Are there any REALLY good single men out there???

6 Jun 2006

Quote by Phoenix
Of course single men are useless, all the best ones are married! :lol:

Not all HC, I keep offering my services to these ladies... must be doing something wrong.
Sits and waits until doomsday for a PM from a lady asking "are you real :shock: " :lol:
"are you real?" or is it "are you for real?"

6 Jun 2006

Quote by essex34m
Of course single men are useless, all the best ones are married! :lol:

Not all HC, I keep offering my services to these ladies... must be doing something wrong.
Sits and waits until doomsday for a PM from a lady asking "are you real :shock: " :lol:
"are you real?" or is it "are you for real?"
More likely the latter :lol:

6 Jun 2006

Quote by jessica-r
I don't expect this post to be answered by many but its always worth a shot!!!...After being treated pretty badly (actually VERY badly) over the past few months by the man who i thought was the love of my life.....Are there any really good single men left in the world???... I'm pretty self sufficient (not needy), love great sex, great cook, good sense of humour, have a great job, not bad looking, love sports (esp football), good personality,fit, kind,caring....(anything else..look in profile).!! So, my questions are......Where am i going wrong?.....what else do i need to do??? ...Why can't i find a REALLY good man???? and Why am i writing this at in the morning????????...(prob because i have a big empty bed upstairs waiting for me)..... :cry:

Hey Jessica, sorry to hear you are having a bad time.
Now i'm not going to defend the guy that hurt you sad

- just want to give you a different point of view !!
You see i'm am one of those guys- i was with a girl who put me on a pedestal whilst trying to find a way out of a complicated full term relationship. I was really in love with the girl who's heart i broke, but was thrown into a dilema of magnum proportions...... finally i chose the easy way out and stayed with my partner hurting the most wonderful girl who made all of my dreams come true- she was much yonger than me and oh so gorgeous in fact exactly like you described yourself to be- so why the hell could i not just go for it and take the consequences ?? well by hurting my toots i hurt one person (Very badly-and two if you count myself)but by leaving my long term relationshp i would have hurt not only my fiancee of 6 years but also her son - my family - both sets of friends not to mention my new girlfriends parents who would never have excepted me.
All said and done - yes i was a coward - but i pay for that decission every single day of my life- she's never off my mind and i still love her so very much.
But i do know she's better off without me - so i set her free to live her life.
So yes you may be in pain at the moment but you'll heal i'm sure- but sometimes things are not always cut and dried- and it's not neccessarilly something you have done which forces the issue.
Chin up chicken kiss

6 Jun 2006

Hey There's Loads of Nice Single Men about...
Well I say loads... ahem.. I mean Some...
But it is there niceness that makes them Unattractive... They aren't ruthless enough to approach you, they aren't self confident enough to just talk to people randomly, and impress them with (Probably Untrue) Talk about themselves...
A Homosexual frined of mine refers to most men as Breeders, and it's the Breeders the Ladies Like... (I know this is a pretty sweeping generalisation)
In my experience, most of my 'Nice' Male friends are VERY Single, or have been well and truly Bagged by Women who wouldn't give them up for the world.. Or they're going Gay...
Anyway.. This probablyy doesn't add ANYTHING to the debate.. So sorry.. Just my Tuppence...

6 Jun 2006

Quote by Spengler
it is there niceness that makes them Unattractive... .

my sentiments exactly.................
anyhow, spengler... ive got a bone to pick with you.............
nothing major, but wasnt it "the grand old duke of Yorks'" men who were neither halfway up nor down????
as i remember...
old king cole was a merry old soul
and a merry old soul was he
he called for a light in the middle of the night... to go to the lavatory
or something like that
rolleyes

6 Jun 2006

hmm been thinking about this long and hard for a while now......in short my conclusion is that maybe youve met the wrong ones or met them at the wrong time......i know i have confused

but in the end...yes there are, somewhere.
i hope you find one in time kiss

:

6 Jun 2006

Quote by sexkittenhfx
hmm been thinking about a long and hard one.
i hope you find one in time :

am i misquoting you here hahahahhahahah
RWL
xxx

6 Jun 2006

Quote by redwine_lover
hmm been thinking about a long and hard one.
i hope you find one in time :

am i misquoting you here hahahahhahahah
RWL
xxx
:shock: :sparring:

6 Jun 2006

Quote by sexkittenhfx
hmm been thinking about a long and hard one.
i hope you find one in time :

am i misquoting you here hahahahhahahah
RWL
xxx
:shock: :sparring:
silly

hwoar:
RWL

6 Jun 2006

Quote by yuugiri
Hey Jessica, sorry to hear you are having a bad time.
Now i'm not going to defend the guy that hurt you - just want to give you a different point of view !!
You see i'm am one of those guys- i was with a girl who put me on a pedestal whilst trying to find a way out of a complicated full term relationship. I was really in love with the girl who's heart i broke, but was thrown into a dilema of magnum proportions...... finally i chose the easy way out and stayed with my partner hurting the most wonderful girl who made all of my dreams come true- she was much yonger than me and oh so gorgeous in fact exactly like you described yourself to be- so why the hell could i not just go for it and take the consequences ?? well by hurting my toots i hurt one person (Very badly-and two if you count myself)but by leaving my long term relationshp i would have hurt not only my fiancee of 6 years but also her son - my family - both sets of friends not to mention my new girlfriends parents who would never have excepted me.
All said and done - yes i was a coward - but i pay for that decission every single day of my life- she's never off my mind and i still love her so very much.
But i do know she's better off without me - so i set her free to live her life.
So yes you may be in pain at the moment but you'll heal i'm sure- but sometimes things are not always cut and dried- and it's not neccessarilly something you have done which forces the issue.
Chin up chicken

Thanks for these kind words...and to EVERYONE that answered this thread........i'm sure that there ARE many great single guys still out there.....i'm just going to have to be a little more careful in future....so...its back to singledom for the time being and just get out there, enjoy life, and kiss a few more frogs until Mr Right turns up.!!!! :love:

6 Jun 2006

Keep kissing those frogs........ribit ...ribit LOL

6 Jun 2006

hey jess, have you checked out the new guy in town, you should get in the before the other ladies, he's a bit of a catch
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/80345.html

6 Jun 2006

Quote by meat2pleaseu
hey jess, have you checked out the new guy in town, you should get in the before the other ladies, he's a bit of a catch
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/80345.html

Meaty..... smackbottom

Jessica.... Mr Right will pop up somehere...
Where did I put my flashing Neon "nice guy here" sign

6 Jun 2006

Oh I'm sure he'll have been snapped up by now......
H.x

6 Jun 2006

Quote by meat2pleaseu
hey jess, have you checked out the new guy in town, you should get in the before the other ladies, he's a bit of a catch
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/80345.html

:shock: :shock: :shock: Aww thanks hun...you are soooooooooooooooooooooo kind...i had just finished reading that post too and decided not to comment!!!! wink

6 Jun 2006

:idea:
I have a proposal.
Would all of those who claim to be nice single guys please report to my pm box.
Hypothesis: Any genuine nice bloke will take the risk.
Those who arnt, wont.
lol

I'm waiting. :twisted:

6 Jun 2006

Darkfire....let me know how you get on???? wink

6 Jun 2006

If there's anything left, I will foward them promptly to your inbox wink

6 Jun 2006

Quote by Darkfire
:idea:
I have a proposal.
Would all of those who claim to be nice single guys please report to my pm box.
Hypothesis: Any genuine nice bloke will take the risk.
Those who arnt, wont.
I'm waiting. :twisted:

how about us nice blokes who are too lazy to PM you?

6 Jun 2006

Quote by Darkfire
If there's anything left, I will foward them promptly to your inbox

...Well lucky buggers.....eaten alive...what a way to go!!! biggrin

:shock: :shock: :D

6 Jun 2006

Sassy passes around the popcorn
this is gonna be good :twisted:

6 Jun 2006

laziness is not a good thing Mr Meaty. It is a trait which suggests you/ they wont follow up pm's, wont be there when they say they will, and are crap in bed = not a nice genuine single bloke lol

still sitting on your ass? dunno

6 Jun 2006

Quote by Darkfire
:idea:
I have a proposal.
Would all of those who claim to be nice single guys please report to my pm box.
Hypothesis: Any genuine nice bloke will take the risk.
Those who arnt, wont.
I'm waiting. :twisted:

Only if you lock that Rotty up smile

I like my balls played with, not chewed :lol:
Anyway, your hypothesis is wrong... genuine nice blokes may be too embarrased to approach directly . :!:

6 Jun 2006

yep!

anyway, you only ever send me a one line reply, you don't have a pic in your profile and you keep coming onto the site for a moan. you sure you're not a bloke :giggle:

6 Jun 2006

Quote by Phoenix
Anyway, your hypothesis is wrong... genuine nice blokes may be too embarrased to approach directly . :!:

would they?
or would they take an opportunity when its opened to themwith both hands ?
wheat from the chaff and all that wink

6 Jun 2006

Quote by meat2pleaseu
yep! anyway, you only ever send me a one line reply, you don't have a pic in your profile and you keep coming onto the site for a moan. you sure you're not a bloke :giggle:

Dont flatter yourself with classing them as one whole liners luv, fuck off and bollox mate dont count as anything flipa

6 Jun 2006

Quote by Darkfire

Anyway, your hypothesis is wrong... genuine nice blokes may be too embarrased to approach directly . :!:

would they?
or would they take an opportunity when its opened to themwith both hands ?
wheat from the chaff and all that wink

Define nice.... ?
Non pushy
Sensitive
or
Rampant
Hair pulling
turns over amd goes to sleep
dunno

Im going to turn over now and go to sleep lol

I fit in to cat 1 but it late

6 Jun 2006

Quote by Darkfire
yep! anyway, you only ever send me a one line reply, you don't have a pic in your profile and you keep coming onto the site for a moan. you sure you're not a bloke :giggle:

Dont flatter yourself with classing them as one whole liners luv, fuck off and bollox mate dont count as anything flipa

some people are just so lazy rolleyes

6 Jun 2006

hmmm, define 'nice' = nonpushy & sensitive, rampant and hair-pulling.
oh, and does not post crap digs about fly fishing wink

rolls over and goes to sleep = not nice, but also needs to be in my pm box so I can bitchslap for fun lol

:lol:

6 Jun 2006

Quote by Phoenix

BTW fully housetrained ( Irons,cooks, cleans and fucks )

You sure your a biker... Ironing :shock: and cooking :shock: , unless it involves stale beer and a pork pie lol

I got assimilated ! lol
Forced into duties by kids. looking forward to the day when they're old enough to do the chores for me. As for the cooking I didn't say I was good. I'm the only person I know who's put weight on in hospital ! lol