As someone looking to hit it off on here as a single guy, I rather wish you had either sorted this out with the person in question, or named and shamed him. It is difficult enough to gain someones trust without this sort of message. Especialy when the person in question hasn't been identified. It could be any of us, as far as the other ladies and couples are concerned.
Do not tar us all with the same brush!
No no not again. Enough!!
Single guys are wonderful. I love them. Please don't exclude them, slander them, charge them twice the admission fee. They're OK. We nEEEEEd them. And mostly they're really cute.
Jezzay.
What Rog said
Im sure all the nice single fellas (which incidentally from what ive read could still well include this guy were talking about) know full well that generalisations only work on the terminally shallow . Thankfully SH contains some of the deepest and most thoughtful of swinging couples who will im sure , in the main, treat the post not as a nail in any coffin , but as just a stitch in lifes rich tapestry ( wow I can mix metaphors wiv the best of em ) and move swiftly on without taking any great warning from it . Save to say perhaps a renewed vow to take each individual as they find them .
Peace
I've met up with a number of single guys, from ads on this site and others. Never had any problems. I'm not saying I never will but the untrustworthy people are in the minority in my experience.
One question:
If you threw your boots in a pile at the end of the bed it is possible that the guy in question may have genuinely picked it up thinking it was his... Have you actually made any attempt to contact him and ask him if he may have picked it up by mistake? If he has he may be genuine and honest and mortified!
I'd concur with the SarfLondoner, . . .
You've obviously got his contact details, why not just ask him if he came home with an extra 20 quid in his pocket? It maybe just and honest mistake. I've certainly done it before. . . .
Just read all of this at once, have been away. I think its absolutely mint that anyone could think that because a single guy probably stole something it means that all single guys are likely to be like that. I'm genuinely amused, not offended in any way as a single guy - it just reinforces my view that there are a lot of silly peopl out there!!
ummm, maybe it was your partner that saw it and pocketed it???????? pmsl
and anyway , we always cremate all our single guys .
I was asked to lock this yesterday but I didn't want to deprive the guy involved of his right to reply so I left it open. The reply doesn't seem to be forthcoming though so I'm locking it now. There can't be much more to be said on the subject anyway????
Steve