Give her Local Swingers, Steve. The chatroom there is really duff. She'll never get any info because there isn't a forum.
love Sappho xxx
Oh christ Steve! Hugs!
I agree with Jags.
If she gets on here - she could make your life hell.
I'd also delete that posting!! - If she stumbled on the site by accident and came across it -there would be no doubt which site it was.
And the search engines bring this site up quite near the top of the list - so be careful!
If she does cotton on - get Mark to delete your user (et al) and re-register.
Whatever happens - at least you know your friends are still here.
Big Hugs
Alex x x
Ahhh OK - sorry i jumped to the wrong conclusion.
I suppose it would depend if you felt you could be yourself if she was also online!
Alex x x
I thought it was a typo too..
made me smile now.
steve
Eeeek! That is a bit tricky! :eeek:
I have to say that everyone else is right though. Point her somewhere else. You are an established character here and it would be awful if she cramped your style. Though if she gets on here by mistake methinks she might recognise this thread!
I hope it sorts itself out.
I still think - no matter how amicable the split was - you would be wise not to have her watching over your shoulder.
It would be unreasonable of you to expect that she wouldn't check what you have been up to - just out of natural curiosity. And do you really want that?
Hugs,
Alex x x
Got to agree with everyone else here, Steve. You've built up an excellent reputation on this site and some things, no matter how amicable your split, have to be kept to yourself.
Good luck in everything sorting itself out.
James
Steve,
Want to join me and Fred in the GFZ for the week??
You are friends at the moment, and it sounds like you want to stay that way. What is that old chestnut "Oh what a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceive"
What about the truth. You are on a swingers site (can't get out of that bit now). It is something you do because you feel good about it, however, it is private, it is personal, is part of your new life, and you would prefer Lynne not to ask about it, or be involved in.
I can't think of ANYTHING you have written that you need to hide, you can be proud of the way people in here view you.
lhk
Kat
Kat
I don't think he NEEDS to hide anything either. Just whether he feels he could be himself if his ex was here too! Not everyone is in the same fortunate position as you two are. In fact far less than you think may be!
I like Steve just as he is, and would hate for him to feel uncomfortable here.
Love,
Alex
Hi Steve, hi everyone,
Always going to be a difficult one - how much to reveal and how much to hide. It would be nice to think we could all be honest and discuss everything freely, but its not like that, is it? Wait till you have teenage kids who keep interrogating you. I'm no good at lying either, but you have to draw the line somewhere short of full disclosure.
Actually, Steve, re-reading your transcript and what you say about the current relations with the ex, I wonder if we are not focussing on the wrong problem. Her turning up and harassing you sounds unlikely. More worrying is that she tells someone else and they tell someone else, and so on...
This is where it makes a big difference what sort of work and other social life you both lead and whether you live in a big city or a small village.
Not sure what to suggest, except calling her and saying that the info was of course given in confidence and you're sure she'll respect that.
Red Baron
Only if I can be a chief as well missy........def not looking for a domme squaw! :shock:
Steve
Hi all, Slim. I agree with you and the sarge sit tight, well not too tight and let it come to you. As you say your just passing thru.
She knows all the bosses and their cars Harry, we work at the same place.......I see her nearly every day. :shock:
Steve
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