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Are all 'straight' guys bi?

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So many guys are terrified of the stigma but given the right circumstances, prompts, attraction then the barriers will fall. Some will be paranoid about what they have done and others will jump in with both feet. Everyone is different but when it comes to sexuality it really should be a case of don’t knock it until you have tried it.

i dont fancy guys and could never kiss one but i do love to suck cock

Wonderful dogging experience. Spontaneous, with a surprise. No wonder your wife came hard. Nothing like fucklicking...best of both worlds enjoyed by your tongue and mouth. Even better when a pussy and a cock cum together on your mouth and tongue. So many juices and tastes.

My wife would love me to be more into it but guys just don't turn me on. The first time many years ago we were out dogging and she was sitting on my lap riding me and a dogger we know was watching and wanking. he came forward and she pulled his head down so he could taste her and see up close. A magical moment as he licked my shaft and her lips. she deliberately eased up, my cock popped out and straight into his mouth. he sucked pushed it back in and repeated wow did she cum. I tried it a while later and found a experience that was really weird as there isn't anything that feels like a cock that I 've put in my mouth. 2 cocks 1 mouth is another experience all should try, not my mouth. If I could detach the cock from a man I would be in ..........

I have no physical attraction to men. I know and recognise a good looking chap and can admire the aesthetics but the male physique doesn’t turn me on, nor does the idea of being romantic or kissing. However, something about a good looking thick, hard cock in the presence of a woman is such a turn on. Sharing a cock with a woman is such a turn on. I love women who get turned on at Bi men. I think I could only ever be Bi in the presence of a woman, though a gloryhole could change that. Just having a cock to deal with and none of the rest of the man could work. Though a gloryhole shared with a woman would be amazing. Us both being little sluts and helping to suck, wank and make cum lots of anonymous cocks would be fun. Sharing the cocks together. Sharing the cum in passionate french kisses with a gorgeous girl, cum dripping from our mouths, our chins, onto our bodies, her breasts glistening with multiple loads of hot, creamy sperm. Perhaps even getting her a lovely cream pie from a stranger’s bareback cock through the gloryhole, would give me the chance to lick her pussy as she’s fucked, my tongue tasting her pussy juices, his shaft and precum. Then, when he cums inside her, the delicious taste of hot, fresh sperm oozing from her beautiful fucked pussy lips. Lapping it up, before sharing his load with her in a passionate snog.

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I have no physical attraction to men. I know and recognise a good looking chap and can admire the aesthetics but the male physique doesn’t turn me on, nor does the idea of being romantic or kissing. However, something about a good looking thick, hard cock in the presence of a woman is such a turn on. Sharing a cock with a woman is such a turn on. I love women who get turned on at Bi men. I think I could only ever be Bi in the presence of a woman, though a gloryhole could change that. Just having a cock to deal with and none of the rest of the man could work. Though a gloryhole shared with a woman would be amazing. Us both being little sluts and helping to suck, wank and make cum lots of anonymous cocks would be fun. Sharing the cocks together. Sharing the cum in passionate french kisses with a gorgeous girl, cum dripping from our mouths, our chins, onto our bodies, her breasts glistening with multiple loads of hot, creamy sperm. Perhaps even getting her a lovely cream pie from a stranger’s bareback cock through the gloryhole, would give me the chance to lick her pussy as she’s fucked, my tongue tasting her pussy juices, his shaft and precum. Then, when he cums inside her, the delicious taste of hot, fresh sperm oozing from her beautiful fucked pussy lips. Lapping it up, before sharing his load with her in a passionate snog.

You are our kind of guy - at least as far as your above message goes.

As a bi man who meets guys solo, in a MMF situation and MFM, in my experience a lot are. In the latter the boundaries are clear and I respect them, the focus being purely upon the woman and wonderful it can be indeed. However, in the knowledge that I am bi it is not uncommon for the man in the couple to surreptitiously start to 'extend ' to hose boundaries.....

I think I am predominately straight, however have fantasises about bi activities

I difficult when we get caught up on labels and definitions. I'd say I'm str8. I don't fancy blokes at all. But I have interests and fantasies that include other men. Less open minded men would say that wasn't str8. I find describing myself as bi is over promising by the definition of a lot of people.

My "interest" is probably more down to dom/switch/sub than str8/bi/gay.

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In my experience yes but of course the attached males are not going to admit that if they have a wife/GF breathing down their neck😇

Unless it turns their wife on to watch them with another guy. My wife loves watching two men suck one another - either on screen or in the flesh. She also gets really turned on by the thought of watching two men fuck.

Went to a party where there was a darkened room, wandered in and was delighted to see a couple of women just enjoying two men 69-ing. They weren’t their spouses/gfs, just two women mad for bi men. Was so horny watching it all and seeing the women in their absolute element.

I think that the vast majority of straight men will accept a blow job from another man if there is no chance of getting caught or there being any comeback or complications. I know a couple of gay guys who only like having casual sex with straights because there is no risk of any attachment forming, and one of them likes the idea of being used!

Been straight all my life, but would certainly want to try. Although I would prefer a smooth body as it would seem less masculine somehow.

I would have considered myself as straight, but then i got involved with a married couple and sharing her hubbies cock became very enjoyable.

So I went from straight to Bi fairly quickly, and found guy on guy is just as much fun

Hi,

I don't tend to hang out on the forums but thought I'd chip in on this thread as it sort of called out to me.

Firstly, I'm married to a woman, but when I was single and in my youth I had a number of encounters where I have interacted with men. This started out in my teens by having a best friend who we shared a porn mag with. We used to call each other and ask for the mag to be left somewhere to be picked up by the other to 'use' when the need arose.

One day, we were both together and his house and parents were out somewhere and it just happened. I won't go into it because that bit is more detail than is needed for this message.

We carried on like that pretty much until we were both able to get ourselves girlfriends. Ultimately we were both attracted to women, but were relaxed to help each other out (so to speak). He's married as well now and has kids, not sure where his head is as I've not spoken to him about what happened since.

Later I went on a very very long stretch where women were my everything - I LOVE women! Then one of them used her vibrator on me and it re-awakened long idle thoughts of what had happened when I was with my mate. It took me ages of sitting and wondering if my experiences with him and then a girl using a vibrator on me made me 'Gay'?

Later in my late 30's I had a few interactions with men, where it's simply been about pleasure - but not for one second did feelings come into it. No kisses, no cuddles, none of that.

At 46 years old I have come to the conclusion that maybe "Gay" and "Straight" are actually labels that we use to assign what kind of relationships we want. If you're gay, you're attracted to same sex individuals, if you're straight you're attracted to the opposite sex.

This leaves a bit of a void that I, as a man and maybe many other men and women fit into - which is, what are you if you're emotionally 100% tuned to the opposite sex and thus "Straight" but enjoy the sexual touch and interaction with the same sex? - I'm not even sure "bi" is the right stamp, because for me it's "situation" based, I'm as likely to say no to someone as I am to say yes!

But when it comes to needing to love and be loved, I just don't think (speaking from my mind and heart) I could ever be with anyone but a woman.

So there you go, my story and view on this interesting subject.

Edit: To answer the question, No. Not all straight men are bi. But we need to acknowledge the differences between what we seek in an ideal relationship and what we enjoy sexually.

That’s a very insightful comment Gts. I class myself as bi because I enjoy sex with men and women. However I am also conscious that I am attracted to women for themselves, whereas my interest in a man is primarily how likely he might be an opportunity for sex. There are lots of celebrity women who I will never meet in person but I am still attracted to them, whereas I have never looked at a male celeb and thought “wow, he’s hot”.

Does this make a true Bi, or just a straight, open-minded guy who likes easy uncomplicated sex? Even I don’t know the answer to that one!

I shall follow on from the comment made by gts. I don't think we should attach a label to this. I have a wonderful woman in my life but if, during the course of events, things develop sexually with a guy, I don't see that as a problem. Rather just part of that big small word, with much meaning, we call SEX and it really as basic as that. It does not mean I wish to pursue a relationship with a man, at all.

If you like it enjoy it, don't need a label, I take pleasure from all.

I sucked cock when I was at university - I was working as a male escort to bump up my income. I met a couple and she had the most delicious looking pussy. I really wanted to go down on her. But she said if I wanted to taste her pussy, I would have to taste it on her husband's cock first (They later told me it was a game she liked to play). Anyway, he had a nice looking cock, so I took a deep breath and went for it.

Years later, I met a couple who were swingers. We ended up all going down on each other and I was hooked. Then my now wife said she wanted to see two guys sucking one another. Well, what my baby wants she gets. Now i love sucking a nice clean cock, or even one that is fresh out of a pussy - preferably my wife's.

I would just say never say never. Try new things. You might find you like them.

We recently had a message from a 'straight' guy who lists male couples amongst his interests. Go figure...

No! I have never touched another man’s cock and have no interest in doing so.

Usually in a threesome my only rule is that I do not wish to touch or be touched by the other male.

We all have a gay/bi side. In some it is very strong, in others it is not, in some it takes a trigger. We are all different, it is a matter of chromosomes.

I used to think I was 100% hetrosexual and I'd mentally groan and roll my eyes every time guys asked me if I'd be ok with them sucking my cock. Years into my life as a swinger I finally said yes to a cuckold but I said he could only kiss the side of my cock but not put the head of my cock in his mouth.

He kept his word and I didn't freak out. The rest is history lololol.

i think of myself as straight but i do love to dress as a girl and meet other guys that cross dress and i love to suck cock but i cant kiss a guy i dont fancy guys and could never fuck or be fucked by a guy

Sexually we are all different and unique, I used to class myself as straight, it wasn’t till I’d had many threesomes with couples that my mind and body started to react to guys touching me or touching him .

Consequently I now meet , ladies , guys and couples

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We all have a gay/bi side. In some it is very strong, in others it is not, in some it takes a trigger. We are all different, it is a matter of chromosomes.

If we're all different as you say, some of us don't have any bi/gay side at all. In the 20 years we've been meeting guys, I've never been attracted to or wanted any physical contact with any of them. Each to their own of course, but just be honest about it.

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We all have a gay/bi side. In some it is very strong, in others it is not, in some it takes a trigger. We are all different, it is a matter of chromosomes.

No we don't. Trust me on this.

i am not very bi but i do love to suck cock

A few nights ago, Mrs C & I agreed that we would both suck cock together, I must admit, I really enjoyed it, despite considering myself straight as a die.

I remember my first time. Would I like it, wouldn't I? For me it really depends on how easy going, non-aggressive the man is. Also, speaking only for me, a normal sized cock and sharing with fem all helped. I haven't looked back since and love the fact that if all parties want to, all are involved. So glad I gave it a try.