Ok I just wanna apologise to everyone. I wrote this post when i felt under a lot of pressure to play with people i didnt feel chemistry with. I dont know how many people ive upset. Heres the points I want to raise:
The post above he suggests that people who have this viewpoint are stupid so in an exasperated attempt to get at least one person who understood my viewpoint to the other forum i put up the link because you lot were all bashing the hell out of me.
The club mentioned this is my PR. I travel 2 hours by bus to that club twice a week. Its like a marathon but I do it because the club is so brilliant. Question would I go through all that if I thought the people I was going to meet were stupid? It makes no sense.
If you look at my profile you will see my PR too. And if you could see my email on this site you'd know im constantly trying to get people to meeet me at the club because its so brilliant there.
PR 3 I get booted out of chat for encouraging people to come to the club so much. 75% of my time on here & in chat is trying to get meets at club see my profile even has an advert. The club is brilliant.
If I think you are stupid then why was i still crying 3 hours after id found out id upset you all at the thought of losing my chance to be part of something so awesome & brilliant & losing friends. Yes people they are worth 3 hours of tears because the club is that darn awesome. get yourself down there...
If I thought you are stupid then why am I spending my own money bringing things to the club to make it nicer for you & to say thankyou to the people who run the club for making it all possible. I'm on income support and last week i couldnt even afford a locker key. Today I couldnt afford to top up my phone £5. Yet in the last 6 weeks I've given you as a thankyou & friendship gift 15 bars of soap, 5 shower gels, 90 ladies razors, breath freshener spray & 12x8=96 strange paper toothbrushy thingys from oral b. I love the club & I want you all to have a good time there & if me being there will spoil it for you then thats because IM the stupid one. I wouldnt give the little bit of money I had to people i thought were stupid. So i dont think that
Anyway the damage is done & I ran away because I felt bad & knew that if i go into the club itll spoil it for other people.
Im sorry everyoneyour all upset with me & I deserve it. Im going all weepy again now. Just wish I knew what was for the best to do.
I think I'm probably elderly by many standards here. I have a split personality on this. My instinct is to say age and looks don't matter. And they don't if all that's on offer is social intercourse. In my club tonight I'll talk with anybody in a social setting.
But for the other sort - I can't imagine a sexual relationship with an eighteen year old. Honestly I can't imagine he would want a relationship with me. We have to have shared experiences, yes? We have to be able to talk. Relate to each other. Be able to talk. I don't mean "During the War", I just mean shared experiences.
I think I probably wouldn't want anybody younger than my children. People younger than my children I would probably feel maternal about.
Looks. Always an attraction. But you soon forget what people look like. And see what they ARE like.
But who knows?
Mollie x x x
I don't think looks are that much of an issue, but age definatly is! At the tender age of 23, i don't think i would be that appealing to someone who is only looking for someone whos main turn on are guys who are 40+.
I still think that Personality is the main factor though when it comes down to judging someone, I'd rather spend time with someone who is interesting and funny, then someone who is outstandingly pretty but is completly shallow about it.
I haven't voted as the poll didn't reflect my opinion.
To me age isn't important, it's nothing but a number, an attitude. I have met younger and older ladies and found something in common with all of them.
Looks are important to a degree to me, I like to find someone attractive to me to have that lust for them, the attraction is part of the fun surely? ;)
Minx x x
Well, I think so far we have come to the conclusion that most of us were expecting....
Everyone is turned on by different things!
being the ugliest fecker on the site, married to one of the best looking ladies (imho) you get confused.
so hey, does it matter???
I think the real answer is "how many beers have you had" (think about it)
If you find you get on with a person, then looks and age aren't that important, but they're often what attracts you enough to want to get to know them in the first place.
I've met women from the 'net aged from 22 to early 50s, and from stick insects to 46?? and got on with all of them, and had fun with them.
There's nothing wrong with having preferences, but I do find it disappointing when people so often dismiss someone like me because of my age, and don't make any attempt to find out whether we might get on despite that.
It's a bit like Marmite, you either love it or not. I don't like the stuff myself but I hope Marmite won't get offended by me saying that. :giggle:
age and looks are importent. i cant abide silly young ladies and i like girls with plenty of meat on their bones.
check out my new look in my avatar dya like it?
I do state an age and size that floats my boat. but at the end of the day the strangest things regardless of age and size can fill my pipe. Still, if you leave it wide open you may have to say 'no thanks' to too many people - and unlike some, I always reply to messages.
and hate saying no thanks.
I think I'd be worried if I could bonk anything....and the cat wouldn't like it either :shock:
) then I accept that. It's no different to specifying non smokers as swinging partners and again I would accept that too. 
:lol: 
wheres yer beer gut 
