Quote by Darkfire
its preventative
how.... by locking it?
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Are there any REALLY good single men out there???
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Quote by DeeCee
its preventative
how.... by locking it?
I dont think so, no. With the hijacking and general ironing banter etc its being kept lighthearted and funny - while Jessica still gets responses to her original post and we DONT turn it into a single male bashing session.
:shock: did i just say that out loud? i think i've bumped my 'ed
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: naff off wide-boy :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Quote by Darkfire
its preventative
how.... by locking it?
I dont think so, no. With the hijacking and general ironing banter etc its being kept lighthearted and funny - while Jessica still gets responses to her original post and we DONT turn it into a single male bashing session.
:shock: did i just say that out loud? i think i've bumped my 'ed
so preventative..like a hijack with a condom on?
:thumbup:
we practice safe hijacks!!!
RWL
Quote by goose35
There are many good single men.
There are many good single women
Why are they either
142 miles apart or
never in the same place at the same time
Exactly!!!
I know a few VERY good single men and they are always soooo far away that I don't get to see them as much as I'd like
Jessica, don't give up hope ....they are out there
Fee
XX
). Some I really do trust and others not quite as much as I would like too :twisted:. I gues they are there, you just have to have a bit of patience and get known on the forums/chatroom 
Sex God
And in swinging circles you can never rule out the married guys either.
Some of us are quite nice too you know, okay, not any use for a long term marriagey type of arrangement but hey, we could help put a smile on your face hopefully.
Some of us are quite nice too you know, okay, not any use for a long term marriagey type of arrangement but hey, we could help put a smile on your face hopefully.
Sex God
Quote by jessica-r
I don't expect this post to be answered by many but its always worth a shot!!!...After being treated pretty badly (actually VERY badly) over the past few months by the man who i thought was the love of my life.....Are there any really good single men left in the world???... I'm pretty self sufficient (not needy), love great sex, great cook, good sense of humour, have a great job, not bad looking, love sports (esp football), good personality,fit, kind,caring....(anything else..look in profile).!! So, my questions are......Where am i going wrong?.....what else do i need to do??? ...Why can't i find a REALLY good man???? and Why am i writing this at in the morning????????...(prob because i have a big empty bed upstairs waiting for me)..... :cry:
Hi hunni
I've been going backwards and forwards to this thread all day and have decided that yes I will put my tuppenceworth in (you knew I would'nt be able to resist it!) :therethere:
How about turning the question you asked into another one. Are there any good men REALLY worthy of you? Now that sounds better already does'nt it? The answer to the question or questions is YES of course there are. BUT and there always is a "but" is'nt there, you have to be ready and feel ready to A/ go out and find him or B/ let him find you. So there are 3 things you need to do my sweet... :notes:
1/ Go and have a days pamper session at your fav place for a professional massage, facial, reflexology blah blah blah...you get the drift.
2/ Remember you are getting a great opportunity about 3 nights a week to meet likeminded folk. Use it to it's best advantage!
..........3/ This is the serious, brain versus heart stuff. Think carefully about the situation you're in, about the signals you are receiving from him and be brutally honest with yourself hun. You KNOW deep down whether this is worth persuing. If it is'nt let it go. It will hurt like hell the day you finally say to yourself no its really over. Sometimes we don't do the necessary because we know how hard that final admission is going to be, but be brave go there and come out the other side. You will be stronger for it and more importantly, you will be ready for what's coming next. Someone will definately come along, but there's no point unless you're ready for him babe.
You know where we are if you need us hun!
Love
Firelizard xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx :rose:
Hiya
Well just came across this and thought I too would give you a view which may or may not help.
I am not sure what a good man or woman actually looks like as you can't I think 'buy' one.
I think what makes a person special is the connection between 2 people which over time through honesty and trust you create. I thought I was destined to make mistakes in every relationship - why? I have no idea - I have a good salary, home, dont make the cream curdle when you look at me - looking back though I tried to turn the wrong men into 'good' men just to suit my personal needs rather than wait and see if both of us actually had the basic dynamics to make a relationship work - that includes (sorry to be crude) being able to flatulate in comfort in front of your partner lol.
Yes I believe that all people are potentially good men and women. Its just they may not be the right person for you. God I have met some toads and some men will have seen me as Cruella de Ville lol.
So I suppose what I am saying its maybe about ying and yang - what turns one person on doesnt do it for another. Some men may find me kind others may be scared stiff.
So good men out there ............................YEP.............................. you will find him when you are not looking......................................................9 weeks ago today I went for a cup of coffee ............................................................no expectations err nothing actually ..........................................9 weeks on ......................................so there you go lol.
So good luck !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Corrie xx
Well just came across this and thought I too would give you a view which may or may not help.
I am not sure what a good man or woman actually looks like as you can't I think 'buy' one.
I think what makes a person special is the connection between 2 people which over time through honesty and trust you create. I thought I was destined to make mistakes in every relationship - why? I have no idea - I have a good salary, home, dont make the cream curdle when you look at me - looking back though I tried to turn the wrong men into 'good' men just to suit my personal needs rather than wait and see if both of us actually had the basic dynamics to make a relationship work - that includes (sorry to be crude) being able to flatulate in comfort in front of your partner lol.
Yes I believe that all people are potentially good men and women. Its just they may not be the right person for you. God I have met some toads and some men will have seen me as Cruella de Ville lol.
So I suppose what I am saying its maybe about ying and yang - what turns one person on doesnt do it for another. Some men may find me kind others may be scared stiff.
So good men out there ............................YEP.............................. you will find him when you are not looking......................................................9 weeks ago today I went for a cup of coffee ............................................................no expectations err nothing actually ..........................................9 weeks on ......................................so there you go lol.
So good luck !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Corrie xx
Well thanks to ALL of you that replied to my late night rambling.....i was very touched by your advice and kind words......and also had a good laugh at the funny ones...its comforting to know that in times of need i can rely on you lot for advice....you are truly a lovely bunch of people. :kiss: :kiss:
:kiss: :kiss: Quote by jessica-r
Well thanks to ALL of you that replied to my late night rambling.....i was very touched by your advice and kind words......and also had a good laugh at the funny ones...its comforting to know that in times of need i can rely on you lot for advice....you are truly a lovely bunch of people.
so what about my ironing...u up for it???????
honest i am nice guy hahahhahaha
RWL
Orgasminator
From my experience, their are good and bad in both sexes, although saying that, a lot of blokes can be right arses.
From chatting to friends etc, when you go looking for a partner / boyfriend / girlfriend, it just never seems to happen. The right person usually comes along when your not expecting it, or looking for someone.
Skimpy (my otherhalf) and i used to have a good friend when at were at Uni, and she used to cause herself endless amounts of grief, by searching for a boyfriend. She gave herself so much trouble with her endless quest, that I think she scared some guys off by appearing desperate.
Not sure if its a case of sods law or what, but over the years i always end up having more attention from ladies when I have been in a relationship
So guess, what I am saying is, by not looking for a partner, you might have more chance of finding them
Does that make any sense :lol:
From chatting to friends etc, when you go looking for a partner / boyfriend / girlfriend, it just never seems to happen. The right person usually comes along when your not expecting it, or looking for someone.
Skimpy (my otherhalf) and i used to have a good friend when at were at Uni, and she used to cause herself endless amounts of grief, by searching for a boyfriend. She gave herself so much trouble with her endless quest, that I think she scared some guys off by appearing desperate.
Not sure if its a case of sods law or what, but over the years i always end up having more attention from ladies when I have been in a relationship
So guess, what I am saying is, by not looking for a partner, you might have more chance of finding them
Does that make any sense :lol:
Quote by Devon1
From my experience, their are good and bad in both sexes, although saying that, a lot of blokes can be right arses.
From chatting to friends etc, when you go looking for a partner / boyfriend / girlfriend, it just never seems to happen. The right person usually comes along when your not expecting it, or looking for someone.
Skimpy (my otherhalf) and i used to have a good friend when at were at Uni, and she used to cause herself endless amounts of grief, by searching for a boyfriend. She gave herself so much trouble with her endless quest, that I think she scared some guys off by appearing desperate.
Not sure if its a case of sods law or what, but over the years i always end up having more attention from ladies when I have been in a relationship
So guess, what I am saying is, by not looking for a partner, you might have more chance of finding them
Does that make any sense :lol:
It made perfect sense to me :thumbup:
Alleyson xxx
Jjust wish I was in a relationship now so I could get some male attention lolol :doh:
Quote by Devon1
From my experience, their are good and bad in both sexes, although saying that, a lot of blokes can be right arses.
From chatting to friends etc, when you go looking for a partner / boyfriend / girlfriend, it just never seems to happen. The right person usually comes along when your not expecting it, or looking for someone.
Skimpy (my otherhalf) and i used to have a good friend when at were at Uni, and she used to cause herself endless amounts of grief, by searching for a boyfriend. She gave herself so much trouble with her endless quest, that I think she scared some guys off by appearing desperate.
Not sure if its a case of sods law or what, but over the years i always end up having more attention from ladies when I have been in a relationship
So guess, what I am saying is, by not looking for a partner, you might have more chance of finding them
Does that make any sense :lol:
It made perfect sense to me :thumbup:
Alleyson xxx
Just wish I was in a relationship now so I could get some attention lolol :doh: Only kidding before my PM box gets full!
Quote by jessica-r
I don't expect this post to be answered by many but its always worth a shot!!!...After being treated pretty badly (actually VERY badly) over the past few months by the man who i thought was the love of my life.....Are there any really good single men left in the world???... I'm pretty self sufficient (not needy), love great sex, great cook, good sense of humour, have a great job, not bad looking, love sports (esp football), good personality,fit, kind,caring....(anything else..look in profile).!! So, my questions are......Where am i going wrong?.....what else do i need to do??? ...Why can't i find a REALLY good man???? and Why am i writing this at in the morning????????...(prob because i have a big empty bed upstairs waiting for me)..... :cry:
why??????????
firslty theres quite a few of us on this site actually........ but it appears from your advert and your profile, that youre not looking for single males............. so i dont know whether youre discounting finding one on here ..........if youre not... then why might i ask did u post this thread?????
sounds to me like youre having a "bridgitte jones moment" or something
