Has anyone experianced a bad performance when swinging with another male/ couple? for example he busts his nut in like 5 mintues... what happened? Anyone had any bad performances with Females?
Tell your stories, how you felt, what happened, was it a big deal, where you able to continue, was it really akward?
Interested in knowing peoples experiances and thoughts on the subject.
What would you do if someone (either individually or in a couple) didn't perform?
It's good form to start by sharing your own experiences on here fella before you ask others :thumbup:
Oh hey sorry there , we're new to the scene and are just trying to find out as much as possible (cover all angles). Sorry if i offended.
Well what do you do if you invite some guy over for a threesome with you and your gf and that happens I mean kinda defeats the porpose no?
The question perhaps should be, ever meet up with someone who was very disappointing (male/female)? What happened? what did you do after it happened?
MrBusyHands you're not being very tactful. As RedHot said, people don't tend to kiss and tell on here. The only way to deal with preformance mishaps is to be sympathetic and tactful then either meet again or not, it's your choice.
Can I suggest that you read through some threads to get a feel for the place and maybe search out some of the subjects you're asking all these questions about? You might find the answers to some of them have already been posted.
I was just asking a question that my gf was worried about... she'd had a 3sum b4 where one guy couldn't keep it up and walked out so she and the other guy just awkwardly stopped. She was worried about something like that happening again. Am shifting through the old threads now... some good stuff (some very funny stuff too)
Well I could be WAY off the mark and I accept that and apologise if I offend you I'm actually just trying to help.
It's just that my intuition tells me that you are speaking about yourself - maybe you have had difficulties and are worried about 'letting couples' down etc.
If that is the case then you have nothing to fear - you can genuinely ask for advice in this forum - some of us may take the mick etc but not out real things like this subject.
If I'm wrong then sorry again - just my own opinion.
Kiss_Me
... runs for cover fearing a barrage of abuse.....
Do you think theres ever a problem with meeting up socially first i.e. you don't click, have nothing in common. Would that be a big problem?
We're both quite young and seeing theres a lot of members 30+ we'd be worried that socially we might get on friendly enough but over that it might be awkward (we don't have enough in common whatever)
well if we meet a couple and have a bad experience.....i believe in complete diplomacy and just tell them straight "you were fucking shit".......works everytime! :thumbup: