I just wanted to let you know that im cancelling ALL parties and munches that i may be down for attending in the near future.
Im having some difficulties on the home front at the moment with work, this in itself i can deal with but now my ex has started being funny about the access to my children, for example i should have been seeing them this weekend but because my dad was 10mins late taking them home tonight after they went to his for tea my ex has stopped me from seeing my girls this weekend.
I hope that i can resolve this situation soon and get "back on the scene" this is not a flounce by any means as i will still look in on the site and chatroom but i will just not be conducting any meets as i feel i need to concentrate more on my daughters.
I will no doubt see you all soon and again, i am sorry.
M xXx
Hi Mids!
Hope you get everything sorted...
speak to you soon
Jiggle
Take care mate, we'll keep your spot warm for you. :thumbup:
Take good care hunni,
Hope everything comes good quickly
xxxxxx
(((hugs)))
Take care hunni.
Bloody ex's, who'd have them, eh!!!!
Gill & Del x
best of luck to you mate, and I really do hope that you get this situation sorted real fast
wishing you all our best midsman hope you get your probs with the ex and the kids sorted soon
Hope you get it all sorted asap!!
Awwww good luck with that Mids.......I hope we'll see you again sometime soon....
Fair play to you, you havent tried to turn this into an anti female thread - I wonder if it was the other way round whether we would have got........................
I had the same problem Matt.......... I went to a solicitor, he went to the courts and now my ex cant stop me seeing my daughter..... even if things happen that prevent me collecting/returning her on time as scheduled....... don't be bullied or railroaded m8... stand your ground and let her know that you won't be trifled with.
p.s. The courts were exceptionally fair as my parents now have 6 weekends a year where they can see my daughter regardless of who's access weekend it actually is... the system has been improved a lot since Sir Bob highlighted the plight of single fathers..
Geldof for Prime Minister !!!!!! lol lol lol
Good Luck Matt
Hope everything gets sorted out for you soon babes
You know how to contact me if you need to chat or have a good moan and let steam off
Luv n hugs
Vicky xxxxxxxx
Good priorities , and good luck mate
I can`t really add anything to what`s already been said except for my support. (((((hugs)))))
Venusxxx
hope all goes well mm. Took me 2 years really to sort things out, I just kept in touch with the kids emailed and phoned regularly etc, all I can say is things working out well and now my ex has got a new bf things are a lot better. So well done got the priorities right and good luck.
Re courts I would really only reccomend as a very final resort as once solicitors get involved things tend to go pear shaped as they feel they have to adopt a conflictory role and ghet as musch as possible for you, collaboration is best if you can manage it.
a
Any decent family law solicitor will suggest you try mediation first to come to some sort of a compromise.
My ex is a proper twat in his attitude and behaviour towards me. He's never paid a penny in the 4 years since we split up but i don't stop him seeing our daughter whenever he wants.
Good Luck MM, hope it all comes right for you!
Been there done that. I hope things have changed for the better in the 10 years since it happened because at the time I might as well have been pissing in the wind. It didn't help that she was on legal aid and could just drag everything out for as long as she could get away with it.
My daughter's 18 now so she's big enough to make up her own mind who she wants to see and we've got some kind of a relationship back. It's not what it should be though, thanks to her mother there's a big hole on it.
Steve
Right priorities, but is it really necessary to cut yourself off completely like that? Is it because association with the scene might compromise your position? If so, that's sad - wish you all the best to get it sorted but it sounds like a long haul to me.
Sorry to hear that you are having problems with your ex!!
Cant really add anything as it has all been said,hope it all sorts itself has been through this sh*it aswell its not nice
Nor is it fair on the Children as they miss out.
Good luck Matt.
Nicky and Mick xxxxxxxxx
Speak soon ;)
take care friend and hope you get things sorted .xxxx
but I do think you have made a good decision 
if something's gotta go then it's gotta go-but i do hope it all works out for you hun as I have always found you to be a genuinely nice guy.
Good luck hun.
All I can say is she (your ex) must have zero social life.
