Any tips on how to introduce anal?

1 Nov 2005

hey,
I would love to try A with my wife but she is a bit reluctant.
She likes a fingerv(if she is really turned onv2) in her bum when having sex or as foreplay, how can I take this further. confused

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Any ideas, especially from any ladies would be good.
Thanks

1 Nov 2005

:karaoke:
...drum roll...'and now for the delectation of my servile partner...a joyous event of stupendous anticipation...a roller coaster ride on the Coney Island Green Banana...a big fat knob up the sh*****!' :giggle:

1 Nov 2005

either
get her very drunk
give up on the idea
discuss like adults and accept the answer
thats about the size of it
or offer you can do me with a strap on if i can do you

1 Nov 2005

i I thinks its the fact it "might" be painful and she has never done it before.
is that you in your pic chardonnay?

1 Nov 2005

i say let her stick something up your a*s first - tell her see it doesn't hurt... then bang away till your hearts content !

1 Nov 2005

Quote by suclit
i I thinks its the fact it "might" be painful and she has never done it before.
is that you in your pic chardonnay?

I just love how easily distracted men get

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:

1 Nov 2005

Quote by Maia
i I thinks its the fact it "might" be painful and she has never done it before.
is that you in your pic chardonnay?

I just love how easily distracted men get

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Have to agree with you there! lol

1 Nov 2005

Quote by da69ve
Have to agree with you there!

And me as well :lol:

1 Nov 2005

Only you can know how far to push her, we dont know her. But make sure you take a lot of time and care and lube...stretch her gently and slowly with one then two fingers before even thinking of getting the old chap in there.
Give her loads of reassurance and lots of distracting whispers, kissing, tweaking, anything to turn her on. When it comes to time to penetrate her, put yourself in position and with any luck she'll be so turned on she'll WANT to push back onto you at her own pace. This is far better than you pushing into her. Encourage her by pulling her back onto you but let her set the pace smile

There's no need to rush it, and if you do....and hurt her, she may not want to try it ever again. If you let her lead and she decides not to go that far, then at least you got more chance of her trying again in the future.

1 Nov 2005

thanks tabbi. hope that is the way to get going

1 Nov 2005

Agree with what tabbi says - but for the first time if she is worried try just putting the head of your cock in and not going any further - was the suggested method in a previous post on this subject!

1 Nov 2005

Right my suggestion on the matter, me being a expert n all
buy a small dildo and try that first and build upto you cock size

1 Nov 2005

Quote by Maia
i I thinks its the fact it "might" be painful and she has never done it before.
is that you in your pic chardonnay?

I just love how easily distracted men get

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Eh....? :confused:

1 Nov 2005

You need a hand there, Dewi?

1 Nov 2005

Quote by Maia
You need a hand there, Dewi?

No, but a finger or two wouldn't go amiss wink

1 Nov 2005

Quote by bigDewi69
You need a hand there, Dewi?

No, but a finger or two wouldn't go amiss wink

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Goes off to find her tube of KY jelly.....

1 Nov 2005

advice......
go slowly........
.....veeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeery slowly.....

1 Nov 2005

Quote by dargento
advice......
go slowly........
.....veeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeery slowly.....

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1 Nov 2005

Quote by dargento
advice......
go slowly........
.....veeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeery slowly.....

just shove it in ffs man and stop messing about :lol2:

1 Nov 2005

Have plenty of lube at hand and wait until she is extremely turned on then ask her nicely if you can try anal. If she is extremely horny she may just let you try but you MUST take your time and use a ton of lube. If she isn't willing to give it a go then forget it. Some peeps just don't want to do it.
G x

1 Nov 2005

Would it be unfair to suggest that people who suffer from IBS should refrain from this activity? It must wreck havoc with the system and signals.

1 Nov 2005

can't agree more with above............. biggrin

Lube, lube and more lube..........and if in doubt.....more lube :P
oh, and good idea if she pushes back onto you.....us boys are a bit jumpy at that point lol