Hey everyone , i have been searching around the forums and other websites and most people prefere bareback when having sex.
whats youre thoughs on here as mst users are safe on here.
a question to all guys-- can u still enjoy a shagg with the use of a comdom or does it stop all the feeling.
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Bareback or safe ????
Sex God
Oh goodie... this is a winner! :bounce:
Safe sex for me.
Safe sex for me.
Sex God
Quote by Dirtygirly
Oh goodie... this is a winner! :bounce:
Safe sex for me.
Ditto
Quote by brucie
by the way, i have seen more men lose wood when the condom comes on than ive had hot dinners. im usually ok with condoms myself but often need re coaxing once its on and on the odd occassion it has caused for the moment to pass...
so its hardly suprising that many men will forego if given the option.
Fair point, condoms tend to slip off or even split with men who are thick at the base and smaller at the head - in addition, they become harder for men to wear as they (the men not the condoms!) get older too, but safe sex is important when you don't know people very well.
Plim :thumbup:
Orgasminator
Always safe - not worth the risk
Jane n Dave xx
Jane n Dave xx
Sex God
Oh lets just pretend all the advice over the last fuck knows how many years is bollox eh
Play safe!
Play safe!
Sex God
Quote by gingerjo-lee
safe always
been swinging over 6 years with friends still play safe with them and always will
safe is the best
:thumbup: Absolutely.
Sex God
Quote by Plimboy
by the way, i have seen more men lose wood when the condom comes on than ive had hot dinners. im usually ok with condoms myself but often need re coaxing once its on and on the odd occassion it has caused for the moment to pass...
so its hardly suprising that many men will forego if given the option.
Fair point, condoms tend to slip off or even split with men who are thick at the base and smaller at the head - in addition, they become harder for men to wear as they (the men not the condoms!) get older too, but safe sex is important when you don't know people very well.
Plim :thumbup:
I have never ever been with a guy who had trouble staying hard with a condom.
I'm not saying some don't, but I do think it can often be a convenient excuse to try and persuade the partner not to insist on one.
Sex God
Quote by noladreams
I have never ever been with a guy who had trouble staying hard with a condom.
I'm not saying some don't, but I do think it can often be a convenient excuse to try and persuade the partner not to insist on one.
I have... disappointing. Not quite sure who was more disappointed though, me leaving without a shag or him being totally mortified that his weaner got weenier when the condoms came out.
Wouldn't have been so bad, you know there are other things we could have been doing but clearly he wasn't interested in attempting anything else, his pride was seriously damaged.
Shit happens but learn to deal with it like an adult. 
Sex God
Hehe, in my view this is the one area where the largest proportion of people say one thing but are probably prepared - in an alcohol fuelled moment - to do something else.
Choon waits fer the wave of opprobrium - delivered by 50% who do live by their principles and 50% who want everybody to think that they do!!
I, of course, am in the first 50%!! :angel:
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Choon waits fer the wave of opprobrium - delivered by 50% who do live by their principles and 50% who want everybody to think that they do!!
I, of course, am in the first 50%!! :angel:
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Sex God
Quote by Dirtygirly
I have never ever been with a guy who had trouble staying hard with a condom.
I'm not saying some don't, but I do think it can often be a convenient excuse to try and persuade the partner not to insist on one.
I have... disappointing. Not quite sure who was more disappointed though, me leaving without a shag or him being totally mortified that his weaner got weenier when the condoms came out.
Wouldn't have been so bad, you know there are other things we could have been doing but clearly he wasn't interested in attempting anything else, his pride was seriously damaged.
Shit happens but learn to deal with it like an adult.Thought we agreed never to speak of this again :dunno:
Warming the Bed
We like to keep bareback for each other and its safe sex with our playmates
Simples :lol:
Simples :lol: 
Sex God
I'm happy to play bareback, but only if we're inside a safe :mrgreen:
Sex God
I asked a local young lady what she used for protection during sex
She replied.... A bus shelter
She replied.... A bus shelter
Sexlightened
Quote by noladreams
I have never ever been with a guy who had trouble staying hard with a condom.
I'm not saying some don't, but I do think it can often be a convenient excuse to try and persuade the partner not to insist on one.
Like wise I have never had a problem with a condom, if Im horny and with some one I want to have sex with, you could put a welly on my cock and it would stay hard
I too thick it is usualy a convenient excuse just to not ware one, and as for the couple of second's it takes to put one on, isn't it worth them second's for the hours of fun your about to have We should all know we need to keep ourselves safe in this day and age, and on the times we have played with other's we have always used condom's, but to have a close friend join us and know he is with Lady bareback is a big turn on for both of us, with out going into to much detail that is a thing that we have enjoyed in the past and with the right man would like to again.
Quote by DungeonMaster
I have never ever been with a guy who had trouble staying hard with a condom.
I'm not saying some don't, but I do think it can often be a convenient excuse to try and persuade the partner not to insist on one.
Like wise I have never had a problem with a condom, if Im horny and with some one I want to have sex with, you could put a welly on my cock and it would stay hard
I too thick it is usualy a convenient excuse just to not ware one, and as for the couple of second's it takes to put one on, isn't it worth them second's for the hours of fun your about to haveTrust you to put the boot in.
Sexlightened
Yes but being a tart it won't a normal welly it would have to be a royal hunter at lest, but better a Le Chameau
Quote by DungeonMaster
Yes but being a tart it won't a normal welly it would have to be a royal hunter at lest, but better a Le Chameau
there are designer wellie too?
I think a need a shoe lesson. Or something.
As for bareback- worlass and I always stay hard and always go bareback. We prefer it that way.
Quote by DungeonMaster
Yes but being a tart it won't a normal welly it would have to be a royal hunter at lest, but better a Le Chameau
there are designer wellie too?
I think a need a shoe lesson. Or something.
As for bareback- worlass and I always stay hard and always go bareback. We prefer it that way.
Sex God
Personally, I definitely prefer sex without a condom, there's no feeling like it. BUT I would NOT have penetrative sex with a stranger or even a regular playmate without a condom. Not just for the sake of my health (though I do, of course, take that seriously), but for Sappho's too.
When Sappho and I got together 6 years ago, we got ourselves checked out before dispensing with the condoms. Mind you, bearing in mind the three children we've had since, maybe we should have stuck with them? :doh:
How do people feel about unprotected oral sex? I shouldn't think that sucking on a condom can be terribly pleasant (no experience of it myself!), so I would go with the lady's preference there. If she insisted on a condom I would happily wear one, if she preferred to givs BJs without then that would be fine by me (and actually preferable). Everything I have read seems to indicate that risk of infection from oral sex is not quite zero, but certainly pretty minimal.
As for wilting a little when the condom goes on, yes that does often happen. However, a little 'personal attention' normally restores rigidity pretty quickly.
Will
When Sappho and I got together 6 years ago, we got ourselves checked out before dispensing with the condoms. Mind you, bearing in mind the three children we've had since, maybe we should have stuck with them? :doh:
How do people feel about unprotected oral sex? I shouldn't think that sucking on a condom can be terribly pleasant (no experience of it myself!), so I would go with the lady's preference there. If she insisted on a condom I would happily wear one, if she preferred to givs BJs without then that would be fine by me (and actually preferable). Everything I have read seems to indicate that risk of infection from oral sex is not quite zero, but certainly pretty minimal.
As for wilting a little when the condom goes on, yes that does often happen. However, a little 'personal attention' normally restores rigidity pretty quickly.
Will
Sexlightened
Quote by splendid_
Yes but being a tart it won't a normal welly it would have to be a royal hunter at lest, but better a Le Chameau
there are designer wellie too?
I think a need a shoe lesson. Or something.
As for bareback- worlass and I always stay hard and always go bareback. We prefer it that way.
No Spendid not so much designer as quality for folk that need that bit more than some thing to walk the dog over the back fields, but price wise yes there becoming a fashion accessory these days.
as for yourself and worlass if yours was full of blood and muscle and not rubber it might be a different story
