Hi, I am a new boy to all this and very much at the tentative stage. But we all have to start somewhere. I would welcome an arm round the shoulder message from - well anyone! Spent sometime in the chatroom and enjoyed that. Keen not to look a numpty or tred on toes!
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Hi mate, just do what comes naturally but just dont offend anyone, simple mate.
Hope you get on well and that you meet many nice people, we for sure have lots, have fun.
Mark and Linda
Hope you get on well and that you meet many nice people, we for sure have lots, have fun.
Mark and Linda
I'll try! (to be natural, not upset people, have fun).
Thanks enchantress, I've noticed you around, and shall look to you as my role model !
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Thanks enchantress, I've noticed you around, and shall look to you as my role model !
Oh God Kat you don't want to do that. I've only had one meet and that's been recorded for all to read about. I'm actually quite the novice when it comes to this scene i'm afraid.
Take Care
enchantress
XXX
P.S. Hope you checked your batteries on Friday enchantress, flat batteries would have really capped a perfect evening. But then they are more reliable than men - that is why the call them EverReady
You bluff well then, remind me never to play poker with you.
I'm not even a qualified novice. Feel a bit of a fraud really, my partner is not quite as sure about this as I am - and it is something I would want to do together or not at all. We have had the "nice to fantasise about other people - but not sure I would want to try it for real" conversation.
I'm not even a qualified novice. Feel a bit of a fraud really, my partner is not quite as sure about this as I am - and it is something I would want to do together or not at all. We have had the "nice to fantasise about other people - but not sure I would want to try it for real" conversation.
Hmmmmmm, I don't believe I have been bluffing at anytime. I am always honest if not anything else.
The only advice I can offer is that you must take time to consider very seriously what it would mean to you and your partner to become involved in this lifestyle. Also you must be sure that your partner doesn't become involved purely to please you as later it will infringe upon your relationship as resentment will rear it's ugly head.
Hope you work everything out and find all that you desire
enchantress
XXX
p.s I use duracells.
The only advice I can offer is that you must take time to consider very seriously what it would mean to you and your partner to become involved in this lifestyle. Also you must be sure that your partner doesn't become involved purely to please you as later it will infringe upon your relationship as resentment will rear it's ugly head.
Hope you work everything out and find all that you desire
enchantress
XXX
p.s I use duracells.
Also you must be sure that your partner doesn't become involved purely to please you as later it will infringe upon your relationship as resentment will rear it's ugly head.
Hit the nail on the head. My biggest fear is just that happening. I shall take your advice.
Hope my comment on bluffing didn't sound off, wasn't meant to be. Meant as a compliment. Just put it down to being a clumsy new bloke if it was, I'll learn.
Pete
Just like to thank everyone for their warm welcome and arms round the shoulders over the last few days - feel quite settled and at home now and having a lovely time.
lol
Kat
lol
Kat
