It sounds like she was far too immature for you guys then if she couldn't accept that BOTH partners need to be involved in a meet.
My rules with Tim are that we both need to know if the other is playing (we play separately most of the time) but I wouldn't be impressed if some woman questioned him letting me know!!
You were definitely right to be angry Vicky hun xxx
You were totally right to be angry.
Some guy whispered me the other day and said 'Do you play away from home?'
Our profile clearly states we NEVER play apart, and we werent looking for singles guys.
He said he was new and read about the site in 'The News Of The World'
lol yeah, no suprise there, said it all really.
You were definitely right to be annoyed. If those are your chosen rules and conditions then that is that. No-one has a right to question them.
In our case we would always choose to consult each other - though neither of us would insist upon it. In other words, if I was going to meet someone there is no way I would do it without discussing it with Sappho first, even though I have her permission to meet who I want.
If someone questioned why I would want to talk it over with my loved one first, then it would simply tell me that they were not the sort of person I should meet.
Will