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Oh go on then Judy - I'll mercy shag you
And dammie's still clean shaven
:D ..So it works then ?
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...I'm happy now with the Transvestite vicar and his boyfriend and we are planning our first addition to the family and have already been to the goat farm and earmarked a couple of potential adoptions...
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I don't think it is particularly racist - I think a preference is just that - a preference. Like someone posted above, it's not very different from the preference most women have for tall men, or confident, assertive men, or whatever - just another kind of prefernece.
On our ad, I have stated that we meet white guys only, and that is because it is my preference.... I am not racist by any means and have many asian, black friends but sexually I am not attracted to them. Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
Why is it more difficult for an young (early 30's) Asian bloke to attract swingers? oreso if his 6'4 too!
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oh dear i hate people who play the race card when they can't get a meet
Quote by makingcocoa
Personally, I don't usually fancy Asian men.
Nor do I usually fancy men who are shorter than me.
Nor do I usually fancy men who are more than twice my age.
Nor do I usually fancy TVs.
Nor do I usually fancy skinny women.
Everyone's entitled to personal preferences, and all that means is that none of us is going to shag everyone on the site. But isn't it lucky that there are so many people on this site that there's someone for everyone? Playing the racist card is completely unnecessary, and certainly isn't going to help you get laid. Instead, why not try putting some time and effort into joining in with the site, getting yourself known, coming to a munch, making some friends without trying to shag them, writing a really good ad.... and then see how many people fancy you?
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Personally, I don't usually fancy Asian men.
Nor do I usually fancy men who are shorter than me.
Nor do I usually fancy men who are more than twice my age.
Nor do I usually fancy TVs.
Nor do I usually fancy skinny women.
Everyone's entitled to personal preferences, and all that means is that none of us is going to shag everyone on the site. But isn't it lucky that there are so many people on this site that there's someone for everyone? Playing the racist card is completely unnecessary, and certainly isn't going to help you get laid. Instead, why not try putting some time and effort into joining in with the site, getting yourself known, coming to a munch, making some friends without trying to shag them, writing a really good ad.... and then see how many people fancy you?
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Speaking as a Young Asian Man (YAM), this is rather an interesting thread: here are my two pence:
Just to clarify: I am talking about my experience and of people in general - obviously there are exceptions to every rule. And with respect to my experience, I used to be reasonably active in replying to ads and stuff, and had a few replies but they went nowhere, so I stopped - apart from anything else, the odds are just so long I don't think it is worth my time. I have had a fair bit of success at Rio's however.
Having said that, I think the truth is somewhere in between the views expressed here. Firstly, I think it is pretty blatantly obvious that race does matter to a LOT of people. One look at the ads on SH shows that pretty clearly, when you see how many people specify their race preference.
The *reason* for race mattering is a more interesting issue. In my opinion, for most women, I don't think it has much to do with far out things like the status of women in India and Pakistan or whatever - I just don't think that Asian men are seen as sex objects in UK culture - the opposite if anything. Nobody (well, there are some) fantasizes about Asian men, unlike, very obviously, black men, and it shows in the ads..that's all. Similarly, very few women fantasize about really small cocks (although they are probably as rare as really big ones), they fantasize about really big ones and you see that reflected in the ads.
I don't think it is particularly racist - I think a preference is just that - a preference. Like someone posted above, it's not very different from the preference most women have for tall men, or confident, assertive men, or whatever - just another kind of prefernece. I mean, the saying IS "tall, dark and handsome", not "short, dark and handsome", and similarly it's "big black cock", not "big white cock" - these are cultural stereotypes which are pretty accurately reflected in the ads if you ask me. (There are, also, no doubt some women who have had bad experiences with men and decided not to date them or meet them or whatever - may be it's even true that on average experiences with Asian men are worse - I don't know)
In my experience, it is far easier for women (or men) in online ads to succumb to the "list mania" - if you don't fit *exactly* the criteria for a 6 foot 2.5 inch man with grey hair and 9 fingers (or whatever), your ad won't even be looked at, while in person, people can (and do) change their minds and adjust their preferences based on the individual standing in front of them..perhaps that's one of the reasons I've had so much more success at Rios.
For the most part, *when meeting in person*, I think most women are atleast open to the idea of Asian men even if they don't actually fantasize about us..this is probably more true in a "regular" dating situation, and its probably less true in a swinging situation, simply because (for a lot of swingers) its about fulfilling some particular fantasy, and as I said above, those don't often involve Asian men..
Bottom Line: Yes, it is probably harder for an Asian guy to get a meet than a black or white guy, but it's not *that* hard..it's quite doable I think.
Now, I'll stop rambling..
C
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He edited his advert alright....
he now has none at all
Shaz x
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I see your point, NN! I've often wondered whether there are, in fact, a whole group of SHers who are completely successful with their one-liners, and all those posts in LMU get answered by someone in PM and everyone shags happily ever after, and we just don't hear about it because we're all here offering helpful advice and trying to 'make friends'
It's entirely possible.
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:lol: I also think you 
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In fact I have met most people through the ads and LMU
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We agree with "Shaz_n_Tony"
You need to expand your ad, let people know what you are looking for in a meeting and what you can offer. It pays to advertise so put a couple of photos in your ad and on your profile. You also need to complete your profile , putting N/A against smoking or drinking
doesn't mean anything .
Why is it more difficult for an young (early 30's) Asian bloke to attract swingers? oreso if his 6'4 too!
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: Quote by oohjane
Hi All. I would like to put my two pennies worth in if that is ok with you experienced lot.
In my limited experience I have found that the "commonly found" asian shape of cock doesn't suit me - can't speak for anyone else of course. I have found that the shaft is rather fat or rounded and the knob small with very little in the way of rim/edge around done some research in the gallery on this site, I have found the same general shape often, and from personal trials have been disappointed.
Has anyone else had the same experience? Just wondered.
Jane
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In fact I have met most people through the ads and LMU
how are you? I can't be the only one, surely? 
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ive noticed a few racist ads in the photo ads section. this chap was right to bring up the subject. saying that you wont go with a person of a certain colour because you have had bad experience with a few individuals in the past is still judging someone by their colour........in my book thats racism. just a nice politically correct self justified form of it.
anyway i think dev off coronation street has worked wonders for the image of asian men being sexy. im sure there are a lot of housewives who wouldnt say no to him......
