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Is it just me, or do you write out a "new thread", spend ages on it, bare your soul ...... and then hit the delete button? Too scared to mention your innermost thoughts and fears, prejuidices and ideas and such in a public forum..... or do you just post it anyway?
not on your own there... have written many threads like that and then "cancel" at the end of it all.....
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er confused: :?: :?: :?: no biggrin
I don't do it so much with new threads (though perhaps I should), but I quite often do that when replying to posts, normally when I get to the end of what I've written and decide to go back and re-read what other people have written to make sure I didn't misinterpret anything.
It's not just you postie redface I've hit the delete button on many occasions ....... I always think no-one would be interested in reading my thoughts
Well to be honest I would never post on the forum my innermost thoughts and feelings.....far too personal but each to their own.
Come on then Postie........what do you want to tell us but cannot put into words????
you can tell me........no one else will be reading this!
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Oh I've started hundreds of threads .......... and then deleted confused
Just as bad with some posts - I write em, press submit, then imediately edit it a dozen times rolleyes
Or a dozen and one times :undecided:
Cos it just don't look right sometimes dunno
And then you get that silly writing at the bottom that tells everyone what a ditherer you are mad
I usually do it by mistake and have to start all over! :huh:
Either that or it takes me sooooooooooo long (because I get sidetracked) that I've moved on and can't remember what i was wanting to say in the first place, or why. dunno
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I usually do it by mistake and have to start all over! :huh:
Either that or it takes me sooooooooooo long (because I get sidetracked) that I've moved on and can't remember what i was wanting to say in the first place, or why. dunno
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Could that be anything to do with me innocent forgetting you cant multitask :thumbup:
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Is it just me, or do you write out a "new thread", spend ages on it, bare your soul ...... and then hit the delete button? Too scared to mention your innermost thoughts and fears, prejuidices and ideas and such in a public forum..... or do you just post it anyway?

When I feel like that I usually scribble it down on a piece of paper, stuff it in an envelope, put my name and a stamp on it, then put it one of them red things in the street .. the Post Office then gets rid of it for me.... hehehe
Cant say I am mate.
I do it all the time.... in reply to posts, PM's, new threads.... everything!
I'm just indecisive and normally don't want to make a complete prat out of myself!
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Well to be honest i..erm... i er...er.. oh christ..delete delete!!
Don't start too many threads but I have deleted unsubmitted threads and posts. Sometimes it annoys me that I've wasted the time - other times I'm thankful that I'm such a slow typist that I've managed to cool off before I press submit (yeah and sometimes I don't cool off before I Submit - I know!)
I'm with Missy on the editing thing. I hate editing my posts - consider I've failed if I do - but sometimes it's done for the best of reasons wink rolleyes :shock: confused
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Is it just me, or do you write out a "new thread", spend ages on it, bare your soul ...... and then hit the delete button?

Na! :twisted:
yeah i have done it many times, only if i think it will just get locked i delete it
All the time rolleyes
The one I have been thinking about posting is to do with perfume.
Most men wear aftershave but according to a friend of mine you can buy male perfume.
I don't know what the difference is and which most men use dunno
cant say ive had that problem but then i am just a newbie redface
been there done that many times........you dont know what you might spark off......lol..need to be sensitive to peeps.......or just dont give a crap........your choice..
All the bloody time confused
I'm really going to have stop doing it biggrin
Jas
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Is it just me, or do you write out a "new thread", spend ages on it, bare your soul ...... and then hit the delete button?
You too huh? lol
Yeah, all the time. Well, sort of. Not necessarily soul-baring, I don't have a problem with that... what I tend to do is write a few leather bound volumes worth of the gospel according to Ice, ask myself "could this cause a big ruckuss?"..... and if the answer's no, I hit the back button. rotflmao
i wrote 4 replies....deleted first 3....
no i dont think im indecisive ..well maybe a bit...sometimes
Neil has a few folders with un-posted and deleted threads and replies! lol
I only have a handful and I do tend to delete a post if it is the last one on the thread when it drops to page two! :lol:
redface My secret is revealed! :lol:
Gem. x
Yes postie, I delete stuff after I've had a chance to read it through. I don't delete thread topics cos I don't start many of them, but I do delete a lot of thread posts that look a bit iffy when I've finished them, normally because they might be a bit near the knuckle and land me with an argument that I can do without. I also delete a lot where I've wanted to coment, but simply can't find the right words to get across what I mean easily.
Got to admit that Ive not start many threads at all, but answered a few, and yes would have answered a lot more but I write them, pour out my thoughts, anger whatever Im feeling right there and then, and then press delete.
Why ?
1. Dont want to look stupid
2. Already feel better cause Ive written it down, and thats enough
i tend to get side tracked from what i start off saying, which can end up being very confusing, but i go ahead and post it anyhow, in the hope that someone might understand.
thats why ill usully just write a short bit, less confusing lol
Never really had a problem.
Just find the more i drink the more i waffle on...
Cheers... Down the hatch... drinkies
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All the time rolleyes
The one I have been thinking about posting is to do with perfume.
Most men wear aftershave but according to a friend of mine you can buy male perfume.
I don't know what the difference is and which most men use dunno

I have no idea what mines called, as the label fell off ages ago. But it was from a French lass i knew who lived in Grasse, the perfume producing area of France.. it's not a "brand" but it's very nice... I'll be gutted when it runs out!
C'mon Dawn , start that thread!