Aticipating a 4sum and finally................ (a bit long)

21 Jul 2004

hello everyone!
For ages now, my partner and I have been trying to arrange a 4sum / some fun with another couple.
We have chatted to so many couples and each time something has gone wrong, such as they stop talking to us and we never hear from them again, or they begin to make excuses, or simply never reply to us! sad

But last night we made a BIG breakthrough!!!! :D
We arranged a meeting!!! :D :D :D :D :D :D :D
The best part is that we don't have to travel coz they live a taxi ride away, and it wont cost anything as we going to theirs for the evening / night!
It may sound silly rolleyes

that we are so excited but this is going to be our first experience and we are really looking forward to it and are really raring to go and up for it!!! :P
And what makes it even more exciting for us is that this our last weekend free to do anything like this for about 6 weeks as we are getting married on the 21st August!! :D smile

:D :) :D
If you have any 4sum experiences or tips then I would absolutely love to hear them!!
Thanks for your time!
Rachel

21 Jul 2004

Congratulations!! However, a bit more thought could have gone into your wedding plans - it clashes with the NW Munch :shock:
Hope everything goes ok and don't forget to let us all know how it went. lol

Mal

21 Jul 2004

How inconsiderate, I mean, really! :P
Congrats to the pair of you! biggrin

Venusxxx

21 Jul 2004

Good luck to you, hope everything works out well & it's what you hope it will be like.
The WHOOSH Man

21 Jul 2004

Quote by dunstable_lass
And what makes it even more exciting for us is that this our last weekend free to do anything like this for about 6 weeks as we are getting married on the 21st August!!

Hope it's to each other biggrin

:D :shock:

21 Jul 2004

thanks, guys, anyone got any tips or experiences they could share with me?

21 Jul 2004

Take alcohol and relax, be your selfâ€™s maybe order a pizza
Chat for a while and if you all get on and are compatible the night will take its own course
Try suggesting a game to play if you all get on and feel comfortable for example spin the bottle or strip poker its always fun playing a game and better when you make up your own rules to spin the bottle lol

:lol:
Hope you guys have lots of fun and good luck with the wedding I know how hard it is to plan Iâ€™m trying to plan ours.
Love Molly xx

21 Jul 2004

Thanks Molly, some really appreciated words of encouragement there.
biggrin

And as for the wedding, OH MY GOD, its soooooooooooooooooo hard at times :cry:
But nearly there and am actually enjoying it now!!!
:rose:

21 Jul 2004

Hmmm wasnt sure if u meant tips or experiences on weddings or swinging then rolleyes

lol
Anyway, just had a brain wave! If u havent got a wedding do arranged u could always bring family and friends to the munch, a good mix of family and swingers should go down well me thinks :beer: :cheers: lol
Anyway, Congrats and have a brill day!
xxx

21 Jul 2004

Dunstable lass.....
We really know what you both are going through... the anticipation.... the wait... etc etc... all we can really say is don't expect anything, let nature take it's course and you'll have a great time.
read our latest post.... first time apprehension in this very forum... prob on page 2 now.... we share some of our experiences of our first time....
good luck... and we really hope you enjoy the experience...
Paul and Susie (Paul) x

21 Jul 2004

For the foursome,best thing is to just relax and let it flow,if your comfortable youll enjoy it more.
For the wedding,enjoy the day it goes too bloody quick!!
Oh and don't do what i did and fall down the main stairs at the reception and land in the bar(2 months pregnant!!) redface

ops:
Good luck with it all,
Clare,xxx
wink

21 Jul 2004

Good luck DL, let us know how it goes! smile

21 Jul 2004

Quote by clarensteve
For the foursome,best thing is to just relax and let it flow,if your comfortable youll enjoy it more.
For the wedding,enjoy the day it goes too bloody quick!!
Oh and don't do what i did and fall down the main stairs at the reception and land in the bar(2 months pregnant!!) ops:
Good luck with it all,
Clare,xxx

I take it Clare`s old man handed the shotgun to someone else when he helped her up then?! :P :wink:
Venusxxx

21 Jul 2004

Quote by VenusnMars
For the foursome,best thing is to just relax and let it flow,if your comfortable youll enjoy it more.
For the wedding,enjoy the day it goes too bloody quick!!
Oh and don't do what i did and fall down the main stairs at the reception and land in the bar(2 months pregnant!!) ops:
Good luck with it all,
Clare,xxx

I take it Clare`s old man handed the shotgun to someone else when he helped her up then?! :P :wink:
Venusxxx
OOhhhh Venus you cheeky thing smackbottom

We got married because we love each other,everybody say aaaaahhhhhh!!!
Also didnt find out till 2weeks before,so it just sealed our love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
(getting a bit of revenge are we??? rolleyes

lol!)
Clare and Steve,xxx
:wink:

21 Jul 2004

Quote by clarensteve
For the foursome,best thing is to just relax and let it flow,if your comfortable youll enjoy it more.
For the wedding,enjoy the day it goes too bloody quick!!
Oh and don't do what i did and fall down the main stairs at the reception and land in the bar(2 months pregnant!!) ops:
Good luck with it all,
Clare,xxx

I take it Clare`s old man handed the shotgun to someone else when he helped her up then?! :P :wink:
Venusxxx
OOhhhh Venus you cheeky thing smackbottom

We got married because we love each other,everybody say aaaaahhhhhh!!!
Also didnt find out till 2weeks before,so it just sealed our love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
(getting a bit of revenge are we??? rolleyes

lol!)
Clare and Steve,xxx
:wink:
biggrin

:D :D You knew I would! :smug: :love:
(btw, my toddler was bridesmaid! lol

)
Venusxxx

21 Jul 2004

swingers getting married 6 weeks after a 4 some! WOW, pity i can't be at the reception, it would be a BLAST!