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Sorry - this isn't really a whinge - just a query. I notice that the information given over there on the left - including the section "About Us" is still the original "stuff" from Mark. With so many new members joining every day surely this is misleading? Is Symbios trying to hide something here? Even the "Important Announcement" thread hasn't been made a sticky.
It don't know why but it makes me uncomfortable that the "outside" should still be the old SH owned and run by Mark - with the "inside" designed and run commercially. It just feels to me like something is being hidden. Like Symbios want the site to continue to look like a community built and run site rather than a commercial enterprise - which is is now - whether you like it or not.
Does anyone else feel the same?
aRSexx :color:
I agree.
Reading the initial information it still comes across as being the original site run by Mark.
I do think it should be changed to reflect the fact that Symbiosis now owns the site and not another swinging couple.
until i got into the forum, i just thought that the site had (finally) been given a lick of paint....stupid me!!!
nice webiste btw lissa
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nice webiste btw lissa

I agree
Very horny !!!!
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nice webiste btw lissa

I agree
Very horny !!!!
Thank you biggrin
From what I read on the webb Symbios are known for being slow at certain things >>>
Ladies undergarments come to mind
phredd
Yep... ireally have to agree too......
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From what I read on the webb Symbios are known for being slow at certain things >>>
Ladies undergarments come to mind
phredd

lol :lol: :lol: :lol:
I am just wonderig when they are going to add their new "associate" to their list of err - assets? I thought we'd sit quite comfortably between Horse Tack and Inheritance Tax UK :lol:
Noticed Eliot online earlier but he obviously didn't feel compelled to explain when the "ABOUT US" section would be updated. So how about starting a campaign to put Eliot in a green suit instead of a brown one and have him read all the posts? dunno
aRSexx :color:
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Sorry - this isn't really a whinge - just a query. I notice that the information given over there on the left - including the section "About Us" is still the original "stuff" from Mark. With so many new members joining every day surely this is misleading? Is Symbios trying to hide something here? Even the "Important Announcement" thread hasn't been made a sticky.
It don't know why but it makes me uncomfortable that the "outside" should still be the old SH owned and run by Mark - with the "inside" designed and run commercially. It just feels to me like something is being hidden. Like Symbios want the site to continue to look like a community built and run site rather than a commercial enterprise - which is is now - whether you like it or not.
Does anyone else feel the same?
aRSexx :color:

absolutly agree.... also i am sure that the "is this a free site" information is misleading as well......
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absolutly agree.... also i am sure that the "is this a free site" information is misleading as well......

And perhaps against trading standards? Have to admit if I was a new member and read that, then was asked to pay I would be wondering. But hey - who is going to lodge a complaint with trading standards against a "shag" site rolleyes
aRSexx :color:
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Does anyone else feel the same?
aRSexx :color:

Yep!!!! :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
We have brought this to the attention of the Admin Team, and believe it or not it has been changed ................................. slightly!!
As far as I am aware they are going to look at it again!!! confused :?
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Does anyone else feel the same?
aRSexx :color:

Yep!!!! :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
We have brought this to the attention of the Admin Team, and believe it or not it has been changed ................................. slightly!!
As far as I am aware they are going to look at it again!!! confused :?

Sarge may I take this opportunity to say that I think you mods are doing a great job in the face of much adversity! And before anyone blames me of sucking up to the MODS - I am not! Having been part of a "takeover" in the RL I can just imagine what it is like behind the scenes. If I was a mod I don't think I would still be around. I think the fact that you guys still mod VOLUNTARILY shows a dedication to this community above and beyond the call of duty!
aRSexx :color:
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Does anyone else feel the same?
aRSexx :color:

Yep!!!! :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
We have brought this to the attention of the Admin Team, and believe it or not it has been changed ................................. slightly!!
As far as I am aware they are going to look at it again!!! confused :?

Sarge may I take this opportunity to say that I think you mods are doing a great job in the face of much adversity! And before anyone blames me of sucking up to the MODS - I am not! Having been part of a "takeover" in the RL I can just imagine what it is like behind the scenes. If I was a mod I don't think I would still be around. I think the fact that you guys still mod VOLUNTARILY shows a dedication to this community above and beyond the call of duty!
aRSexx :color:
kiss :kiss: :kiss: :kiss: :kiss:
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Does anyone else feel the same?
aRSexx :color:

Yep!!!! :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
We have brought this to the attention of the Admin Team, and believe it or not it has been changed ................................. slightly!!
As far as I am aware they are going to look at it again!!! confused :?

Sarge may I take this opportunity to say that I think you mods are doing a great job in the face of much adversity! And before anyone blames me of sucking up to the MODS - I am not! Having been part of a "takeover" in the RL I can just imagine what it is like behind the scenes. If I was a mod I don't think I would still be around. I think the fact that you guys still mod VOLUNTARILY shows a dedication to this community above and beyond the call of duty!
aRSexx :color:
kiss :kiss: :kiss: :kiss: :kiss:
If any of the Mods in here are on a Final Pension Sceme they should be worried lol wink
phredd
Well - gotta give em credit - they changed it. But what waffle!!!! Lawyers at their best I say. Well done guys. I hope you pay your lawyers well!!!! 'cos they sure know the art of baffle!!! :shock: :shock:
What happened to the campaign for laymans language or whatever it was called?!!
So - reading between the legal lines - it's free to register...but if you wanna do anything else it's gonna cost you. But we won't charge you for adult minder - or whatever it's called.
Why don't you just list the costs and benefits out per grade? dunno
aRSexx
While I agree/ disagree with the coments so far, both here and on other threads, It puzzles me that there is no response from the site owners themselves ! Are they human or was the site sold to automated robots on a server out in cyberspace ?
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Ever feel like youve been had ? :-)

frequently :twisted: but I doubt that is what you meant redface
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Does anyone else feel the same?
aRSexx :color:

Yep!!!! :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
We have brought this to the attention of the Admin Team, and believe it or not it has been changed ................................. slightly!!
As far as I am aware they are going to look at it again!!! confused :?

Sarge may I take this opportunity to say that I think you mods are doing a great job in the face of much adversity! And before anyone blames me of sucking up to the MODS - I am not! Having been part of a "takeover" in the RL I can just imagine what it is like behind the scenes. If I was a mod I don't think I would still be around. I think the fact that you guys still mod VOLUNTARILY shows a dedication to this community above and beyond the call of duty!
aRSexx :color:
OMG bows, what a creepy bumlick you are! rolleyes ;)
in keeping with the creepy bumlick theme, i personally would like to applaud admin for clarifying the whole "is this a free site" issue.
clear as mud! free to register is NOT the same thing as free to use at all. some of the stuff still on the site is misleading, and if i was a genuine newbie reading stuff that was obviously being a little economical with the truth, i might have the odd trust issue with the site as a whole.
neil x x x ;)
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OMG bows, what a creepy bumlick you are! rolleyes ;)

Bet you wouldn't say no to a bit of rimming Mr InLeeds lol
aRSexx :color:
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OMG bows, what a creepy bumlick you are! rolleyes ;)

Bet you wouldn't say no to a bit of rimming Mr InLeeds lol
aRSexx :color:
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
bows, i dunno how you construed a sexual preference from the whole creepy bum lick thing, but i like your thinking! ;)
wasn't an offer BTW was it? :rascal: :P
neil x x x ;)
Most sites now blah blah blah as free. Salt needed, just a pinch. Fine line between truth and reality it would seem ? Server cost go bonkers ? But bandwidth on isp accounts are doubling (at least) year by year ? I'm not sure sure the figures add up..... But rest assured that here, if you post anything the hard working mods don't regard as worthy or it's been done before (even if you ain't' seen it cos you're new) it will be locked, blocked or just plain dissed. Other than that it's well worth your hard earned dollar.... No disrespect to the mods here as rules are rules and they are just making the site a nice place to be....... :arrow: :arrow: :arrow: cool
gingerminge38 i think you need a massage or a shag or something confused
lighten up please, this site has been through a hard time over the last few weeks & its now starting to settle back down again please dont try to rock the boat
everytime i see one of your posts you seem to be putting someone down, usually the mods who are doing a very hard & thankless job, they look after us & all without pay its done from the goodness from there hearts & most people apreciate all they do for us!
so mods when your time comes (a long time yet we hope) may every hair on your heads turn to a candle & light your way to heaven smile
gingerminge is making a valid point.....who would want to pay to use a site where the mods are a little bit too trigger happy?
Jesus, the same as the rest of you didnt have a clue. thoght it was still mark n helens site. even double amazed when they kept banging on about not being commercial etc etc
maybe its time for an amateur pheonix to rise. I AM LUCKY ENOUGH TO BE ONE OF ONLY 3 PEOPE IN EUROPE TO HAVE A GENUINE CRYSTAL BALL.
Hang on, an image from the future is appearing,
yes I can see clearly now,
Its an afiliation with the ault hub and.... OH NO, OH DEAR, MEMBERSHIP AND RENEWAL FEES FOR ALL
YOU READ IT HERE FIRST
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Jesus, the same as the rest of you didnt have a clue. thoght it was still mark n helens site. even double amazed when they kept banging on about not being commercial etc etc
maybe its time for an amateur pheonix to rise. I AM LUCKY ENOUGH TO BE ONE OF ONLY 3 PEOPE IN EUROPE TO HAVE A GENUINE CRYSTAL BALL.
Hang on, an image from the future is appearing,
yes I can see clearly now,
Its an afiliation with the ault hub and.... OH NO, OH DEAR, MEMBERSHIP AND RENEWAL FEES FOR ALL
YOU READ IT HERE FIRST

We also read it several times over in December, when other people stated it - your crystal ball must be due for an MOT lol
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We also read it several times over in December, when other people stated it - your crystal ball must be due for an MOT lol

...or maybe the crystal ball just needs some windolene: :lol:
I think I have a good idea what Symbiosis's strategy is with this site, and I reckon they're going to be pretty successful at turning it into a profitable business. The most difficult thing about getting a viable online community up and running is getting a critical mass of members, and they were given that ready made.
Unfortunately I doubt many of the original members will still be here at that point, but heh, that's life - maybe a new free SH equivalent will have sprung up by then. Sad as it is to see a what many people consider a second home "desecrated" like this, nobody forces you to use the forum, and nobody's made you pay anything so far...
I rarely consider things as being 'free', as there is always some kind of cost involved. At the very least revenue is gained by the charging of usage of the telecomms lines. Obviously anyone logged into SH contributes in this way. Although not as a direct charge per user, but it is all grabbed and calculated by and for the telecomms companies.
Many organisations start with a benevolent ethos and have people with exceptionally unique abilities and character. But very often these qualities don't mix with hard nosed profit driven business. Which accounts for the exodus/ minimal appearance of several worthy people. However there are many who have ceased whinging and are now happily using the full range of services available on the site.
I think when people step into SH its similar to going to a club that insists on tie and collar. You comply with the code and behave accordingly. So I don't think that is going to be lost.
Most of what it was still remains. Its not a ruin, its a fine old preservation.