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BBW - to be or not to be, that is the question !

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Quote by HornyRed

Given a choice, I would probably opt for a woman who is a size 10-12 ..... less than that I find them too skinny, more than that, too large.... but that is my preference and I am entitled to it.!

A slim woman/man is a better word than skinny confused
i agree with you there Red...
Quote by Wishmaster
I find it such a shame that women who are large have to use an euphemism - BBW - in order to feel comfortable with their shape....

if Red prefers slim or thin to skinny, why should i not prefer BBW to fat??? its exactly the same...
it also comes from hearing "look at that fat burd over there" for 27 years.... i prefer BBW!
as for the question first asked, at what size do you become fat... i think 16-18 as most of the fat shops aka Evans start at 16... so yeah about there...
fat is such an ugly word, maybe its because ive heard it for far too long, but its not just looks that count.... and anyway, when the light is off.. you dont notice... a hole is a hole is a hole!
Quote by Happy Cats
What was a BBW's favourite musical instrument at school?

Dont know, what was a BBW;s favourite musical instrument at school?
Think I may regret asking this :shock:
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
What was a BBW's favourite musical instrument at school?

Dont know, what was a BBW;s favourite musical instrument at school?
Think I may regret asking this :shock:
The dinner bell!
redface surprisedops:
Sorry, its only a joke
Happy Cats smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom: Just for you lol
Knew I would regret asking that!
Quote by Happy Cats
What was a BBW's favourite musical instrument at school?

Dont know, what was a BBW;s favourite musical instrument at school?
Think I may regret asking this :shock:
The dinner bell!
redface surprisedops:
Sorry, its only a joke
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
You couldn't wait for someone to ask could you?? lol :lol: :lol: :lol:
Quote by Happy Cats
What was a BBW's favourite musical instrument at school?

Dont know, what was a BBW;s favourite musical instrument at school?
Think I may regret asking this :shock:
The dinner bell!
redface surprisedops:
Sorry, its only a joke
rotflmao :rotflmao:
Quote by Velvet Lips
Offence ??
That really surprises me, the women on here seem so confident, no matter what size they are confused

Well me being a BBW.... ive decided its a case off...U either take me as i am or not at all ... End of the day...nobody is perfect and if we all was all the same...the world would be a very boring place..
I buy 90% of my clothing from Evans... which is an outlet for the larger lady... and they only start from a size 16... Not that im saying a size 16 is BBW... id say more from a size 20 smile
Quote by Happy Cats
What was a BBW's favourite musical instrument at school?

Dont know, what was a BBW;s favourite musical instrument at school?
Think I may regret asking this :shock:
The dinner bell!
redface surprisedops:
Sorry, its only a joke
PMSL, good one that lol
i really don't mind.. i have been larger than average all my life..... when i player rugby at inside centre i was called "quick fat bastard" smile :)
it is a good point that there isn't a male equivilant of BBW...... how about "fat and fantastic" "large and loucious" "rotund and ravishing" .......
sean xxxxxxxxx
Quote by fabio grooverider
i really don't mind.. i have been larger than average all my life..... when i player rugby at inside centre i was called "quick fat bastard" smile :)
it is a good point that there isn't a male equivilant of BBW...... how about "fat and fantastic" "large and loucious" "rotund and ravishing" .......
sean xxxxxxxxx

Meaty and Markosi?
lol
Quote by fabio grooverider
i really don't mind.. i have been larger than average all my life..... when i player rugby at inside centre i was called "quick fat bastard" smile :)
it is a good point that there isn't a male equivilant of BBW...... how about "fat and fantastic" "large and loucious" "rotund and ravishing" .......
sean xxxxxxxxx

Love em all !!! lol :lol: :lol:
Quote by LilMissGullable
I buy 90% of my clothing from Evans... which is an outlet for the larger lady... and they only start from a size 16.

Oh no, I never buy from Evans. they are all too big (way too long that is) I am also a short arse so need a combination of Mothercare/Tents are us lol
Being serious, who cares what size someone is. I have met two of the girls who have posted on here and in my honest opinion I would not have classed either of them as BBW's - both are two very gorgeous and very sexy girls. (Sorry Lynnemarie and Lilmissgullable but I have a two vodkas and it losens the typing fingers) :lol:
Oh and can I have a large and lucious with a side order please :lol:
well have to say i was very consues of my weight when joined even though i am size 14!
but over my time here and camming........... feel so much more comfortable with my self!................and do not consider my self as Big anymore!
Have bit of a tum ...........but i got to realize that it don't bother men that much :twisted:
but still would like to lose some more whaight just for that extra confidance in my self!
but that me.........
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
I buy 90% of my clothing from Evans... which is an outlet for the larger lady... and they only start from a size 16.

Oh no, I never buy from Evans. they are all too big (way too long that is) I am also a short arse so need a combination of Mothercare/Tents are us lol
Being serious, who cares what size someone is. I have met two of the girls who have posted on here and in my honest opinion I would not have classed either of them as BBW's - both are two very gorgeous and very sexy girls. (Sorry Lynnemarie and Lilmissgullable but I have a two vodkas and it losens the typing fingers) :lol:
Oh and can I have a large and lucious with a side order please :lol:
Exactly.... to long....cover the tummy... but dont mind showing my ass... been told ive got a nice 1.... biggrin
Ehhhhh....i really am gullable arnt i rolleyes
Quote by LilMissGullable
I buy 90% of my clothing from Evans...

... so do you fill in the 10% gaps with loose material?? confused :? :? :? bolt
sizes 14/16/18 are curvacious or buxom.... not BBW, i have seen adds that say othe wife is bbw and is size 14... now bugger me if i was a 14 even an 16 i wouldnt be classing that as bbw... bbw tends to be the bigger size of things when the female doesnt want to disclose her dress size bbw covers a multitude of sins!
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
I buy 90% of my clothing from Evans... which is an outlet for the larger lady... and they only start from a size 16.

Oh no, I never buy from Evans. they are all too big (way too long that is) I am also a short arse so need a combination of Mothercare/Tents are us lol
Being serious, who cares what size someone is. I have met two of the girls who have posted on here and in my honest opinion I would not have classed either of them as BBW's - both are two very gorgeous and very sexy girls. (Sorry Lynnemarie and Lilmissgullable but I have a two vodkas and it losens the typing fingers) :lol:
Oh and can I have a large and lucious with a side order please :lol:
Can hear u cracking those typing fingers naughty wigan couple lol
Agree with you it's not about size but how the person comes across ....can be a lovely looking fella but a right tosser ...it's about how the person's personality ...but there u go that just my opinion
Oh and wish I could find pants that were too long for me naughty wigan couple instead of being half mast !!!! sad
Lynn
so what would you call this size then dunno
Quote by Debbiewebs
so what would you call this size then dunno

Debs
If you say youre a 14 youre a 14!
Your tums not that bad - the legs could do with some work
Quote by Happy Cats
so what would you call this size then dunno

Debs
If you say youre a 14 youre a 14!
Your tums not that bad - the legs could do with some work
rotflmao :rotflmao:
Quote by Debbiewebs
so what would you call this size then dunno

A 'Chris Tarrant'.
Quote by Velvet Lips
Its also interesting that there is no male equivalent to the term "BBW" . Maybe you all have bodies, perfectly acceptable to all !!! lol

Yes there is. People call me fat bastard all the time. biggrin
Hey, I'm fat - some people like it, some people don't. I'm not going to stick a label on myself telling people what to think about it.
Quote by Ice Pie
Its also interesting that there is no male equivalent to the term "BBW" . Maybe you all have bodies, perfectly acceptable to all !!! lol

Yes there is. People call me fat bastard all the time. biggrin
Hey, I'm fat - some people like it, some people don't. I'm not going to stick a label on myself telling people what to think about it.
But Ice Pie you are you, an individual, different than everyone else (in a nice way) and uniquely gorgous in your own little way!
God I am getting soppy now, too much vodka :lol:
Quote by Ice Pie
Yes there is. People call me fat bastard all the time. biggrin

Fat bastard!!!.........
bolt
Quote by Ice Pie
Hey, I'm fat - some people like it, some people don't. I'm not going to stick a label on myself telling people what to think about it.

We've had this discussion on this site before. I'm fat too but according to my brother, "I scrub up well" :lol2:
Like Ice I'm certainly not going to change to suit any bloody label. If you don't like me as I am, piss off because some other bugger will :rascal:
PMSFLl...... im in stitches here.....this is a brill thread biggrin
I thought that BBW stood for "brainy blonde woman" :doh:
it all makes sense now
Wow as i hit this post the song 'perfect ten' by beautiful south came on, hey size is wot u make of it, no1 shud change to make any1 happy........peeps out there shud take us for wot we are...........but if they dont then they can easily do one!!!
Beauty comes from within and radiates........giving confidence...........when i first joined this site i was very critical of my size and made a point of telling peeps....but hey i have had just as much fun as any slim fem on here!!
Some blokes like slim fems and some blokes like the larger fem, wudnt life be boring if the blokes all went after the same girls. I dont think of myself as a BBW, i am me!!!!
The male version of BBW is supposed to be BHM - Big Handsome Man.
I'm manager of a BBW group on MSN and its all about trying to get people to see themselves positively, not about trying to change the world or force opinions on anyone.
Dress size is another number like age or height or anything else and judgements on a person should not be made on that alone. Have you never seen The Prisoner... "I am not a number!"
If I had been so shallow as look for someone with a perfect body as described in the media, which DO try and shove their opinions down the throats of the masses, I would not now be married to the woman of my dreams.
I have seen such crushed spirits in my time, and its very sad. I just want to help people see the good in themselves and that they can be sexy and lovable and lusted after and respected for themselves.
Sorry for going off on one.