Arm round the shoulder request

20 Jul 2003

Hi, I am a new boy to all this and very much at the tentative stage. But we all have to start somewhere. I would welcome an arm round the shoulder message from - well anyone! Spent sometime in the chatroom and enjoyed that. Keen not to look a numpty or tred on toes!

20 Jul 2003

Hi mate, just do what comes naturally but just dont offend anyone, simple mate.
Hope you get on well and that you meet many nice people, we for sure have lots, have fun.
Mark and Linda

21 Jul 2003

I'll try! (to be natural, not upset people, have fun).

21 Jul 2003

Welcome to our Den of iniquity Kat, hope you find all that you desire.
In the main, this is a wonderful site with many wonderful people, though sadly every now and then you may get let down, but hey, that's life smile

Hope to see you in chat sometime
enchantress
XXX

21 Jul 2003

Thanks enchantress, I've noticed you around, and shall look to you as my role model !

21 Jul 2003

Quote by Kitkat
Thanks enchantress, I've noticed you around, and shall look to you as my role model !

Oh God Kat you don't want to do that. I've only had one meet and that's been recorded for all to read about. I'm actually quite the novice when it comes to this scene i'm afraid.
Take Care
enchantress
XXX

21 Jul 2003

P.S. Hope you checked your batteries on Friday enchantress, flat batteries would have really capped a perfect evening. But then they are more reliable than men - that is why the call them EverReady

21 Jul 2003

You bluff well then, remind me never to play poker with you.
I'm not even a qualified novice. Feel a bit of a fraud really, my partner is not quite as sure about this as I am - and it is something I would want to do together or not at all. We have had the "nice to fantasise about other people - but not sure I would want to try it for real" conversation.

21 Jul 2003

Hmmmmmm, I don't believe I have been bluffing at anytime. I am always honest if not anything else.
The only advice I can offer is that you must take time to consider very seriously what it would mean to you and your partner to become involved in this lifestyle. Also you must be sure that your partner doesn't become involved purely to please you as later it will infringe upon your relationship as resentment will rear it's ugly head.
Hope you work everything out and find all that you desire
enchantress
XXX
p.s I use duracells.

21 Jul 2003

Also you must be sure that your partner doesn't become involved purely to please you as later it will infringe upon your relationship as resentment will rear it's ugly head.

Hit the nail on the head. My biggest fear is just that happening. I shall take your advice.
Hope my comment on bluffing didn't sound off, wasn't meant to be. Meant as a compliment. Just put it down to being a clumsy new bloke if it was, I'll learn.
Pete

23 Jul 2003

Just like to thank everyone for their warm welcome and arms round the shoulders over the last few days - feel quite settled and at home now and having a lovely time.
lol
Kat