Hi, I'm new to this website and I was wondering if I could pick some brains? My girlfriend and I have recently decided that we would like to have a threesome. We had talked about a threesome with another girl, and more recently with another guy. At first I didn't think I'd want to do anything with the other guy, but the more I think about it, the more it excites me. I was wondering if anyone has advice they could give me? Was it as exciting as you'd hoped? Was it too weird? Any regrets?
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Any advice on MMF?
Sex God
something_new hey!!!
all i can offer on this subject is this!
unless invited.......DO NOT TOUCH THE OTHER GUYS COCK!!!!
crass i know! apologies!!!
oh!!! and be sure to say a VERY polite "thank you" to the lady, and a VERY respectful "thank you" to the gentleman!!!!!!
neil x x x
all i can offer on this subject is this!
unless invited.......DO NOT TOUCH THE OTHER GUYS COCK!!!!
crass i know! apologies!!!
oh!!! and be sure to say a VERY polite "thank you" to the lady, and a VERY respectful "thank you" to the gentleman!!!!!!
neil x x x
Hi, I`ll try to get Mars on later to give you some input. He`s not tried it as yet, and was not at all bi-curious when he was younger, but when I bought the subject up later on in our marraige, as a personal fantasy only, he too became more excited by the idea. Took him completely by surprise to be honest!
You two should swap notes!
Just wondering, how does your girlfriend feel about your bi-curiousity?
Venusxxx
You two should swap notes!
Just wondering, how does your girlfriend feel about your bi-curiousity?
Venusxxx
I've found the same as VenusnMars. The first time this came up for me was in the context of talking through our fantasies with my ex. She got really turned on by the idea of watching two guys going down on each other, and in time, I got into it too. And this surprised me as much as it did Mars. We eventually tried it, and loved it, and did it some more. The reason it worked for me was that it was the means to an end, rather than the end in itself.
I'm fascinated by the treatment this gets in the media and porn industries. The world's full of FFM action where the girls play, but watch just about any MMF video and marvel at the efforts the guys make to avoid touching each other.
Does this reflect the fact that very few "straight" males are comfortable touching or being touched by another guy, and that it rarely happens in real life? Or is this a common scenario that that the industry avoids because it's collectively too immature in its sexuality to reflect real life?
Pondering again,
Lucifer
I'm fascinated by the treatment this gets in the media and porn industries. The world's full of FFM action where the girls play, but watch just about any MMF video and marvel at the efforts the guys make to avoid touching each other.
Does this reflect the fact that very few "straight" males are comfortable touching or being touched by another guy, and that it rarely happens in real life? Or is this a common scenario that that the industry avoids because it's collectively too immature in its sexuality to reflect real life?
Pondering again,
Lucifer
I used to work at a University and you get to come into contact with all kinds of cultures there. Some of the Arab guys were quite keen on touching - it wasn't a sexual thing, just their way of showing friendship (well, to steal a line from Mick Foley, either that or they really wanted to nail me). Took a little bit of getting used to because as you say, guys don't touch over here. I could count the number of times I've touched another man - socially, not sexually - on the fingers of one hand.
would love for that to happen but i realise that the chances are slim to i can dream 
John here,
As I am bi-sexual I find the idea of MMF a huge turn on especially if the other male is like myself, my wife enjoys the idea and sees it as all being fair (why should she have all the fun)
However we have found it extremely difficult to find males who would be open to this type of thing, it is our experience that most males say they are, then completely ignore this aspect and concentrate on Sarah.
I don't include all males as being like this, but it is certainly something to keep in mnd when selecting that other person.
Having had some experience I would personally recommend that all males/couples should try it, you never know you might like it.
On the other aspect of males being offended by the idea, I can only suggest that all parties are up front and fully honest about thier intentions or interests before beginning anything. This has worked for us so far.
John
As I am bi-sexual I find the idea of MMF a huge turn on especially if the other male is like myself, my wife enjoys the idea and sees it as all being fair (why should she have all the fun)
However we have found it extremely difficult to find males who would be open to this type of thing, it is our experience that most males say they are, then completely ignore this aspect and concentrate on Sarah.
I don't include all males as being like this, but it is certainly something to keep in mnd when selecting that other person.
Having had some experience I would personally recommend that all males/couples should try it, you never know you might like it.
On the other aspect of males being offended by the idea, I can only suggest that all parties are up front and fully honest about thier intentions or interests before beginning anything. This has worked for us so far.
John
Sex God
Having taken part in MMFs where the blokes don't touch and others where they definately do, I know which I prefer :twisted: . Now, I'd go so far as to say that an MMF where there is no cock sucking just isn't worth it.
If you want a bit of advice, if you do decide to do a MMF and you want to make it with the guy too, do make sure you choose a bi guy :silly:
If you want a bit of advice, if you do decide to do a MMF and you want to make it with the guy too, do make sure you choose a bi guy :silly:
Hi something_new, im glad you came on this Forum it`s very good, but i just don`t get enough time on here. :cry:
I finely got the computer to myself. :thrilled:
Im sorry that i have no advice to give you, as i have not been with another guy myself yet.
I have read the reply`s that you have gotten, and i think that thay have given you the same advice i would. Find someone that`s bi, and Sexyscotscouple is spot on here.
And here to.
I hope you decide to try it (soon) , i think you will find it as good as you hope.
Me and venus will be trying soon to.
Mars
I finely got the computer to myself. :thrilled:
Im sorry that i have no advice to give you, as i have not been with another guy myself yet.
I have read the reply`s that you have gotten, and i think that thay have given you the same advice i would. Find someone that`s bi, and Sexyscotscouple is spot on here.
Sexyscotscouple
On the other aspect of males being offended by the idea, I can only suggest that all parties are up front and fully honest about thier intentions or interests before beginning anything. This has worked for us so far.
And here to.
Sexyscotscouple
Having had some experience I would personally recommend that all males/couples should try it, you never know you might like it.
I hope you decide to try it (soon)
, i think you will find it as good as you hope.Me and venus will be trying soon to.
Mars
Warming the Bed
I found myself in a situation like this a few years ago where i met a friend of mine for a drink ( i knew he was bi from years ago ), anyway after meeting his missus and having a number of drinks we ended up at their house where we ended up naked on the frontroom floor, after we took turns to lick her out she said that she wanted to watch us suck each other off and funnily enough i let it happen, he has quite a large cock ( 8 1/2" ) but i found it quite enjoyable when i did let him put it in my mouth, anyway, after that we took in turns to have sex with the girl but just as my mate was about to come she wanted to watch me suck him again as he come, i was a bit reluctant to do that but all of a sudden he pulled his cock out of her and straight into my mouth and shot a huge amount of cum into the back of my throat that i had no choice but to swallow it, can't say that i liked the taste of the stuff just didn't have much choice though.
After he pulled out of my mouth i looked at her and she loved watching that so i just put it down to experience in the end, i'm not gay or anything as i prefer women any day of the week but it was an interesting evening, funnily enough they are married with 2 kids now but i still see him around occasionally, and a few times he has been to my flat to get a blow-job and still i let him cum in my mouth, no idea why i swallow the stuff but it must have seemed like a good idea at the time, just as well my missus doesn't know.
After he pulled out of my mouth i looked at her and she loved watching that so i just put it down to experience in the end, i'm not gay or anything as i prefer women any day of the week but it was an interesting evening, funnily enough they are married with 2 kids now but i still see him around occasionally, and a few times he has been to my flat to get a blow-job and still i let him cum in my mouth, no idea why i swallow the stuff but it must have seemed like a good idea at the time, just as well my missus doesn't know.
I am straight and dont fancy the idea of giving male O at all, BUT as i have got older i find the idea of being given O by a nice bloke, whilst in a MMF threesome a real turn on. but not essential.
Years ago i would have said no but now im into my 40s................!!
Maybe its just an age thing with me,
Hello by the way X
but not essential.Years ago i would have said no but now im into my 40s................!!
Maybe its just an age thing with me,
Hello by the way X
Sex God
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Hello by the way X
Hi there mike welcome to the club :welcome:
As far as MMF goes I think bi-sexuallity has been the key to some really fun times, we have found the whole experience is much more equal and inclusive.
Also good fun for MMFF - fingering two pussies whilst sucking on a cock is an experience not to be missed (Or any version of 3 on 1 for that matter). :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:
(4 very happy people)
Sex God
Good comments folks 
. I hope the straight guys are taking notes - bi men really do have more fun :twisted:
Methinks a trip to Liaisons bi night is in order
:twisted:
:twisted: 8-)
. I hope the straight guys are taking notes - bi men really do have more fun :twisted: Methinks a trip to Liaisons bi night is in order
:twisted:
:twisted: 8-) I have to admit, the thought of watching Daz being sucked by another man doesnt really appeal to me, i'm not aginst gay or bi men or anything, but it just doesnt float MY boat!
But Daz and i were talking a while back, and he said a similar thing to mike1963. He has no inclination to give a man O, but has thought about what it would be like to be sucked by another man. He doesnt want to try it though, he just ponders it!!
But Daz and i were talking a while back, and he said a similar thing to mike1963. He has no inclination to give a man O, but has thought about what it would be like to be sucked by another man. He doesnt want to try it though, he just ponders it!!
Warming the Bed
I had my first bi experience 16 years ago in MMF, but i think you need to set the rules before you start...as a cock in the face often offends.
As long as you know what you all want, you can have some good fun. Watching the lady's reaction is amazing if it's what she wants to see. :shock:
As long as you know what you all want, you can have some good fun. Watching the lady's reaction is amazing if it's what she wants to see. :shock:
Sex God
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Ias a cock in the face often offends.
As
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: Sex God
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I would like to be invited to join a couple and although it's true i prefer women I really want my cock sucked by a man.
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He has no inclination to give a man O, but has thought about what it would be like to be sucked by another man.
Quote by mike1963
I am straight and dont fancy the idea of giving male O at all, BUT as i have got older i find the idea of being given O by a nice bloke, whilst in a MMF threesome a real turn on.
Just a thought for the guys above and any others who like the idea of having their cock sucked by a man but would not want to reciprocate. Is it fair to expect to receive what you are not prepared to give?
Another point to ponder along these lines - if you want your partner to engage in some fem-fem action whilst you watch and wank, is it fair for her to then want to watch you play with another guy if that is something that gets her horny?
I would have thought that turn-about is fair play but maybe I am in the minority.
Roger
Sex God
I think it's more about a male dominance thing.
Dominant male chips mount those males beneath that as a way of asserting their dominance. I can't help but wonder if this is a genetic/subconcious presentation of the same thing.
Dominant male chips mount those males beneath that as a way of asserting their dominance. I can't help but wonder if this is a genetic/subconcious presentation of the same thing.
The best sex me and my wife ever have is when another man comes over... I especially like licking another man's cum from my wife's pussy... first time was a bit wierd, but after that it was just part of the experience... that developed into kissing her with her mouth full of his, and licking it from her breasts... eventually she just told me to lick the last bits from the end of his cock, and then give it to her... it was a natural gentle progression, and now me sucking her regular boyfriend is as normal as her doing it... if its what you want, build up gradually... oh, and by the way, seeing your wife with another man can be the biggest thrill in the world, or the biggest mistake... with us it was great....
You should try it. It's so exciting for both the man (men) and the woman. You need to figure out what you are most excited by though, the other man or the situation, there seem to be a lot of bi- guys here so you need to set the right expectation. I'm straight myself and have been slightly pissed of by men/couples where the man has been bi but haven't said so before. (not anyone from here though, I'm really impressed with this site) Honesty is so important. I guess it's hard for you to know before trying, but think about it before hand, take it easy in the beginning, find an experienced, non-pushy guy that is cool and gentle and that you get on with socially. Best of luck.
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The best sex me and my wife ever have is when another man comes over... I especially like licking another man's cum from my wife's pussy... first time was a bit wierd, ....
Only did that once, and found it a turn on, licking where another man had been and cum.....got hard as hell..
Have tried sucking anotherman beofre, and although i cant say i found that so exciting, was nice to hear him moan as he enjoyed it. Made him happy at the time, after all, i did just have his wife, so fairs fair.
As others have said, talk about it first, lots, with both g/f wife and him...Just make sure you all want it, as if it goes wrong on the night, u cant turn the clock back. I just said to myself that id never done it, and wanted to try it, even if it was the first and only time...at least oin me deathbed i can say i tried most things :twisted:
Berto
When Richard and I have another guy involved they just take turns to take me.
This also works with a gay girl - her and Richard have no "action" together, they just take turns wth me.
The best thing to start with is a straight foward spitroast - but dp is good as well - one cock up my ass and one in my pussy - and I've done this face up and face down.
Well worth giving a go.
Also works MFF if the other girl wears a strap on.
However, if the 2 guys want to try each other out, the best thing to do is discuss it first so you know how far it's going to go.
Richard is straight so there is no chance of him doing this so we know even if another guy is bi, cards onthe table - don't touch my man! (Besides he has too anyladies who need his attention)
I have had two of my guys try each other out in the past.
Best way is do what you normally do - a spitroast, and let the guys move onto each other.
Start with handjobs and move onto blowjobs.
If there is going to be penetration make sure it's decided who will go in who - to many guys this will be losing their "virginity" and it needs to be relaxed and no pressure.
I had the flip of a MMF where one guy was bi-curious and I had a gay male friend join us -no contact between me and him - it was so the curious guy could try gay sex. He had his "anal cherry" popped quite spectacularly (I was quite jealous my gay friend wouldn't oblge me- after all, an ass is an ass).
He seemed OK on the night, but in the week following he had a difficult time coping with it.
For a bi curious girl a bit of hands and oral doesn't hurt.
For a guy who is bi-curious, it's a very dificult way to find out that you're straight!
Just be sure before you go in. As it were.
Rachel
This also works with a gay girl - her and Richard have no "action" together, they just take turns wth me.
The best thing to start with is a straight foward spitroast - but dp is good as well - one cock up my ass and one in my pussy - and I've done this face up and face down.
Well worth giving a go.
Also works MFF if the other girl wears a strap on.
However, if the 2 guys want to try each other out, the best thing to do is discuss it first so you know how far it's going to go.
Richard is straight so there is no chance of him doing this so we know even if another guy is bi, cards onthe table - don't touch my man! (Besides he has too anyladies who need his attention)
I have had two of my guys try each other out in the past.
Best way is do what you normally do - a spitroast, and let the guys move onto each other.
Start with handjobs and move onto blowjobs.
If there is going to be penetration make sure it's decided who will go in who - to many guys this will be losing their "virginity" and it needs to be relaxed and no pressure.
I had the flip of a MMF where one guy was bi-curious and I had a gay male friend join us -no contact between me and him - it was so the curious guy could try gay sex. He had his "anal cherry" popped quite spectacularly (I was quite jealous my gay friend wouldn't oblge me- after all, an ass is an ass).
He seemed OK on the night, but in the week following he had a difficult time coping with it.
For a bi curious girl a bit of hands and oral doesn't hurt.
For a guy who is bi-curious, it's a very dificult way to find out that you're straight!
Just be sure before you go in. As it were.
Rachel
Quote by bluexxx
Having taken part in MMFs where the blokes don't touch and others where they definately do, I know which I prefer :twisted: . Now, I'd go so far as to say that an MMF where there is no cock sucking just isn't worth it.
If you want a bit of advice, if you do decide to do a MMF and you want to make it with the guy too, do make sure you choose a bi guy :silly:
See now i am a "straight" guy!..
however... i do sometimes wonder... dont think id like to go down but receiving could be quite the turn on i reckon ..maybe... ..but yes i agree with blue.. it would have to be a gay/bi guy and not a curious straight guy.
i never thought id hear myself say that!Magik
whilst i have never done anything remotely close to this and have no fantasys or diresires to kiss another man. the idea of sucking another man if i was sharring a girl with him doesn't seem to bother me. maybe i would be different if the situation presented itself, however if i could bend far enough to get my own in my mouth i would be so pale 
it would be unbelivible
any no not from being covered in cum, from never going outside incase the penny isn't dropping
it would be unbelivibleany no not from being covered in cum, from never going outside incase the penny isn't dropping
There seem to be a lot of guys interested in trying "full blown anal"
(thanks to the smooth talking b'tard who PM'd me with that one)
(see thread "My first anal expereince" for details)
Or are they just willing to try it when a girl is doing the "driving"?
Well at least when I say mine is 9" and stays hard all night I'm telling the truth!
Rachel
(thanks to the smooth talking b'tard who PM'd me with that one)
(see thread "My first anal expereince" for details)
Or are they just willing to try it when a girl is doing the "driving"?
Well at least when I say mine is 9" and stays hard all night I'm telling the truth!
Rachel
