Hi All,
Just back posting again to report on another successful experience.
I am the lowest of the low.
No, I'm not a tax inspector.
No, I'm not a traffic warden.
It's worse than that, I am a single male!
We have such a bad reputation.
I can fully understand it, as there are so many timewasters and idiots out there.
However, there are also genuine ones like me, and likewise there are genuine couples.
I always keep my eye on the ads, and reply to those that appeal to me, and which I think I am suitable for.
I get a lot of 'thanks, but no thanks', which is nice and polite.
I also get a lot of no responses at all, which is the perogative of the advertiser.
Occasionally I get a response, and I got a reply on Sunday.
We emailed, swapped pictures, and met for a drink last night.
It didn' t take us long to realise we clicked, so it was back to mine, and much fun was had by all.
In fact, they like taking pics, and I have never had any pics of myself, so I am eagerly waiting them to be emailed to me tonight!
lol
The site does work.
It's worked for me several times now, and given me many memorable experiences.
For those who are not getting any joy, be patient.
Be polite, be honest, and most of all, be yourself, and if it's meant to be, it will happen.
You cannot force it, but thanks again to swinging heaven!
G
well done mate
i have been more than happy with the photo ads
you learn to deal with the time wasters and pix collectors
and the rewards are great when they arrive
Oh I am glad you have had some success. my first 3 som we just clicked and it was
lovely.
well done sh for providing this wonderful service.
lisamarie and doj
There's a lot said here about time wasters, and I've suffered a fair bit of the outcome myself, over the years. But I really don't think anyone sets out to be a TW.
Seems to me that the people who don't come up to the mark usually have a reason which is good enough for them, at the time: the lad has a fright-attack, the couple maybe have a row of some sort.
He thinks he won't be able to get it up on the night, or he is suddenly horribly aware that the dick-pic he sent wasn't actually his; she thinks suddenly that she really is far too fat, and the new underwear doesn't fit properly, or she's got a spot on her tit, or the husband tells her on the way to the meet that he'll feel jealous if she comes; or she takes a last look at the other couple's picture, and thinks the other girl is far prettier.
It's humanity, and all sorts of things can go wrong with it. Not everyone is good at explaining themselves, or apologising. People are rarely malicious.
well done a positive result, and does show that us males, well can be genuine.
Glad you had a good experiance
I have found there are some genuine people on the add section, they are from my experiance the ones that take time to place a longer than 3 line add, tell you loads about what they want and are looking for.
I hope you have plenty of more fun and the rest of us are, will i hope are anyway.
We haven't had that experience yet as we've clicked with every cpl we've met. We went into meets on the understanding it was a 'meet a see' and never a sure thing. We meet in a pub for a drink first and at the end of the night would say thanks guys but we don't think there is any chemistry.
We do think it is quite possbile to meet someone and have a laugh without fancying them sexually. You might end up as friends!
Don't think we'd arrange a meet where we show up at someones door or have someone show up at ours. That would be awkward if we didn't fancy the cpl.
so im i to understand that even though single gusy get a bad rap somtimes it works out?
All people have fun on this site, if you 'click' with others, some times you don't so you have a drink and go, other times you do click and have a fun time and that leads to a long friendship.
well done keep up the good work!
well done .....it'a all worth it when it goes good!
