Quote by sierra
well said blue , but i`d like know his thoughts on doing it to a woman?
sierra x x
Was thinking the same thing myself !
I bet thats ok....
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Anal pen on a man by a woman??
Quote by sexyfella
men ARE men but who wrote the rule book on what that entails?
It depends if you go by the ancient greeks code of conduct or the John Wayne one.
Was john wanye gay? I know he had a bit of a limp
no ..
but im starting to wonder if you are by how much you are protesting against arse action
methinks thou doth protest too much sir
Quote by fluffer
men ARE men but who wrote the rule book on what that entails?
It depends if you go by the ancient greeks code of conduct or the John Wayne one.
Was john wanye gay? I know he had a bit of a limp
no ..
but im starting to wonder if you are by how much you are protesting against arse action
methinks thou doth protest too much sir
Indeed , as they say... "the squeeky wheel wants oiling... "
And do gays limp?
Quote by fluffer
men ARE men but who wrote the rule book on what that entails?
It depends if you go by the ancient greeks code of conduct or the John Wayne one.
Was john wanye gay? I know he had a bit of a limp
no ..
but im starting to wonder if you are by how much you are protesting against arse action
methinks thou doth protest too much sir
Are you trying to imply Im female or are asking me to take it like a MAN
Sex God
Quote by tom3
i love having it done !! feels nice actualy ..but most of all i love the womans face as she is doing it..ill meet with u gem if u fancy a go again X
How can you see her face???!!
Sexlightened
Quote by Silk and Big G
i love having it done !! feels nice actualy ..but most of all i love the womans face as she is doing it..ill meet with u gem if u fancy a go again X
How can you see her face???!!
Maybe because she is fucking him missionary style her on top, see above ;)
Sex God
Quote by sexyfella
I'm quite old fashioned when it comes to the straight guy thing and as such I belive that straight men are "MEN" and that real "MEN" as I would call them dont take it in the bum no matter how much they love the women thats providing the service.
And I see the act of a straight guy receiving anal as an act of homosexuality even though its a lady doing the work, because its not a "MAN" thing to do.
So what you're saying now is that any male who likes anal penetration, whether he be straight, gay, or anywhere inbetween, is not a man? :shock: That is not only an old fashioned point of view, it is very offensive and woefully misguided.
Most, in fact the majority, of gay, bi, and straight MEN who enjoy anal penetration idenfity strongly with their male gender identity. Those that do not identify themselves as men, or even male, are trans (in whatever form that happens to take in the individual). Trans people may be straight, gay, or bi, depending on who they are attracted to, but please do not confuse sexual preference or sexual behaviour with basic gender identity, because you are WRONG to do so.
This is not just my point of view, this is scientific FACT, well researched time and time again by experts who have qualifications coming out of their ears. If you do not think I am right, please provide me with evidence to the contrary... I would be very interested to read such evidence and speak personally with the people that conducted such research.
I am actually shocked - yes shocked - that anyone who is open minded enough to consider swinging is stuck in this narrow and misguided frame of reference.
Sex God
Think you've just done 'a wibbers',SF and made a total prat of yourself.
I have no sexual attraction or interest in men but im not adverse to a cheeky finger from a woman, so how does this make me gay? do yourself a favour and have a good think about your attitude and open your mind to what people find sexually stimulating, you're a grown man not a 12 year old, your outlook on this is very juvenile or suspisiously repressed
I have no sexual attraction or interest in men but im not adverse to a cheeky finger from a woman, so how does this make me gay? do yourself a favour and have a good think about your attitude and open your mind to what people find sexually stimulating, you're a grown man not a 12 year old, your outlook on this is very juvenile or suspisiously repressed
Quote by bluexxx
I'm quite old fashioned when it comes to the straight guy thing and as such I belive that straight men are "MEN" and that real "MEN" as I would call them dont take it in the bum no matter how much they love the women thats providing the service.
And I see the act of a straight guy receiving anal as an act of homosexuality even though its a lady doing the work, because its not a "MAN" thing to do.
So what you're saying now is that any male who likes anal penetration, whether he be straight, gay, or anywhere inbetween, is not a man? :shock: That is not only an old fashioned point of view, it is very offensive and woefully misguided.
Most, in fact the majority, of gay, bi, and straight MEN who enjoy anal penetration idenfity strongly with their male gender identity. Those that do not identify themselves as men, or even male, are trans (in whatever form that happens to take in the individual). Trans people may be straight, gay, or bi, depending on who they are attracted to, but please do not confuse sexual preference or sexual behaviour with basic gender identity, because you are WRONG to do so.
This is not just my point of view, this is scientific FACT, well researched time and time again by experts who have qualifications coming out of their ears. If you do not think I am right, please provide me with evidence to the contrary... I would be very interested to read such evidence and speak personally with the people that conducted such research.
I am actually shocked - yes shocked - that anyone who is open minded enough to consider swinging is stuck in this narrow and misguided frame of reference.
I have to say blue i agree 100% with you, what you like in the bedroom makes you no less or more of a man than the next man.
I just want to ask sexyfella if i take it up the bum or have sex with another female does that make me less of a woman?
Quote by sexyfella
Personaly as a straight guy I find thought of of a female or anybody for that matter going up my arse disgusting and repulsive.
I think Im old fashioned in the sense that I belive a mans arse shouldnt be penatrated if he considers himself straight, after all how could he still class himself straight even if it was a woman that split him?
Any other straight guys have the same view?
can i just ask if u actually know what being bi or str8 means?
cause if you think having a woman use a toy on ur arse makes u bi i suggest you go away learn about the birds and the bees and come back when u know what your talking about
I am actually shocked - yes shocked - that anyone who is open minded enough to consider swinging is stuck in this narrow and misguided frame of reference.
Well I am open minded enough to swing and have nothing against bi or homosexual people, just personaly speaking I am extremely straight and proud of that fact.
Weres the harm in that?
Well I am open minded enough to swing and have nothing against bi or homosexual people, just personaly speaking I am extremely straight and proud of that fact.
Weres the harm in that?
Quote by bluexxx
I am actually shocked - yes shocked - that anyone who is open minded enough to consider swinging is stuck in this narrow and misguided frame of reference.
Well I am open minded enough to swing and have nothing against bi or homosexual people, just personaly speaking I am extremely straight and proud of that fact.
Weres the harm in that?
so sexyfella whats your view on women together? and have you or would to ever done anal on a woman, sorry to be noesy just wonna see if your one sided or if this view of yours is fair and runs across the board of both sex's
Sex God
Quote by duncanlondon
Do you really feel you could hold a conversation with top boffins and egg heads?
Yes, due to me being one of these 'ere top boffins and egg heads (allegedly).
Sexyfella......... nowt wrong with being straight, the problem is you haven't the faintest clue that what you have said is offensive... how very odd
Personally I think that it's sad we have to pigeonhole everyone into little boxes and categories. There really shouldn't be any shame or doubt of ones gender just because you like it up the arse- if you got a dick regardless if you are straight, gay or bi you are a man.
If it feels good and you like it, and it's not harming u or anyone else, what's the problem!?
PS. any ladies out there wanna with a strap on that would like to give me a ride- give me a shout :rascal:
If it feels good and you like it, and it's not harming u or anyone else, what's the problem!?
PS. any ladies out there wanna with a strap on that would like to give me a ride- give me a shout :rascal:
Quote by naughtynymphos1
I am actually shocked - yes shocked - that anyone who is open minded enough to consider swinging is stuck in this narrow and misguided frame of reference.
Well I am open minded enough to swing and have nothing against bi or homosexual people, just personaly speaking I am extremely straight and proud of that fact.
Weres the harm in that?
so sexyfella whats your view on women together? and have you or would to ever done anal on a woman, sorry to be noesy just wonna see if your one sided or if this view of yours is fair and runs across the board of both sex's
Its ok to ask but before I dig a bigger hole I should mention I was brought up in a very strict macho b.s. enviroment that pobably has some effect on my "personal idea of me being straight"
anyway on to your question about women I do enjoy seeing to women together sexualy as it is a turn on for myself and I belive most straight guys would feel the same way regardless of how open or narrow minded they may be.
And as for anal on a women yes I have done it on rare occasions when Ive been asked but I much prefer vaginal
Quote by bluexxx
Do you really feel you could hold a conversation with top boffins and egg heads?
Yes, due to me being one of these 'ere top boffins and egg heads (allegedly).
Sexyfella......... nowt wrong with being straight, the problem is you haven't the faintest clue that what you have said is offensive... how very odd
If Ive caused offense then that wasmt my intention but what I dont understand these days in general whenever a straight guy belives certain things are not for him becase they dont sit with his mindset, someone somewhere jumps down his throat as though he should be like the other people that do these things
Anyway sorry for any offence caused but we all have are views and a bit of controversy now and then makes a debate healthy
Quote by sexyfella
Do you really feel you could hold a conversation with top boffins and egg heads?
Yes, due to me being one of these 'ere top boffins and egg heads (allegedly).
Sexyfella......... nowt wrong with being straight, the problem is you haven't the faintest clue that what you have said is offensive... how very odd
If Ive caused offense then that wasmt my intention but what I dont understand these days in general whenever a straight guy belives certain things are not for him becase they dont sit with his mindset, someone somewhere jumps down his throat as though he should be like the other people that do these things
Anyway sorry for any offence caused but we all have are views and a bit of controversy now and then makes a debate healthy
you are perfectly within your rights to decide against anal and positively dislike the thought of it for yourself... but if you could try and realise that some of your "debate" about the issue was that MEN are MEN and you aint gay. This is where the problem has arisen. You did more than say these things weren't for you.. you made a sweeping judgement about the activity of anal sex and all the people who enjoy it.
Just try and open your mind slightly (if not your arse!) and you will find things so much more enjoyable.
Sex God
Quote by sexyfella
what I dont understand these days in general whenever a straight guy belives certain things are not for him becase they dont sit with his mindset, someone somewhere jumps down his throat as though he should be like the other people that do these things
Wrong again.
If a bi or gay person had come on the board with such a bigotted and narrow minded attitude about sexuality and gender identity, I would have jumped down their throat too. A bigot is a bigot regardless of their sexual preference or upbringing... you have no excuse, you are a grown up. Now, either get some education or I suggest you keep your mouth shut on subjects you know NOTHING about.
I totally agree with blue on this one.
Yes I have done it, yes I have enjoyed it, if that makes me gay in your eyes SF then fine. Quite frankly I don't give a damn about the views held by someone such as yourself.
I have enough security in my own sexuality that I do not care what you think.
As for the excuse of your upbringing then I agree with blue. The purpose a good education is to allow you to think for yourself. If your thinking is still based on your childhood conditioning then go educate yourself.
As for the comment about being "able to hold a conversation with boffins....Why do you assume that because someone is on this site that they cannot be an eminent person in their field.
I apologise for the bad spelling and grammar but I am really quite angry now!
Yes I have done it, yes I have enjoyed it, if that makes me gay in your eyes SF then fine. Quite frankly I don't give a damn about the views held by someone such as yourself.
I have enough security in my own sexuality that I do not care what you think.
As for the excuse of your upbringing then I agree with blue. The purpose a good education is to allow you to think for yourself. If your thinking is still based on your childhood conditioning then go educate yourself.
As for the comment about being "able to hold a conversation with boffins....Why do you assume that because someone is on this site that they cannot be an eminent person in their field.
I apologise for the bad spelling and grammar but I am really quite angry now!
Quote by sexyfella
I am actually shocked - yes shocked - that anyone who is open minded enough to consider swinging is stuck in this narrow and misguided frame of reference.
Well I am open minded enough to swing and have nothing against bi or homosexual people, just personaly speaking I am extremely straight and proud of that fact.
Weres the harm in that?
so sexyfella whats your view on women together? and have you or would to ever done anal on a woman, sorry to be noesy just wonna see if your one sided or if this view of yours is fair and runs across the board of both sex's
its ok to ask but before I dig a bigger hole I should mention I was brought up in a very strict macho b.s. enviroment that pobably has some effect on my "personal idea of me being straight"
anyway on to your question about women I do enjoy seeing to women together sexualy as it is a turn on for myself and I belive most straight guys would feel the same way regardless of how open or narrow minded they may be.
And as for anal on a women yes I have done it on rare occasions when Ive been asked but I much prefer vaginal
i think at the end of the day your just sexist, i don't believe for one min that your parents when bringing you up said "look son two men is wrong but two women...whey hey go for it boy" so don't blame you views on your upbringing, my partents never told me it was ok to be bi in fact far from it, my mother was gutted when she found out but as adults we are what we are and we make our own choices, as do you with your views.
There are things i don't not find a turn on but i would never call the acts or those who do them discusting or revolting, personally i think to say two men is wrong but two women is fine and to call men doing anal and then saying you have done it to women sexist and very hypocritical
Sex God
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