Bareback with a stranger!

30 Oct 2012

I love those rooms and pop in them frequently, then I block everyone in the room and thier friends so that we never inadvertanlty play with them, each to thier own and there is no such thing as safe sex but you can minimise the risks.
And No there really is no such thing as safe sex cos I fell off the bed once while wanking and banged my head lol

30 Oct 2012

i always play safe and some times in group sessions even lee will cover up and fuck me to give the right inpression to everyone around smile

no cover no love i say lol
jo xx

30 Oct 2012

Quote by gingerjo-lee
i always play safe and some times in group sessions even lee will cover up and fuck me to give the right inpression to everyone around
no cover no love i say lol
jo xx

Same here, we always use condoms for meets, always have, and always will (cant say I that I like the taste of them, and even the chocolate flavoured ones are rank) :sad:
We also use comdoms with each other if we are playing in a group situation, or if there is a chance that either of us will be playing with anyone else.
In an ideal world, we wouldnt need to use them, but its just not worth the risk and although we do get checked out regularly, not all things are easy to cure with a dose of antibiotics.

30 Oct 2012

I'm filthy i'm sorry to say, bareback phonesex everytime.......

31 Oct 2012

Not a chance.... ever!

2 Nov 2012

What about oral sex?
Lime is my favourite but a blow job with a condom feels a bit sterile ( I guess that's the idea!) but what about when he reciprocates?

2 Nov 2012

Safe sex always for me

2 Nov 2012

Safe sex always for me

2 Nov 2012

Quote by phil818180
What about oral sex?
Lime is my favourite but a blow job with a condom feels a bit sterile ( I guess that's the idea!) but what about when he reciprocates?

Cant comment about 'reciprocation' but got to say, every flavour we tried just tastes the same - yucky!!! Although some of the flavoured ones do smell nicer than others wink

5 Nov 2012

Is there some divide between forum users and those you see in chat or in adverts? In the ads you can easily find photographs of people having bareback sex with more than one partner. In chat there are bareback rooms and in much of the chat it is referred to, of course talk of it is one thing, actually doing it is another!

6 Nov 2012

My personal 5 cents ... the risks by far outweigh the pleasure difference.
For me in life it is all about balance and calculated risks.
The amount of pleasure gained is not equal to the amount of stress gained when meeting with someone that you haven't had extended contact with and know their habits.
I have been in a situation where a very close friend of mine contracted an STD from a very well and clean looking lady and he never saw it coming.
I took this quite serious and always think about the poor chap when naughty thoughts enter my mind.
Also after you have had tour fun and you are feeling elated and happy and bubbly i can think of nothing worse to spoil your afterglow than a trip to the nearest STD clinic to get tested and have your peace of mind.
And the whole thrill seeker element of it is just alien to me.
Who knows i might be missing on some amazing experience based on adrenaline and risk but it is just not my cuppa tea.
Cheers,
T

6 Nov 2012

Thank you Ste-n-Kez! Very much appreciated.

6 Nov 2012

Bareback with a stranger....you have to be nuts......even with people you know well in this lifestyle....too much risk for me so safe every time - as for bareback phonesex.....too much risk of Hearing Aids for me!!! smile

I'm off to shrink wrap myself in case anyone wants a cuddle!!!! :)

6 Nov 2012

Quote by HughGRection
as for bareback phonesex.....too much risk of Hearing Aids for me!!!

6 Nov 2012

I remember years back there was much talk of dental dams being used for oral sex or rimming as those sex acts also carry their own risks BUT I have never seen a dental dam used in any photo or video or cam on here, and never in any one to one, threesome, club, party or group thing I have ever personally seen or been a part of.

6 Nov 2012

Quote by HughGRection
Bareback with a stranger....you have to be nuts......even with people you know well in this lifestyle....too much risk for me so safe every time - as for bareback phonesex.....too much risk of Hearing Aids for me!!! I'm off to shrink wrap myself in case anyone wants a cuddle!!!! :)

I think it is the bareback sex that is a danger to the nuts dunno

Don't get me wrong, each to their own, and if someone is willing to take the risk, then it is their life they are playing with, as long as they make it clear to everyone they meet, that they do play without protection. Personally, we would never meet anyone we know plays without, but that is our choice, and Im not saying it is the choice that everyone should make, but it is the choice that we make and for us, swinging is all about making choices; informed choices.
Anyone who swings knows the risk, and although condoms do make things somewhat safer, they offer no guarantee. However, I would never cross a busy road with my eyes shut, I look both ways, listen for traffic and then I weigh up the risks of crossing it safely. Its the same with swinging, condoms may not be the most passionate part of a meet, but we take the level of protection that we feel comfortable with, and that level of protection is to use condoms (plus back this up with having regular check ups just to make sure everything is fine).

6 Nov 2012

Quote by niceandgentle
I remember years back there was much talk of dental dams being used for oral sex or rimming as those sex acts also carry their own risks BUT I have never seen a dental dam used in any photo or video or cam on here, and never in any one to one, threesome, club, party or group thing I have ever personally seen or been a part of.

Good point, and the use of dental dams it is not something we have used or seen, but the same can be said for using condoms to give oral to a male. We have used condoms for oral (crikey, they taste AWFUL) but the majority of the time, we dont use them for oral and very rarely see others using them oral (thinking of parties or club situations here).

7 Nov 2012

I think some of the photos are a good indication if folk will or won't.

7 Nov 2012

Quote by Sarah
I think some of the photos are a good indication if folk will or won't.

Indeed....As is a quick peek in one of the frequent bareback rooms...
Gives a good idea of who to avoid :thumbup:

7 Nov 2012

NWC, Nips into Bareback room, see's Steve and Ste-n-Kez sat there all quietly :eeek:
I do see where you are coming from, but a few people have mentioned in this thread that they go in the BB Chatroom to see who is using the room. But lets say I nip in and see you in there, I could then presume (incorrectly) that you also are looking for BB fun when really, you are just being nosey and seeing who does use the room (this is becoming, how long is a piece of string discussion) lol

I know the explanation above is just me being pedantic, but not sure if someone using a BB Chatroom is a definate indication that they play without condoms. Same as photos of someone having sex without condoms, as these could quite easily be from a long term relationship.
However, when you put all the little pieces together, along with posting to come along to BB gangbangs etc, they do give an indication of people not always using them wink

8 Nov 2012

Reading all of the previous posts is an interesting perspective on safe versus non safe activities.
Here is a dilemma for you. Over 10 years ago I spent a few weeks with 2 married women, together at the same time. It tended to be passionate and spontaneous, so no jacket was used. As a threesome I had both women one after the other regularly or together, sometimes more than once a night depending on the situation.
Now looking back at that time, If I had used protection, would I have to, stop change the jacket, mid way through, stop change again and so on?
What would you have done as a guy and what would you have wanted as a woman?

8 Nov 2012

Yes, if you are having a 3 some with 2 women then of course you should put a fresh condom on before entering each woman, otherwise you are only protecting yourself.

8 Nov 2012

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
NWC, Nips into Bareback room, see's Steve and Ste-n-Kez sat there all quietly :eeek:
I do see where you are coming from, but a few people have mentioned in this thread that they go in the BB Chatroom to see who is using the room. But lets say I nip in and see you in there, I could then presume (incorrectly) that you also are looking for BB fun when really, you are just being nosey and seeing who does use the room (this is becoming, how long is a piece of string discussion)
I know the explanation above is just me being pedantic, but not sure if someone using a BB Chatroom is a definate indication that they play without condoms. Same as photos of someone having sex without condoms, as these could quite easily be from a long term relationship.
However, when you put all the little pieces together, along with posting to come along to BB gangbangs etc, they do give an indication of people not always using them

I thought that.. if you go into a room it doesn't mean you are that thing. I sometimes see someone in a room who's an SH friend or who I've chatted to before and that's why I am in that room. Or you get someone with a good sense of humour or a good chatter who you share banter with.
Even a few minutes looking at the galleries you'll clearly see people having sex with different partners with no condoms on.
I have had sex with two women where I changed condom between entering each lady.. no hassle at all, and it was a joy to be there and share those pleasures with them!

8 Nov 2012

Quote by Ste-n-Kez
.............1.) Oi cheeky ............

Thats me

8 Nov 2012

Yes please don't make judgements about people in chatrooms!! I'm a nosey bugger and go into all rooms, the more hardcore or over the top the name, the more I want to have a peek and see what's going on!! lol

As for bareback, I've done it quite a few times when I was younger and my dad swore it was good for me and would up my skills!
God I miss horseriding....

8 Nov 2012

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
NWC, Nips into Bareback room, see's Steve and Ste-n-Kez sat there all quietly :eeek:
I do see where you are coming from, but a few people have mentioned in this thread that they go in the BB Chatroom to see who is using the room. But lets say I nip in and see you in there, I could then presume (incorrectly) that you also are looking for BB fun when really, you are just being nosey and seeing who does use the room (this is becoming, how long is a piece of string discussion)
I know the explanation above is just me being pedantic, but not sure if someone using a BB Chatroom is a definate indication that they play without condoms. Same as photos of someone having sex without condoms, as these could quite easily be from a long term relationship.
However, when you put all the little pieces together, along with posting to come along to BB gangbangs etc, they do give an indication of people not always using them

Your right, we could go into a BB room and add people to our block list that are only there doing what we are doing, people could see us there and block us, but in our book "if in doubt kick it out" it is more acceptable to block an innocent person than play with a dangerous one.
Swinging is dangerous, we do it knowing the risks, we minimise those risks without eliminating them as we do with everything else in our lives, we look when crossing the road, we wouldn't pick up needles in the park, we check the gas is off, that is all you can do if you want to be safe, minimise the risks. Bareback sex with swingers is very dangerous and really it is only a matter of time.
Unfortunately there are other risks that some people don't even know exist when it comes to swinging, for example, do you kiss people who have just returned from Turkey, they may have kissed a camel whilst there, camels can carry syphalis in thier saliva !
Do you expect a single male to bring his own condoms ? really ? yes a lot do expect that, I know how many single men buy condoms at the swingers club I use, have you ever googled "getting a stranger pregnant" it is a popular fetish, of course some look for those offering BB to satisfy this fetish but realise that those that do offer it are probably on some form of birth control, so the next best option is tamper with a condom and have sex with someone who might not be using birth control, of course if the sperm can get through so can the viruses like Hepatitus or chlamydia.

9 Nov 2012

Quote by MidsCouple24
NWC, Nips into Bareback room, see's Steve and Ste-n-Kez sat there all quietly :eeek:
I do see where you are coming from, but a few people have mentioned in this thread that they go in the BB Chatroom to see who is using the room. But lets say I nip in and see you in there, I could then presume (incorrectly) that you also are looking for BB fun when really, you are just being nosey and seeing who does use the room (this is becoming, how long is a piece of string discussion)
I know the explanation above is just me being pedantic, but not sure if someone using a BB Chatroom is a definate indication that they play without condoms. Same as photos of someone having sex without condoms, as these could quite easily be from a long term relationship.
However, when you put all the little pieces together, along with posting to come along to BB gangbangs etc, they do give an indication of people not always using them

Your right, we could go into a BB room and add people to our block list that are only there doing what we are doing, people could see us there and block us, but in our book "if in doubt kick it out" it is more acceptable to block an innocent person than play with a dangerous one.
Swinging is dangerous, we do it knowing the risks, we minimise those risks without eliminating them as we do with everything else in our lives, we look when crossing the road, we wouldn't pick up needles in the park, we check the gas is off, that is all you can do if you want to be safe, minimise the risks. Bareback sex with swingers is very dangerous and really it is only a matter of time.
Unfortunately there are other risks that some people don't even know exist when it comes to swinging, for example, do you kiss people who have just returned from Turkey, they may have kissed a camel whilst there, camels can carry syphalis in thier saliva !
Do you expect a single male to bring his own condoms ? really ? yes a lot do expect that, I know how many single men buy condoms at the swingers club I use, have you ever googled "getting a stranger pregnant" it is a popular fetish, of course some look for those offering BB to satisfy this fetish but realise that those that do offer it are probably on some form of birth control, so the next best option is tamper with a condom and have sex with someone who might not be using birth control, of course if the sperm can get through so can the viruses like Hepatitus or chlamydia.
Your right swinging can be dangerous and there are risks which need to be minimised. Everyone has a different level of what they consider as risky, based on common sense and experience. Although common sense and experience tends to go out the window when lust takes over.
I tend to go in and out of the Chatrooms as well, to see what is happening, just to be nosey and when I was younger I didnt always use a jacket.(Although now older wiser and more respectful, I do). It doesn't make me a bad person.
I have also added not kissing camels to my don't do list.

9 Nov 2012

Quote by Ste-n-Kez

Your right swinging can be dangerous and there are risks which need to be minimised. Everyone has a different level of what they consider as risky, based on common sense and experience. Although common sense and experience tends to go out the window when lust takes over.
I tend to go in and out of the Chatrooms as well, to see what is happening, just to be nosey and when I was younger I didnt always use a jacket.(Although now older wiser and more respectful, I do). It doesn't make me a bad person.
I have also added not kissing camels to my don't do list.

:laughabove::evil2::thumbup:
You may well laugh but.. this is yet another bitter blow for all our camel members on SH!

9 Nov 2012

Quote by niceandgentle

Your right swinging can be dangerous and there are risks which need to be minimised. Everyone has a different level of what they consider as risky, based on common sense and experience. Although common sense and experience tends to go out the window when lust takes over.
I tend to go in and out of the Chatrooms as well, to see what is happening, just to be nosey and when I was younger I didnt always use a jacket.(Although now older wiser and more respectful, I do). It doesn't make me a bad person.
I have also added not kissing camels to my don't do list.

:laughabove::evil2::thumbup:
You may well laugh but.. this is yet another bitter blow for all our camel members on SH!
:sad: Might as well pack it all in then :sad:

9 Nov 2012

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple

Your right swinging can be dangerous and there are risks which need to be minimised. Everyone has a different level of what they consider as risky, based on common sense and experience. Although common sense and experience tends to go out the window when lust takes over.
I tend to go in and out of the Chatrooms as well, to see what is happening, just to be nosey and when I was younger I didnt always use a jacket.(Although now older wiser and more respectful, I do). It doesn't make me a bad person.
I have also added not kissing camels to my don't do list.

:laughabove::evil2::thumbup:
You may well laugh but.. this is yet another bitter blow for all our camel members on SH!
:sad: Might as well pack it all in then :sad:
Kiss 'em on the toe, not the lips and yer be ok.

Would you have bareback sex with a stranger?