Are there any REALLY good single men out there???

4 Jun 2006

Quote by DeeCee
I don't expect this post to be answered by many but its always worth a shot!!!...After being treated pretty badly (actually VERY badly) over the past few months by the man who i thought was the love of my life.....Are there any really good single men left in the world???... I'm pretty self sufficient (not needy), love great sex, great cook, good sense of humour, have a great job, not bad looking, love sports (esp football), good personality,fit, kind,caring....(anything else..look in profile).!! So, my questions are......Where am i going wrong?.....what else do i need to do??? ...Why can't i find a REALLY good man???? and Why am i writing this at in the morning????????...(prob because i have a big empty bed upstairs waiting for me)..... :cry:

why??????????
firslty theres quite a few of us on this site actually........ but it appears from your advert and your profile, that youre not looking for single males............. so i dont know whether youre discounting finding one on here ..........if youre not... then why might i ask did u post this thread?????
sounds to me like youre having a "bridgitte jones moment" or something
Hi Dee
I think Jess is talking about a good single man to be serious with ie a partner. True this is a swinging site, but I know for a fact that Jess has made some friends on here and I don't know about you, but if I ever fancy a ramble at 3am in the morning It's normally my friends I ramble too.
I also had need of friends on here a 3am about a week ago and Sheddy and PoshKate in their chatroom were great!
Hope this clarifies the post for you hun!
Love
Firelizard xx

4 Jun 2006

Quote by DeeCee
why??????????
firslty theres quite a few of us on this site actually........ but it appears from your advert and your profile, that youre not looking for single males............. so i dont know whether youre discounting finding one on here ..........if youre not... then why might i ask did u post this thread?????
sounds to me like youre having a "bridgitte jones moment" or something

Mate we all need to get things off our chest from time to time and trust me I do it more than most and what better place to do it than on a friendly and comunity spirited place such as SH. Prehaps jess doesn't advertise for single men and she has her reasons for doing so and those reasons are her own private thoughts. I have things going on in my head that most of you know sod all about, however there is one thing I can always rely on when I need to caht about life and its problems and that is that this place always comes up trumps for me.
I had a behind the scenes conversation the other day where I stated and was argeed with that its easier for me to chat about things that go on in my life with site friends than it is with frineds who no sod all about my involvement with SH or swinging activities, for the simple reason there is a wider view point and people are more inclined to know where I am coming from so I can also be more open without fear of having to stiffle or censor what is really on my mind. biggrin

In a nut shell she may not be looking for single males but as you questioned why did she post the thread ?
Because she wanted to and the last time I checked there was no guide lines that said if you need to get something of your chest it has to be related to your adverts or what your profile says. We all have views but like wise we all have freedom of speech and thought. wink

4 Jun 2006

Bollox it's full of spelling mistakes and poor grammer ffs can someone come and install word on this machine for me please redface

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:lol:

4 Jun 2006

Jessica may not be looking for a single guy but for those of us who are and aren't looking for a quicky or a full on relationship but something in between it's not as easy as it may seem. My inbox is full but from guys who say they can meet at certain times and can't accomodate which leeds me to beleive they're not single at all even though their profile says they are. When I go to bed with someone I like to stay there till the morning, how many married guys are going to be able to do that? I'm not single guy bashing, if I could find one to bash I'd be laughing!
H.x

4 Jun 2006

Quote by H-x
. My inbox is full but from guys who say they can meet at certain times and can't accomodate
H.x

I can see your point as to why they can't accomodate, but as a single guy and I'm sure some can be ceratin to agree that I am biggrin

but I can't accomadate and never have been able to for numorous reasons and one of them came to light the other week. I live in a small village that is home to my large and very well known family and I broke the no accomadation rule and trust me it was a pleasure but i'm gossip central at the moment there is no pub within reasonable distance I can use where I'm not known a simple trip to town the next day resulted in us driving past far more people who reconised that it was not the norm for me to be accompanied by someone than I even I gave credit for. But in all honesty do I personally give a fook? no I don't it gives the locals something to natter about and that amuses me to be truthfull but I have to protect those around me from gossip and rumours so I have my reasons for the no accomadation rule. :D
Sorry slight hijack but I feel there is at least sometimes a genuine reason for the line sorry can't accomadate wink

4 Jun 2006

Quote by H-x
Jessica may not be looking for a single guy but for those of us who are and aren't looking for a quicky or a full on relationship but something in between it's not as easy as it may seem. My inbox is full but from guys who say they can meet at certain times and can't accomodate which leeds me to beleive they're not single at all even though their profile says they are. When I go to bed with someone I like to stay there till the morning, how many married guys are going to be able to do that? I'm not single guy bashing, if I could find one to bash I'd be laughing!
H.x

Hi there!
I'd just like to say that there is at least on decent, single guy on here and he's a reet lovely bloke! He'd never dream of kicking you out of bed in the morning....(I stayed there for 3 days!!!!)
Deecee... I'm talkin 'bout you babe!!! lol

4 Jun 2006

I do feel a bit of a hipocrit say that, as I say in my profile that I choose not to accomodate either, but then I'm a single woman and I don't really want guys to know where I live, at least to start with. But many do say 'well, I can fit you in at lunch time' or between 9 and 3 when the kids get home and the wife gets in from work.
Thing is I'm sure there are nice single guys out there, somewhere, I'm just pissed off cos I can't seem to find one.
H.x

4 Jun 2006

Quote by DeeCee
I don't expect this post to be answered by many but its always worth a shot!!!...After being treated pretty badly (actually VERY badly) over the past few months by the man who i thought was the love of my life.....Are there any really good single men left in the world???... I'm pretty self sufficient (not needy), love great sex, great cook, good sense of humour, have a great job, not bad looking, love sports (esp football), good personality,fit, kind,caring....(anything else..look in profile).!! So, my questions are......Where am i going wrong?.....what else do i need to do??? ...Why can't i find a REALLY good man???? and Why am i writing this at in the morning????????...(prob because i have a big empty bed upstairs waiting for me)..... :cry:

why??????????
firslty theres quite a few of us on this site actually........ but it appears from your advert and your profile, that youre not looking for single males............. so i dont know whether youre discounting finding one on here ..........if youre not... then why might i ask did u post this thread?????
sounds to me like youre having a "bridgitte jones moment" or something
Don't go living up to the unfair stereotype! :shock:

4 Jun 2006

Quote by singlegal
Jessica may not be looking for a single guy but for those of us who are and aren't looking for a quicky or a full on relationship but something in between it's not as easy as it may seem. My inbox is full but from guys who say they can meet at certain times and can't accomodate which leeds me to beleive they're not single at all even though their profile says they are. When I go to bed with someone I like to stay there till the morning, how many married guys are going to be able to do that? I'm not single guy bashing, if I could find one to bash I'd be laughing!
H.x

Hi there!
I'd just like to say that there is at least on decent, single guy on here and he's a reet lovely bloke! He'd never dream of kicking you out of bed in the morning....(I stayed there for 3 days!!!!)
Deecee... I'm talkin 'bout you babe!!! lol

awww thanx darlin.............
see we prove that there are decent single Fems and males on the site..........
and that people do actually meet..............
and that its worth travelling nearly 2 hours for a meet...........
and that we can stay pals and have good chat after intamacy.........
shattering the myths hey?
between u and me singlegal, i think ure the sweetest girl ive met in ages........... a true babe xx

4 Jun 2006

Quote by DeeCee
between u and me singlegal, i think ure the sweetest girl ive met in ages........... a true babe xx

Dee Cee, you are a cad - you said exactly the same to me only yesterday :rascal:

4 Jun 2006

Quote by H-x
but then I'm a single woman and I don't really want guys to know where I live

over the years I've wished I've got let some women know where I live H so I know excactley where you are coming from, back in the days of dial up I once had some body walk 3 miles in the middle of winter (no busses round where I lived) to my house because my mobile was off (no reception) and the land line was engaged for a few hours (I was on the net) how many times had I met this lady previously er well to be honest she'd just come to a party at my house one time after a club with some friends (hence she had my number so she could get directions) :shock: :shock: :uhoh: :scared: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Still i've lived and learnt an awfull lot since then :lol: :lol:

4 Jun 2006

Quote by Bloke2005
between u and me singlegal, i think ure the sweetest girl ive met in ages........... a true babe xx

Dee Cee, you are a cad - you said exactly the same to me only yesterday :rascal:
i was a little busy yesterday... lol
it must have been one of ure other "flames" sweet- talking you......... you have so many... u sexy bastardo you!!!!!!!!!
wink

:wink:

4 Jun 2006

HI jessica, my friend's say the same about me, i'm 37 now and have just accepted that if I meet the right person I will, if I don't i'm not going to worry, I know it's different for women but iv'e got load's of niece's and nephew's who really love thier uncle so I won't grow old on my own. Plus they can change my incontinence pant's when I get to old to do it!!! biggrin

4 Jun 2006

Quote by DeeCee
why??????????
firslty theres quite a few of us on this site actually........ but it appears from your advert and your profile, that youre not looking for single males............. so i dont know whether youre discounting finding one on here ..........if youre not... then why might i ask did u post this thread?????
sounds to me like youre having a "bridgitte jones moment" or something

Hi DeeCee.....just read your post and would just like to clear up a few things...firstly i posted the thread because i probably WAS having a 'Bridget Jones' moment at the time (i think most women do at some time or another) wink

......secondly the reason i joined the site was to explore my bi curiosity.....i didn't need a man as i already had one (hence the 'NO Single Males' in my profile). Thirdly....i was certainly not saying that there were no lovely single males on the site...i just haven't found one yet that treats me with the decency or respect that i deserve.......and as i did say at the time....it was the early hours and i was having a ramble!!!!! xxxxx

4 Jun 2006

I think this is the hardest site for a single man to be on. Very difficult to get results on here most would agree. I am single and looking so all i can say is check me out and who knows i have not met anyone off here yet and have been on now for over a month. I am genuine, loving, caring, and love cuddles along with the sex so get in touch. take care
Jason x x xx

4 Jun 2006

Quote by happydicko
I think this is the hardest site for a single man to be on. Very difficult to get results on here most would agree. I am single and looking so all i can say is check me out and who knows i have not met anyone off here yet and have been on now for over a month. I am genuine, loving, caring, and love cuddles along with the sex so get in touch. take care
Jason x x xx

A whole month and nobody's dropped their knickers for you yet? :shock:

4 Jun 2006

Quote by jessica-r

why??????????
firslty theres quite a few of us on this site actually........ but it appears from your advert and your profile, that youre not looking for single males............. so i dont know whether youre discounting finding one on here ..........if youre not... then why might i ask did u post this thread?????
sounds to me like youre having a "bridgitte jones moment" or something

Hi DeeCee.....just read your post and would just like to clear up a few things...firstly i posted the thread because i probably WAS having a 'Bridget Jones' moment at the time (i think most women do at some time or another) wink

......secondly the reason i joined the site was to explore my bi curiosity.....i didn't need a man as i already had one (hence the 'NO Single Males' in my profile). Thirdly....i was certainly not saying that there were no lovely single males on the site...i just haven't found one yet that treats me with the decency or respect that i deserve.......and as i did say at the time....it was the early hours and i was having a ramble!!!!! xxxxx
i thought so............
sounds to me like you need someone who understands women and where theyre comin from...
you women make it so tough for us........
take care hunni xxxxxxxxx

4 Jun 2006

Quote by happydicko
I think this is the hardest site for a single man to be on. Very difficult to get results on here most would agree. I am single and looking so all i can say is check me out and who knows i have not met anyone off here yet and have been on now for over a month. I am genuine, loving, caring, and love cuddles along with the sex so get in touch. take care
Jason x x xx

Hi hunni

Glad you took my advice and came along to the dark side. They're all bonkers in here so you should fit in rather well :giggle: kiss

4 Jun 2006

Hi hunni

Glad you took my advice and came along to the dark side. They're all bonkers in here so you should fit in rather well :giggle: kiss

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ill have you know that theres a fine line between madness and brilliance.....

4 Jun 2006

Quote by DeeCee
ill have you know that theres a fine line between madness and brilliance.....

Yeah and we all know which side of the line you're standing on rolleyes

4 Jun 2006

4 Jun 2006

I prefer "eccentric'
covers a multitude of sins
H.x

4 Jun 2006

Quote by H-x
I prefer "eccentric'
covers a multitude of sins
H.x

thats funny......... so does brilliance..........
:twisted:

5 Jun 2006

Quote by meat2pleaseu
rotflmao: Ironing - - It was something of hers, and it was flat and square; therefore easy for her to manage

i keep looking but i just can't see an ironing board in there anywhere silly

hwoar: :smitten: :rascal:
(i know, i shouldn't be here, just seemed to sense there was naked HLB pics to perv at worship

)

dammie
Funny how these sort of things appear on the forum whilst I'm working away.
I will not have these vicious rumours. To set the record straight I don't do ironing (only square things on very rare occasions).
Stop trying to ruin my reputation. biggrin

Meaty

5 Jun 2006

Why do I always find treads like this too late...
1/ Are they any really good single guys.... I am told so. rolleyes

2/ OnlyMe, there are single guys on here who are looking for a relationship rather than a "wham Bam, thankyou Mam". wink

3/ Thank god modern fabrics drip dry..... like me, a big drip lol

4/ Single Male stereotyping, really, the cheek.... I can't cook, I can't iron, I can't fold clothes.... I don't like football confused

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5 Jun 2006

im starting to wonder the same about women, but hey at least we have our... oh what is it... oh yea. our health!! iv been dumped to and im doing exactly the same. what didi do wrong. i cooked, i kept fit, i even let her watch eastenders!! anyway im sure you you will be fine, im sure i will be. have fun. m xx

5 Jun 2006

There's decent folk out there I'm sure. It's a shame some folf treat you bad enough to make you feel like this in the first place Jessica but that's life ! My ex left me and my 2 young kids high and dry to hitch up with a right drop out ! But you can't give up looking cos you might just miss what you've been looking for all this time. Like when you forget to buy a lottery ticket you know your numbers will come up !
Rob.
BTW fully housetrained ( Irons,cooks, cleans and fucks )

5 Jun 2006

Quote by motorcyclerob
BTW fully housetrained ( Irons,cooks, cleans and fucks )

You sure your a biker... Ironing :shock: and cooking :shock: , unless it involves stale beer and a pork pie lol

6 Jun 2006

Of course single men are useless, all the best ones are married! lol

:lol:

6 Jun 2006

Quote by Happy Cats
Of course single men are useless, all the best ones are married! :lol:

Not all HC, I keep offering my services to these ladies... must be doing something wrong.
Sits and waits until doomsday for a PM from a lady asking "are you real :shock: " :lol: