Are all 'straight' guys bi?

No. Deffo 100% straight

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You couldn't possibly be more wrong, and you really should consider the validity of projecting your own experiences and views onto others, it's telling.

Isn't that exactly what you are doing?

Agree completely with wmalebfembothbi. Maybe newbieanalyst is a member of the site police.

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Isn't that exactly what you are doing?

Not at all, nothing in any of my comments has implied anything about anybody else's position. Find somewhere that I've said anything that implies anything about anyone else. You do understand what projection means, don't you? The implied message from other's posts is that because they are willing to experiment with other guys, all other guys are too, even if they don't know/admit it. Find somewhere in my comments where I've made a similar claim.

I love 3some when i have cum -nocondom I like to watch hubby fuck her,when he has cum i like to suck the juices off his cockwhen we are both hard again she takes both either c7a or both in cunt wifey has suggested i fuck him should I?

[mods edit- please don't discuss illegal drugs on the forum] I ended up in my Mrs knickers and....anyway let's just say it was certainly an adventure

I don’t think all straight men are bi, but from personal experience and from talking with friends, I would say 9 out of 10 straight men would accept a blowjob from another man if: a) there was nothing expected in return b) there was no risk of getting caught or observed c) there was no risk of the other person identifying them or their family.

9/10 men, quite possibly, but then by definition, they are not straight men, bi curious at least, simples. It's like saying 9/10 red cars are blue.

Personally, I think as you get older, m/m fun becomes more of a thing.

When you're a young man, you just want to be with as many women as possible. Then you settle down and get married and, unless you're into this lifestyle, you're exclusive to your partner. However, as you both get older, circumstances change. You still love your partner dearly, but health issues come into play - the menopause is a big game changer for a lot of women. If they lose their interest and appetite for sex, then guys are tempted to look elsewhere for their fun. Even being on a site like this is no guarantee that you'll be able to find a new female sexual partner. An older guy is in a group of thousands of similar on here, so maybe experimenting with m/m play is the easier option. The expectations are less, they don't want a relationship, they just want to get off and if you've been part of the lifestyle, you've been around enough other naked males (at clubs, parties etc.) not to be freaked out by the sight of another mans cock.

If you've been vanilla all your life, then the idea of engaging in m/m play is weird, but if you've been a swinger, then it's easier to accept.

I feel like the older I've gotten the more open I've gotten to the idea of at least trying something with a guy.. Maybe its all just a fantasy i'll never act on but the thoughts are there for sure

I'm pretty sure I have been bi from when I can remember but somehow always kept it under wraps much to my detriment.

For some reason I always seemed to attract male attention at parties which was unsolicited and kind of frightened me off as it was always when my friends were there, suppose it may have been different if they weren't there. To this end I would say I am bi.

My 1st experience with the bi issue was with a regular couple, used to do 69 position with the wife and at 1st I felt like 2 people were sucking me, paid attention and I was right and it also felt good. After the meeting I texted them that I know they wr both sucking me and I loved it. Met several times and there was no more hiding until some day I gave in and tucked them both which was a blast. I can only be with a men or fuck or get sucked in the presence of a woman, apart from that I don't even want a man touching me, have tried and I couldn't get hard

I'm very similar I get really turned on by bi MMF fun but have no interest in meeting guys on a 1 on 1 basis.

I've always considered myself straight, love women and having sex with women but now I am considering myself Bicurious. I never even thought about wanking or sucking another mans cock or having mine likewise treated but recently in the Cap D'agde sex cinema having had a great bj from a lovely lady I sat down next to a bloke who must have seen my cock was still out and I was playing with it, he asked if he could "help" and for what ever reason I said yes, He wanked me, sucked till I came and I responded in kind but stopped before he cum. I loved it and want to do it again soon but why did it feel so different from the womans bj. So yes, although I still think i'm straight I also think I could be a little bi in the right circumstance.

If the circumstances are right then we all have a degree of curiosity, surely? The only question is to what degree for the first experience.

I think every man is a little curious! I consider myself straight, but when having a couple of threesomes recently with the same married couple, I got caught up in the moment and let the husband suck me, and wank me. I’m now regretting not returning the favour.

I think it's ridiculous to say "every man" for anything at all, or every woman.

Not sure about that but a lot of guys on this site who are listed on their profile as "straight" are at least bi.

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Not sure about that but a lot of guys on this site who are listed on their profile as "straight" are at least bi.

Is that your superpower? Being able to determine someone's sexual preferences irrespective of what they say just by looking at them?

What gets me is the guys who talk about having “bisexual sex” with another man. Guys, if it’s with another man, it’s *gay* sex, it doesn’t make you gay if you still fancy women. But the sex you have with men is definitely gay. And it’s a massive turn-on for me to think of it like that.

It could simply just be "sex".

I’d never kiss a guy but love the dirty sex with them

You’ll know when faced with a hard cock …. I was and instinctively wanted to suck it.

I’m straight and married, but certainly if the circumstances arose would at least try and either hold and wank another off guy or maybe suck him to completion. He would have to be smooth and slim / medium as not into large bear type guys. Does that make me gay or just wanting to experience sex from a difference perspective?

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I’m straight and married, but certainly if the circumstances arose would at least try and either hold and wank another off guy or maybe suck him to completion. He would have to be smooth and slim / medium as not into large bear type guys. Does that make me gay or just wanting to experience sex from a difference perspective?

Ha, that sounds like I'm your match lol. I agree, a guy has to be hairless and smooth!

Maybe I am, I also now get off more from watching guys wanking and cumming and gay porn, feel i might have missed out a bit over the years, so would like to test the waters and see how if feels playing with a guy for a change

Every now and then I have the urge to visit a sauna and wait in the glory hole rooms waiting for a cock to pop through. I don’t want to see the guy or get close to him but I do want to suck him till he cums. Sometimes guys want to join me in the cubicle but I keep the door locked. Only interested in their cock

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Been straight all my life, but would certainly want to try. Although I would prefer a smooth body as it would seem less masculine somehow.

totally agree, I would want to fit slim guy, smooth and clean for me to suck him PW elliott69

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I’m straight and married, but certainly if the circumstances arose would at least try and either hold and wank another off guy or maybe suck him to completion. He would have to be smooth and slim / medium as not into large bear type guys. Does that make me gay or just wanting to experience sex from a difference perspective?

Hi Elliott69, I empathize with your current feelings. I felt very similar at some stage in my life. Get in touch if you're interested in chatting more about this and I'll share how my situation on this developed.

Back when I was around 15, I had fantasies about men, although I had a stunning girlfriend at the time. But I guess that was because I was abused by a local guy at 14. I can't say I was traumatised by the abuse, I guess I did sort of enjoy it. It was the first time I ever came! It was so intense that I guess that has always stuck with me.

Forward a couple of years and I worked in a pertrol station and finished at 10 PM. A guy stopped as I was walking and asked if I wanted a lift. He said he had some underwear I could try on. I declined, but wanked over the fantasy possibilities for years. Then I met my wife (actually, she wasn't my wife when I met her!) I all but forgot about the episodes and we have had a fantastic sex life.

But once we were swingers, I decided to tell her about the abuse, she was shocked and we carried on with life. In more recent years, we have been very active on another site where we cam every Saturday evening. During this time, I have mentioned about meeting Bi guys or TV/TS gurls. Does that make me Bi? Bi-curious? Up to you to decide. We are both down as straight, but explain in the profile.

But one thing we have noticed (apart from the number of single guys who mention their partners!!) is the number of straight guys, some 100% straight, who want to suck my cock, so I guess that is a sacrifice to get into her pants!