Just a quick question please if anyone can help
We recently went on holiday and got chatting to a very nice couple in our hotel each night
we had a few drinks with them, but didnt mention swinging because we didnt want to offend or upset if they were shocked - dont think they would have been but didnt want to spend the holiday with people pointing saying the swingers are over there
Now the lady was quite flirty, and she had a ankle bracelet on her. I have since been told that this is a sign of a swinger, but sue has never heard of this and thinks ive dreamt it
Is this a fact, do swingers wear a bracelet or am i dreaming
we are meeting up with the couple in Manchester in a few weeks by the way - just for drinks we didnt dare take things further lol.
There is one couple on here whose main profile picture is of the wife's ankle complete with bracelet.
When I was a sixth-former back in the early eighties one of the girls in my year used to wear an ankle bracelet; she was known as the school bicycle...
Ankle bracelets were always, in the past, associated with prostitutes, and like so many things in this more permissive age they have carried over into the mainstream, as a kind of risque type of wear. I think that to make any presumptions based upon the wearing of such might potentially cause problems. It's like assuming the lady who's going topless wishes someone would fondle her boobs .... and perhaps she does ... but she's allowed to be selective just the same as the rest of us.
Who remembers punk girls dressed in rubber and bondage gear ... and there was nothing about them which was meant to be sexual, in fact more what became known as asexual, they were visibly confrontational... perfectly decent sorts all the same.
So ankle bracelets, just like heels, or the showing off of cleavage even, can all be interpreted as a come on, and often that's how it's meant to be, but I'm afraid there's no rule of thumb, you just have to blag it the same as you always did.