then footballer big sholders big chest and 18 in arms to be honest i want to know do woman find this attractive or sexy my made me feel very unattractive and told me i was fat coments please.

19 Jan 2007

Quote by freimation
first of all thank you all for your advice and coments im not fishing for complaments just asking a broad view of whats fat and whats fine my build at the moment is more rugby player then footballer big sholders big chest and 18 in arms to be honest i want to know do woman find this attractive or sexy my made me feel very unattractive and told me i was fat coments please.

I prefer men with a bit meat on them to be honest, but then again am I then being preferential to chunkier men and insinuating that skinny men are no good? No not at all, it's just my own personal choice, but skinnier men can turn me on also. It's a funny one to ask people I think as everyone's views are so different.
Why don't you put up a recent pic and let us see the real you? I bet you'll get good responses hun wink

19 Jan 2007

need some one too take the pics for me to be honest before i can post them.

19 Jan 2007

Quote by freimation
need some one too take the pics for me to be honest before i can post them.

well if you have a camera that can take photos on a timer that should sort that problem for you.......I know of plenty of people who've managed to get reallygood photos using this method....... smile

From your pictures you have at the moment though.......it does appear to be two different people............. dunno

19 Jan 2007

Quote by freimation
need some one too take the pics for me to be honest before i can post them.

mobile phone? webcam? camera self timer? dunno

19 Jan 2007

Quote by freimation
first of all thank you all for your advice and coments im not fishing for complaments just asking a broad view of whats fat and whats fine my build at the moment is more rugby player then footballer big sholders big chest and 18 in arms to be honest i want to know do woman find this attractive or sexy my made me feel very unattractive and told me i was fat coments please.

but for now any answers on this.

19 Jan 2007

Quote by freimation
first of all thank you all for your advice and coments im not fishing for complaments just asking a broad view of whats fat and whats fine my build at the moment is more rugby player then footballer big sholders big chest and 18 in arms to be honest i want to know do woman find this attractive or sexy my made me feel very unattractive and told me i was fat coments please.

but for nowany answers on this.
Still not fishing??????

19 Jan 2007

Quote by Mal
first of all thank you all for your advice and coments im not fishing for complaments just asking a broad view of whats fat and whats fine my build at the moment is more rugby player then footballer big sholders big chest and 18 in arms to be honest i want to know do woman find this attractive or sexy my made me feel very unattractive and told me i was fat coments please.

but for nowany answers on this.
Still not fishing??????
hummm i think he is lol
Thing is you can't really ask a opinion on whats fat cause everyone has their own ideas of what fat is, what someone sees as over weight someone else may see as just right or underweight at the end of the day its how you feel that matters not what others find attractive, all you can do is be yourself some will like you for that, others wont but you will get that no matter what you look like nones for everyone ;) so just be you and look how you want to look and stop trying to be what you think others want you to be!!

19 Jan 2007

I'm 6'4'', around 13 stone, slim but toned.
Some larger proportioned people may think i'm 'skinny', some may not.
Some smaller proportioned people may think i'm 'large', some may not.
To put it in simple terms, if it takes you two trips to get through a revolving door, then your FAT! wink

:thumbup:

19 Jan 2007

are you fat? No idea... haven't seen recent pictures of you (which are piss easy to take yourself with a timer or a mirror)
So as i guess I'd say yes. You're too embarrased to post real recent pics of you on your profile therefore you are worried about your body image and you probably think you're fat dunno

19 Jan 2007

no im not fishing just want an opinon on wether to slim down or stay big and beefy?

19 Jan 2007

Just checked out your profile and pics and to be honest, you look like your made of plastic. Nice pic yes, but very plasticcy.
Are you really a blow up doll and having us all on? confused

19 Jan 2007

i was an extra for thunderbirds in my younger days.

19 Jan 2007

Quote by freimation
i was an extra for thunderbirds in my younger days.

Yeah! But look what happened to them!
They melted mate wink

Thunderbirds are go. lol

19 Jan 2007

Quote by freimation
no im not fishing just want an opinon on wether to slim down or stay big and beefy?

You've already had a couple of dozen opinions, but the only one that makes a difference is your own. If you've got the ability to change your weight, as in 'slim down or stay big', then you will already know what peoples think of your different sizes.
Mal

20 Jan 2007

Quote by Mal
no im not fishing just want an opinon on wether to slim down or stay big and beefy?

You've already had a couple of dozen opinions, but the only one that makes a difference is your own. If you've got the ability to change your weight, as in 'slim down or stay big', then you will already know what peoples think of your different sizes.
Malthats the problem theire is know midile ground what do woman want tall and skiny or big and chunky.

20 Jan 2007

sorry if I've missed something here.......but surely members aren't allowed to post pics that aren't their own....... dunno

but then here there is what appears to be two diferent gents that differ massively to the claims of the member but their pics are left there....
confused

20 Jan 2007

many years ago i uset to run 6 miles cross country 4 days a week that was a long time ago as time wears on we all get lazy and fat hence i asked do you guys think im fat with the way i am now i want to get back in to shape but is it worth it all that effort and woman dont mind the way you were carrying a few extra pounds.

20 Jan 2007

Quote by poshkate
sorry if I've missed something here.......but surely members aren't allowed to post pics that aren't their own....... but then here there is what appears to be two diferent gents that differ massively to the claims of the member but their pics are left there....

babe when did you last update your pics

20 Jan 2007

as none of us have ever seen you, how could we comment........all we have seen is two pics of difierent people form years ago............!
If you want a coment post some pics of your self.......
evil

20 Jan 2007

how can any body see me i can only post pic that i got

20 Jan 2007

Quote by freimation

babe when did you last update your pics
I have one pic on my profile that is from about november time...............I don't have others pics to avoid the wierdos.......