Orgasminator
Why do some men want to photograph / video the woman they love, enjoying sex with a single / other male ect?
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As an retired single male, i just wondered
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Master of Sex
what does being retired or single have to do with your question ?
Master of Sex
Sex God
I enjoy watching Mrs Lost get it on with other guys and girls and she enjoys me watching her. Why! Gawd only knows. All i know is that afterwards we end up having great sex! and nothing is worse than before. Mostly its better 
One of the greatest pleasures is the drive home if its get it on and go. We talk in such a relaxed easy manner about anything and everything, fantastic! :D
Because society says doing these things are wrong, does it make it wrong? Hell, I think maybe that adds a little something too
Photographs, like on other occasions bring great memories. Videos we have yet to discover :smile:
:D
One of the greatest pleasures is the drive home if its get it on and go. We talk in such a relaxed easy manner about anything and everything, fantastic! :DBecause society says doing these things are wrong, does it make it wrong? Hell, I think maybe that adds a little something too
Photographs, like on other occasions bring great memories. Videos we have yet to discover :smile:
:D
Sex God
Quote by flower411
Imagine watching a porn movie with your ideal sexual partner as the star....somebody you love and adore .....imagine watching and knowing that she is there because you have both agreed that this is a good idea ......
Imagine watching her face .....imagine holding her hand and kissing her while she is being fucked by somebody else.....Imagine .....
Imagine making love to her after the "extra`s" have left.....
Imagine being in control of all of this
It`s ok
Damn you ! that was well put! :thumbup:
Quote by flower411
Imagine watching a porn movie with your ideal sexual partner as the star....somebody you love and adore .....imagine watching and knowing that she is there because you have both agreed that this is a good idea ......
Imagine watching her face .....imagine holding her hand and kissing her while she is being fucked by somebody else.....Imagine .....
Imagine making love to her after the "extra`s" have left.....
Imagine being in control of all of this
It`s ok
100% with you in every word and ........ :D
as a single man I love being "the extra's"
when I was married I loved watching them too!
it was just .....
Orgasminator
Quote by annejohn
what does being retired have to do with your question ?
Because i am, and i thought it was a valid and interesting question thats all.
I believe its something to do with the 'sperm competition' theory and it works for all sorts of mammals including us.
Absolutely nothing turns me on so much as watching She enjoying another man and the more virile and endowed he is the bigger the turn on. The urge to take his place immediately afterwards is very strong, I suppose nature is trying to displace his semen with mine.
Mind you I think you have to be entirely secure in your position as preferred mate or it wouldn't work, you would just fell threatened and perhaps jealous.
Absolutely nothing turns me on so much as watching She enjoying another man and the more virile and endowed he is the bigger the turn on. The urge to take his place immediately afterwards is very strong, I suppose nature is trying to displace his semen with mine.
Mind you I think you have to be entirely secure in your position as preferred mate or it wouldn't work, you would just fell threatened and perhaps jealous.
Quote by Lost
I enjoy watching Mrs Lost get it on with other guys and girls and she enjoys me watching her. Why! Gawd only knows. All i know is that afterwards we end up having great sex! and nothing is worse than before. Mostly its better
Because society says doing these things are wrong, does it make it wrong? Hell, I think maybe that adds a little something too
Photographs, like on other occasions bring great memories. Videos we have yet to discover :smile:
:D
That's us!.. couldn't have put it better myself
Quote by Lost
I enjoy watching Mrs Lost get it on with other guys and girls and she enjoys me watching her. Why! Gawd only knows. All i know is that afterwards we end up having great sex! and nothing is worse than before. Mostly its better
Because society says doing these things are wrong, does it make it wrong? Hell, I think maybe that adds a little something too
Photographs, like on other occasions bring great memories. Videos we have yet to discover :smile:
:D
You say: "Because society says doing these things is wrong" -
Sadly, SOCIETY has a lot to answer for - especially about things over the years that are supposed to be wrong!
Plim
Sex God
Quote by Me_and_she
..... The urge to take his place immediately afterwards is very strong, I suppose nature is trying to displace his semen with mine.....
Do you mean literally? :shock:
Isn't there some pleasure in seeing her enjoy herself - without it having to relate back to the man all the time?
Sometimes when we are watching a film together I'll watch her enjoying the film rather watch it myself. Mind you the films she likes are crap!
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Quote by Me_and_she
Well yes I do mean literally, these instincts evolved a few million years before the condom came along and have nothing to do with enjoyment by either sex, rather they are to do with conception.
Just out of interest and a bit early morning fun..... condom use was first 'seen' in Ancient times...
Ancient Times
Throughout the ages people have tried to find ways of preventing conception and venereal diseases. Obvious methods, such as withdrawal, the rhythm method, douches and sponges were used, as were various predecessors of today's condom. In ancient Egypt a linen sheath was used as protection against troublesome insects and tropical diseases. The Chinese tried to prevent infection by wrapping oiled silk paper around the penis, and the Japanese had leather and tortoiseshell sheaths. The Romans used tampons that had been dipped in herbs and condoms made of goats' bladders.
In 1564, the Italian doctor Gabriel Falloppio wrote in the book 'Morbo Gallico', that a linen bag drenched in a solution of salt or herbs formed a protection against the disease. In the eighteenth century linen and silk condoms were used, as well as sheaths made of lambs' and goats' gut. To prevent them slipping off, a ribbon on the open end of the condom was tied around the penis. The sheaths made of bladder or gut could be used more than once; in contemporary paintings and prints they are some-times seen hanging on a hook or a clothes line to dry.
I think this semen replacement is just a ho har, maybe a fetish, in my opinion... but I like to be challenged!
:grin: 
Orgasminator
Bloody hell, this is getting heavy, how filming the mrs getting boffed by another fella gets to 5000 year old sperm, well........ anyone fancy a shag?
Sex God
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anyone fancy a shag?
nope sorry Mr :small-print: you're retired :giggle:
Orgasminator
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anyone fancy a shag?
nope sorry Mr :small-print: you're retired :giggle:
Listen here Posh, you can get finger marks on my windows anytime soon. Then ill retire again. :twisted:
Quote by westerross
Isn't there some pleasure in seeing her enjoy herself?
For me that was a massive part of it - it seemed to unlock some kind of inner slut in her; she loved it and I loved that.
I guess there was an element of the "society doesn't like it" and an element of a kind of perverse possessiveness ("That's MY girl getting boned...") but a huge part of it was simply that it was someone I loved and found massively sexy really enjoying herself in a sexy way.
Well... no... it's not that... pictures of her masturbating don't do it half as much as the pictures of her getting fucked.
The pictures, by the way, are fucking sexy; I enjoyed the acts but the pictures somehow are a lot more erotic than it was even participating in them. Maybe because I get to study her face and know what she's thinking; study her body, in fact, in a way you can't really when you're there.
*sigh*.
The problem is that now we've split up (fairly recently), they're still sexy pictures. I still find myself looking at them; and constantly remind myself how lucky I had been to find someone I loved so much, who was so gorgeous who was into that sort of sexual behaviour.
*sigh*
Answers on a postcard - delete the pictures, or not?
Orgasminator
Delete
Warming the Bed
Delete, sorry !
