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Are ToyBoy's Favoured Amongst Maturer Women?

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Would You Like A ToyBoy In Your Life?

This Poll is aimed at Maturer Women but younger females may vote.
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Not for me thanks! I prefer my men to have a little life experience as well as experience of another kind, which in my opinion one can only get with age and maturity wink
Tracy-Jayne
Wouldn't this be best suited in the cafe rather than the "lets meet up" you're get more replys then.....if a mod could assist!
It really depends what you mean by , "toy boy".
If you mean under 30 then , in general , no. However if you mean 30 to 35 ish then yes!!
Its all to do with perspective, if your 30 then the phrase toy boy means something different to if your 40+
Don't mind them young :grin:
but not too young mind.
My wet-nurse days are over.
I prefer confident, self-assured men :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: apposed to toyboys.
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* Mark rubs his hands :rascal:

In his lap wink
I like a toy-boy as long as he doesn't act like a boy. So drop the boy and I am OK ... oh well that just leaves a toy. Do I like toys rolleyes That's a stupid question really... of course I bloody do! :twisted:
lol :lol:
Quote by Mark
However if you mean 30 to 35 ish then yes!!

* Mark rubs his hands :rascal: Mark mate, she said 30 TO 35 - not 30 PLUS 35. :P
Sorry foxy - we just cannot take him anywhere anymore! rolleyes
lhk
Kat
At last a thread that I can relate to!
I've been a so called toyboy in my past,and learned so much from those ups and downs of life have I feel given me a bag of tools to handle most things that can be thrown at me,especially sexually.I'm not saying for one minute that I know it all,but there really is no substitute for experience.I have learned from so many women in my life,younger and older and I hope to keep doing so.
A 20 year old can teach a 40 year old and vice versa.
Lb cool
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However if you mean 30 to 35 ish then yes!!

* Mark rubs his hands :rascal: Mark mate, she said 30 TO 35 - not 30 PLUS 35. :P
Sorry foxy - we just cannot take him anywhere anymore! rolleyes
lhk
Kat
I think i said 35 ish, if not i intended to!! ?And i disagree with Polo Lady, toy boys should keep their boyishness, in so far as energy and enthusiasm go!!
Nope I think I have learnt in life that age does matter and I am therefore not interested in a boy only a man. But that does not mean I will not have friends of all ages - well take jgl HAHAHAHA but thats it.
What does a toy boy mean - same as a toy girl I guess. A friend of mine has been married for the last 5 years to a guy 18 years younger and they are very very happy. Age is not an issue for them as they have mutual love and respect.
Its more about personality for me so no I don't prefer toyboys.
I don't prefer any age dunno
Dawn :silly:
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weres the dunno button
rolleyes

Red if you need some help in making your mind up I can give you the the other end of this perspective. wink
well i'm only 24. so if anyone is after a toy boy.. you know where to look! lol lol
i presume its not the age that attacts a person to someone. it is there personallity. or looks.
there has been many a times where ive meet ppl at parties from the chatroom and they have been shocked when they find out i'm only 24.. they normal responce is "you sound a lot older". which is why i think i have more success in getting to know ppl than most of the youngest who use the chatroom. i have seen a lot of single men come and go in the chatroom. and quit casue they think they have not been given the opertunity casue of there age, and i'm sitting there thinking.... "err well i'm doing alright for myslef"
I would say I count as a toyboy as I'm only 21... problem is I've got patches of grey hair and I'm bitter, twisted and jaded way beyond my meager years.
....But if I bang my head against a wall for 4 hours a day whilst mainlining vodka I'm sure I'll be able to act like the rest of my generation with no problem at all smile
Though speaking of toyboys I did feel rather like the irish guy from queer as folk recently when I found out how old a guy I'd been having fun with really was :twisted: (and yes, he was legal. You circling vultures)
Yes please. Just lie down and shut up.
(Actually, I say that to men, whatever their age)
Quote by foxylady 123
However if you mean 30 to 35 ish then yes!!
Its all to do with perspective, if your 30 then the phrase toy boy means something different to if your 40+

Yes, I think you need to define what you mean by toyboy, Toyboy! I'm 33 and would never define anyone between 30 and 35 a toyboy. The word "toyboy" to me denotes someone very young, say between 16 and 20ish, and young in appearance and behaviour (ie immature) as well as chronological age. I went through a phase three or four years ago when I was advertising for men (?) under 20 :shock: . But not any more, I grew out of it lol :lol: :lol:
no to toy boys, this indicated to me someone aged 20 to 25 or so.
I like others have said prefer confident, self assured men with experience, 35+ will do :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
biggrin
was a toyboy once, must have been good confused: lasted18 years wink
main reason still single smile
:idea: all offer,s for second hand toyboy considered :!:
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was a toyboy once, must have been good confused: lasted18 years wink
main reason still single smile
:idea: all offer,s for second hand toyboy considered :!:

Doing the math, here. I reckon you'd not be much of a 'boy' any longer?
Websters:
Main Entry: toyboy
Part of Speech: noun
Definition: a young male partner or lover of an older woman (or man)
Usage: slang
Oxford English:
toy boy
• noun Brit. informal a male lover who is much younger than his partner.
Websters also had:
Main Entry: boy toy
Part of Speech: noun
Definition: a good-looking young man regarded as the plaything of an older, wealthy woman; also the ironic sense of a woman as the plaything; also called toyboy, toy-boy
Kit is 4 years older than me, and anything up to 10/15 year gap is not unusual nowadays. Perhaps we need a line in the sand - say, 20 year age gap? - to define a toy boy
lhk
Kat
Well i suppose everyone has their opinions, but my definition with the help of "KitKat's" explanations sounds something like this,
Definition: a good-looking young man regarded as the plaything of an older, with an age gap of about 10 years +
Just because there is the word "Boy" added into the phrase ToyBoy, it does not automatically mean Immature & inexperienced. Just voicing my view on the topic
Thanx for replying to the Poll
UKTOYBOY
Quote by UKTOYBOY
Well i suppose everyone has their opinions, but my definition with the help of "KitKat's" explanations sounds something like this,
Definition: a good-looking young man regarded as the plaything of an older, with an age gap of about 10 years +
Just because there is the word "Boy" added into the phrase ToyBoy, it does not automatically mean Immature & inexperienced. Just voicing my view on the topic
Thanx for replying to the Poll
UKTOYBOY

wicked all i need to do is find a 97 year old temptress and i can be a toyboy :evil2:
colin
Quote by Libra-Love
Don't mind them young :grin:
but not too young mind.
My wet-nurse days are over.
I prefer confident, self-assured men :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: apposed to toyboys.
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im nearly 22 redface surprisedops: :oops: :oops:
I always have preferred older guys! But then you cant always worry about age eh! Sometimes you click sometimes you dont!
My mums partner is 37 and my shagging partner is 37!?
She pefers younger I like older! confused
For nearly all my life I have had a preference for older women.
Unfortunately, I have now reached an age where there are very few women older than me. (sob).
My working motto was: -
Older women never yell,
Older women never tell.
They're too dammed grateful.
lol.
Oh, and most were bloody good at it.
Younger ladies look out I'm out on patrol.
Harry0
Casanova and Drunk of this Parish. hump drinkies
Quote by Scandal

My mums partner is 37 and my shagging partner is 37!?
She pefers younger I like older! confused

:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
No !! That's wron ........... oh I see......................... different fellas right? redface surprisedops:
Grrrrr yes!! Ew that is wrong!
Id that were the case Id have been on Tricia by now :shock:
Dunno, depends on the age of the women he dates and does.
or it could be up to him
UKTOYBOY