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actually things were looking good!!!!!!!!!
the guy showed up and we had a good night
but i had an emergency £20 note stashed in my boot
we took him back to ours and 1/2 way thru i took my boots off
now absolutely no sign of the £20
hunted high and low and its gone
no way it could`ve fallen out of knee length boots
so single guys r not on our list of favourite people
don`t like to pm him and accuse- he could`ve picked it up by mistake (not likely)
dont think we`ll invite anyone back again in a hurry
2`s
Quote by twos_company
actually things were looking good!!!!!!!!!
the guy showed up and we had a good night
but i had an emergency £20 note stashed in my boot
we took him back to ours and 1/2 way thru i took my boots off
now absolutely no sign of the £20
hunted high and low and its gone
no way it could`ve fallen out of knee length boots
so single guys r not on our list of favourite people
don`t like to pm him and accuse- he could`ve picked it up by mistake (not likely)
dont think we`ll invite anyone back again in a hurry
2`s

If he took it, he took it because he's a low life, not because he's single. dunno
we said won`t invite anyone back!!!!!!
and we had to supply the condoms!!!!!!
lol
1`st time i`ve ever paid 4 it in my life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hopefully this moan will get it out of my system
Quote by Ice Pie
If he took it, he took it because he's a low life, not because he's single. dunno

What he said ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ and you don't really even need to PM him now.
£50??? whats that look like???
lol
was enough 4 cab fare if the car started its tricks!!!!!!
Not another nail rolleyes I'm suffocating in here!!!! :roll: evil
It costs me a fortune in fuel! and im a single male. Does that make you feel better.
A woman tried to short change me in the garage this morning and was surly with it.
Thats it I'm turning gay now!
feel way better
just wish our 1st meet with a single guy from this site hadn`t ended like that
Quote by twos_company
feel way better
just wish our 1st meet with a single guy from this site hadn`t ended like that

You don't even seem to be sure that he took it but having said that...................wtf difference does it make that it was a single guy you met???
If you'd met a single girl and it had happened would you be building coffins for them as well? If someone has a bad experience with a couple does that mean that all couples are the same and that they'll never meet another couple again?
I get mightily pissed off with people coming on here saying "you're a single guy, you must be a liar/cheat/thief/timewaster/asshole/saddo/low life" (delete as appropriate) when they've never even met me.
There are several other single guys that have replied to this thread who probably feel exactly the same way that I do when they see crap like this. I'd rather go for a pint with them than with a couple that are gonna look down their nose at me all night to be honest. It's insulting.
Steve
Quote by steveg_nw
feel way better
just wish our 1st meet with a single guy from this site hadn`t ended like that

You don't even seem to be sure that he took it but having said that...................wtf difference does it make that it was a single guy you met???
If you'd met a single girl and it had happened would you be building coffins for them as well? If someone has a bad experience with a couple does that mean that all couples are the same and that they'll never meet another couple again?
I get mightily pissed off with people coming on here saying "you're a single guy, you must be a liar/cheat/thief/timewaster/asshole/saddo/low life" (delete as appropriate) when they've never even met me.
There are several other single guys that have replied to this thread who probably feel exactly the same way that I do when they see crap like this. I'd rather go for a pint with them than with a couple that are gonna look down their nose at me all night to be honest. It's insulting.
Steve
two's company... i love your posts but on this occasion i am 110% behind what steveg has just said....
you are doing every other person a dis-service to making that sweeping generalisation... was it a member of the forum... in which case take it up with a mod... if it was someone that you met thru the ads then maybe your answer then is the choose the people you meet via here... un can see who post regularly and have an idea about them....
in fact.. i actually think you post will do more damage to couples... than it will to single men...
sean xxxxxxxxx
Quote by steveg_nw
feel way better
just wish our 1st meet with a single guy from this site hadn`t ended like that

I get mightily pissed off with people coming on here saying "you're a single guy, you must be a liar/cheat/thief/timewaster/asshole/saddo/low life" (delete as appropriate) when they've never even met me.

Yeah, right on... and anyway, they have to meet me before they can say that wink
Quote by steveg_nw
feel way better
just wish our 1st meet with a single guy from this site hadn`t ended like that

You don't even seem to be sure that he took it but having said that...................wtf difference does it make that it was a single guy you met???
If you'd met a single girl and it had happened would you be building coffins for them as well? If someone has a bad experience with a couple does that mean that all couples are the same and that they'll never meet another couple again?
I get mightily pissed off with people coming on here saying "you're a single guy, you must be a liar/cheat/thief/timewaster/asshole/saddo/low life" (delete as appropriate) when they've never even met me.
There are several other single guys that have replied to this thread who probably feel exactly the same way that I do when they see crap like this. I'd rather go for a pint with them than with a couple that are gonna look down their nose at me all night to be honest. It's insulting.
Steve

AGREED AGREED AGREED !!!
1. How can people be allowed to post sensitive inflamatory accusations when they are not certain of what they are saying ????
2. Hello to the single guys that Wishmaster and I have met socially............. U have all been lovely true gents and good fun to chat to.............. no problems with any of you............ not sado's etc at all........
3. Last but not least............ there are good and bad in both sexes......stop the constant attacks on single guys please....... It is getting so so so so so so so boring !!!!!!!!!!!
Did you actually see him take it....if you didn't well then you shouldn't really say anything like this......if you find it won't you look silly!
You said there was no way it could have fallen out of your boots...what would make him look inside them to know if you had money in there in the first place?
nothing adding to what steve said
yes to accuse all single guys while ur not sure about if he took or not, is insulting to us.
i have had experiences with cpls but i learn from them
next them dont keep the 20 in ur boots
( a single guy meeting a cpl spends alot more than 20 pounds to make a good impression)
count it as a lost 20 pounds- not stolen
well having searched high and low- including the bin to check the condom wrappers etc it definitely went with him
just didnt want to come out and say beware theres a thief!!!!
no u can`t class everyone from 1 persons act!!!!!!!!!!!
will still meet people( that means couples too) just not at home!!!!!!!!!!!
btw have absolutely nothing against single guys - met loads of really nice ones!!!!!!!!!
just seemed a better way to get it off our chests
rather than ring him and get into a row - specially since he knows our car / where we live etc
You said there was no way it could have fallen out of your boots...what would make him look inside them to know if you had money in there in the first place?
COS I TOOK THEM OFF AND CHUCKED THEM IN A HEAP AT THE END OF THE BED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Quote by twos_company
just didnt want to come out and say beware theres a thief!!!!

But that is exactly what you have said !
Quote by twos_company
well having searched high and low- including the bin to check the condom wrappers etc it definitely went with him
just didnt want to come out and say beware theres a thief!!!!
no u can`t class everyone from 1 persons act!!!!!!!!!!!
will still meet people( that means couples too) just not at home!!!!!!!!!!!
btw have absolutely nothing against single guys - met loads of really nice ones!!!!!!!!!
just seemed a better way to get it off our chests
rather than ring him and get into a row - specially since he knows our car / where we live etc

Are you aware that your post has offended some single guys?
Quote by twos_company
You said there was no way it could have fallen out of your boots...what would make him look inside them to know if you had money in there in the first place?

COS I TOOK THEM OFF AND CHUCKED THEM IN A HEAP AT THE END OF THE BED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
There's no need to shout i was just asking a question!
**Reads posts and decides not to write a reply in case the reply is miss-read and the parrot gets lots of nasty PMs... AGAIN.**
(But secretly agrees with Steve)
Quote by twos_company
actually things were looking good!!!!!!!!!
the guy showed up and we had a good night
but i had an emergency £20 note stashed in my boot
we took him back to ours and 1/2 way thru i took my boots off
now absolutely no sign of the £20
hunted high and low and its gone
no way it could`ve fallen out of knee length boots
so single guys r not on our list of favourite people
don`t like to pm him and accuse- he could`ve picked it up by mistake (not likely)
dont think we`ll invite anyone back again in a hurry
2`s

mad so casue i am a single bloke , i have been tarred with the same brush as a thief!.... FFS. :x
Was pissed off at the generalisation, and getting another label to add to the list... but then I thought "Fuck it!!!" whats the point...lifes too short.. I didnt do it so whats it got to do with me?......Hope you find your £20 and if you do I hope you have the balls to come on here and own up... if not...Sorry it was nicked....
Guess you will have to put it down to experience... rolleyes
Now....wanna shag? wink
rolleyes
Are you sure it wasn't a fiver? I found one outside of The Cocoanut
Quote by twos_company
actually things were looking good!!!!!!!!!
the guy showed up and we had a good night
but i had an emergency £20 note stashed in my boot
we took him back to ours and 1/2 way thru i took my boots off
now absolutely no sign of the £20
hunted high and low and its gone
no way it could`ve fallen out of knee length boots
so single guys r not on our list of favourite people
don`t like to pm him and accuse- he could`ve picked it up by mistake (not likely)
dont think we`ll invite anyone back again in a hurry
2`s

Way to insult and generalise.
Oh look, I see your from london. I moved away from London becuase it's full of tedious fucking idiots.
See, generalising is shit, isn't it.
mad
Fucking moron.
I an only say what others have said in that you cannot blame ALL single guys for the actions of one individual.... and you don't even have proof that that individual actually did anything wrong!
Some people, if they see money lying around, will take it..... that's not a "man" thing.... it could just have easily have been a woman!
It is annoying losing money, so I can kind of understand you wanting to blame someone, but at the end of the day, you can't do owt about it so forget it. I lost a tenner at the village recently and was well pissed off..... I guess someone could have robbed it, but not likely cos they would have taken the other tenner I had in my pocket too.... but it's gone so don't fret over it.
Another hurt single guy :cry: :cry:
As a single guy I'm finding it hard enough to meet people already without bad publicity.
From a normal, genuine, honest single guy wink :wink:
I'm a single guy (in the sense that I'm no longer married) although I am in a relationship with KcKat (though we don't live together).
I don't really subscribe to the view that single guys in particular get knocked here in the Forum, perhaps because I've never had that kind of experience from my time on SH.
Sometimes I see idiotic posts from single guys, but then again sometimes it's an idiotic post from a single female or even a couple.
There are probably some who think some of my posts are idiotic dunno but then no-one's ever actually said as much to me, and I've certainly never had a rude PM from anyone.
I do feel a bit sad sometimes when I read a post from someone claiming they don't get any response to their efforts to make the site work for them 'cos the reality is they just don't know what they're missing.
I'll leave it there as I think I'm getting away from the main point in this thread.
Have a nice day everyone.
smile :) :) :) bolt
Quote by Ice Pie
If he took it, he took it because he's a low life, not because he's single. dunno

Which isn't to say there may not be a relationship between those two things...
hey we have lost things and found them much later ,have been under our noses,if ya chucked ya boots in a pile it could of come out and ended up any where,mind sorry ya seem to be short changed (if ya parden the pun)