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We were in a room last night and was told we were not allowed to ask if any cpls want a meet ?.
I was thinking has power gone to some opps heads or is it jealousey ?. we can,t understand that, we were not directing or being rude to anyone, there was nothing on the room to say you can,t do it so WHY?.
Yes you could put it in the forums, but not all people go in there. we just can,t understand it and think that it is petty and small minded and spoils it all.
There are lots of genuine people out there guys girls and cpls so why do something like this to spoil things for people ?
Please tell us your thoughs on this.
Love+Licks Sandy+Ken xxxx
I suggest to winge to the opps or who ever told you not ask,
Everyone knows that power currupts. LOL.
I found this - could be useful!
Swinging Heaven Chat Room Rules
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Seems you have to click to agree to it BEFORE you enter the chat section - I've never been there so can't speak from experience.
:P
Don't you just hate it when someone comes in here to complain about something that happened in the chatroom.....only telling us what they want us to hear,then an op comes along and if they want to but they don't have to but tell the whinger why!...if an OP says something in the chatrooms thats not allowed.....its for good reason.......so no ..i don't think power can go to your head.....if your referring to the OP's or the Mods!!
never heard that b4......quite often arrange spur of the moment meets in the chatroom.... smile
were u whispering by any chance??
or were u putting messenger addy up??
Think it's been said.
Locked - any complaints to the usual address!
rolleyes :roll: