well have to say i was very consues of my weight when joined even though i am size 14!
but over my time here and camming........... feel so much more comfortable with my self!................and do not consider my self as Big anymore!
Have bit of a tum ...........but i got to realize that it don't bother men that much :twisted:
but still would like to lose some more whaight just for that extra confidance in my self!
but that me.........
sizes 14/16/18 are curvacious or buxom.... not BBW, i have seen adds that say othe wife is bbw and is size 14... now bugger me if i was a 14 even an 16 i wouldnt be classing that as bbw... bbw tends to be the bigger size of things when the female doesnt want to disclose her dress size bbw covers a multitude of sins!
I thought that BBW stood for "brainy blonde woman" :doh:
it all makes sense now
Wow as i hit this post the song 'perfect ten' by beautiful south came on, hey size is wot u make of it, no1 shud change to make any1 happy........peeps out there shud take us for wot we are...........but if they dont then they can easily do one!!!
Beauty comes from within and radiates........giving confidence...........when i first joined this site i was very critical of my size and made a point of telling peeps....but hey i have had just as much fun as any slim fem on here!!
Some blokes like slim fems and some blokes like the larger fem, wudnt life be boring if the blokes all went after the same girls. I dont think of myself as a BBW, i am me!!!!
The male version of BBW is supposed to be BHM - Big Handsome Man.
I'm manager of a BBW group on MSN and its all about trying to get people to see themselves positively, not about trying to change the world or force opinions on anyone.
Dress size is another number like age or height or anything else and judgements on a person should not be made on that alone. Have you never seen The Prisoner... "I am not a number!"
If I had been so shallow as look for someone with a perfect body as described in the media, which DO try and shove their opinions down the throats of the masses, I would not now be married to the woman of my dreams.
I have seen such crushed spirits in my time, and its very sad. I just want to help people see the good in themselves and that they can be sexy and lovable and lusted after and respected for themselves.
Sorry for going off on one.