So is there any men out there who like BBW or is she right.....
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Sex God
There are usually 1 or 2 BBW chatrooms open. I suggest you go and have a look in there and then you will see how much in demand a nicely rounded woman is 
Get your lady friend into the chat rooms.
- there's always at least 2 or 3 BBW rooms and even more rooms that welcome and indeed encourage BBW's to visit.
That having been said we do understand yr partners reluctance - and without wishing to open a whole new can of worms the whole society bias towards an "ideal" impossibly thin woman is well documented elsewhere - and all we can do is encourage you to be kind with your help and generous with your praise of this lovely woman.
also - if your friend is not 100% comfortable even with the help and encouragement you can give, then pleeeeeeeease dont try and push/persuade her to go where she isn't absolutely happy to go.
- there's always at least 2 or 3 BBW rooms and even more rooms that welcome and indeed encourage BBW's to visit.
That having been said we do understand yr partners reluctance - and without wishing to open a whole new can of worms the whole society bias towards an "ideal" impossibly thin woman is well documented elsewhere - and all we can do is encourage you to be kind with your help and generous with your praise of this lovely woman.
also - if your friend is not 100% comfortable even with the help and encouragement you can give, then pleeeeeeeease dont try and push/persuade her to go where she isn't absolutely happy to go.
Sex God
I once ran to a motor factors shop and then carried a car battery for fifteen minutes (I am a nine stone weakling and trust me it nearly killed me) and then drove 100 miles to make sure I could get to a BBW social night.
I can also tell you from the number of chaps in the bbw room I frequent I am not alone.
Ohh and it was well worth it - best night of my life
Regards
Harry Jones
I can also tell you from the number of chaps in the bbw room I frequent I am not alone.
Ohh and it was well worth it - best night of my life
Regards
Harry Jones
Quote by HarryJones
I once ran to a motor factors shop and then carried a car battery for fifteen minutes (I am a nine stone weakling and trust me it nearly killed me) and then drove 100 miles to make sure I could get to a BBW social night.
I can also tell you from the number of chaps in the bbw room I frequent I am not alone.
Ohh and it was well worth it - best night of my life
Regards
Harry Jones
Sex God
Quote by earthchild
I once ran to a motor factors shop and then carried a car battery for fifteen minutes (I am a nine stone weakling and trust me it nearly killed me) and then drove 100 miles to make sure I could get to a BBW social night.
I can also tell you from the number of chaps in the bbw room I frequent I am not alone.
Ohh and it was well worth it - best night of my life
Regards
Harry Jones
Yes the Fish and Chips and bottle of Sainsburys Firecrest can never be bettered (Ha Ha only kidding)
assionkiss:Regards
Harry Jones
Sex God
As a side issue - sort of - your friend may find it enjoyable to explore the websites offering fabulous lingerie for us normal women (ie above size 16) and, yes, they do go way above size 26 in many cases. I can't list any here - but let Google do the work and you'll be amazed what you find.
The right basque, slip-dress or wrap will make an enourmous difference to her own feelings of sexiness.
It works for me - I love wearing a basque, stockings and a slinky wrap - makes me feels fabulous and comfortable at the same time.
The right basque, slip-dress or wrap will make an enourmous difference to her own feelings of sexiness.
It works for me - I love wearing a basque, stockings and a slinky wrap - makes me feels fabulous and comfortable at the same time.
you get the odd idiot being funny id be lying if i said there wasnt but the main majority of the site are very nice and understanding about size im a size 16 and still class myself as big i think all us "bigger boned" women had similar thoughts about being to big (those american swinging tv shows dont help much with all the lasses being around size 8) and have been proved wrong over time and our confidence has improved because of this maybe once she sees more bbw women looking very sexy she will relax a little and start to feel sexy herself
Give me a sexy larger lady any day. While I like ladies of all sizes, I'm not turned on by stick insects al la Mrs Beckham. I find that when ladies size 16 and over have become comfortable with their size and shape, they also become very sexy and it's that confidence and atitude that makes them even more attractive.
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I find that when ladies size 16 and over have become comfortable with their size and shape, they also become very sexy and it's that confidence and atitude that makes them even more attractive.
You have hit the nail on the head here - it is the most fabulous feeling in the world to feel sexy and Mr TN loves the recent changes in me - the clothes, the way I walk, not covering myself up all the time and smiling so much more, being able to look people in the eye instead of getting embarrassed incase they think i'm a hippo etc etc....
It's taken me so many years to finally accept myself and it's entirely liberating. Am still a fraidy cat, but far less so than I ever was. I hope that the lady in question on this thread gets to read these replies and have a play on the forum - she'll be beating the off with a stick not sitting in a corner!
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If I like a woman, I like her. Simple as that. My last 3 girlfriends have ranged from a 14-16 and upwards so, as I said if there is chemistry between you then the size wouldn't matter.
Well said Dlep.. .. nice to hear a man's point of view. My hubby's like you, he goes for personality and finds that more attractive than looks/size.. mind you he would hate to be clacking against bone so does prefer a curvier woman himself and I think your posting and his thinking is probably classical for the majority of men these days.
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I find that when ladies size 16 and over have become comfortable with their size and shape, they also become very sexy and it's that confidence and atitude that makes them even more attractive.
You have hit the nail on the head here - it is the most fabulous feeling in the world to feel sexy and Mr TN loves the recent changes in me - the clothes, the way I walk, not covering myself up all the time and smiling so much more, being able to look people in the eye instead of getting embarrassed incase they think i'm a hippo etc etc....
It's taken me so many years to finally accept myself and it's entirely liberating. Am still a fraidy cat, but far less so than I ever was. I hope that the lady in question on this thread gets to read these replies and have a play on the forum - she'll be beating the off with a stick not sitting in a corner!
xxxx
Exactly TN... I once heard someone say there was nothing sexier than a woman who had confidence and walked tall as apposed to a woman who scuttles around hiding her head! lol it's true tho
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If I like a woman, I like her. Simple as that. My last 3 girlfriends have ranged from a 14-16 and upwards so, as I said if there is chemistry between you then the size wouldn't matter.
Well said Dlep.. .. nice to hear a man's point of view. My hubby's like you, he goes for personality and finds that more attractive than looks/size.. mind you he would hate to be clacking against bone so does prefer a curvier woman himself and I think your posting and his thinking is probably classical for the majority of men these days.
I've always been attreacted to curves, but its only the last few years that I've been attracted to women over size 16. That's not to say I wouldn't have found women that size unattractive before.....just that as I've become familiar with women in the Swinging community, I've noticed that I've liked them. And I do like more petite women, but the "slimmest" (for want of a better word) is a size 12-14 on average.
Curvy,large,voluptuous,bbw...... what ever the way you term it, is for me far more erotic and sexier than slimmer or petite ladies although there still sexy child would be my dream date and you know that don't you hun
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The site of voluptuous curves in a girdle and ff nylons just does it for me every time so I think you should find loads of people to play with,shame you live to far!!
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The site of voluptuous curves in a girdle and ff nylons just does it for me every time so I think you should find loads of people to play with,shame you live to far!!
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Question for any man out there. i have just started dateing a BBW she wants to try swinging but because of her size (26) thinks no one will want to have sex with her and or will turn up see her size and walk away.
So is there any men out there who like BBW or is she right.....
Def no problems.. size not an issue, attitude much more imortant... Get out and have fun :twisted:
Orgasminator
I love the larger lady, just ask me other half Bubbly Lorraine.
But seriously Size should not be an issue, Go out there and have fun and if others critisise you, thats their problem not yours.
But seriously Size should not be an issue, Go out there and have fun and if others critisise you, thats their problem not yours.
Sex God
rik1976 as you can see bbw's are actually very popular with many of us!
I love women,regardless of dress size,either woman herself is the turn on be she an 8 or an 18 or whatever.
I love women,regardless of dress size,either woman herself is the turn on be she an 8 or an 18 or whatever.
I'm a size 16 so not skinny but I've been told that I don't fall into the BBW category either 
At the end of the day it's just another label which we either stick on ourselves or have thrust upon us and I hate having to fit into a category. I'm me, an individual and orginal. No two people are the same so what's the point in trying to categorise everyone you meet?
My personal opinion, confidence and attitude are far more sexy than body size. I've met women of all shapes and sizes, some are incredibly sexy and others aren't and it bears no relationship what so ever to their dress size
At the end of the day it's just another label which we either stick on ourselves or have thrust upon us and I hate having to fit into a category. I'm me, an individual and orginal. No two people are the same so what's the point in trying to categorise everyone you meet?My personal opinion, confidence and attitude are far more sexy than body size. I've met women of all shapes and sizes, some are incredibly sexy and others aren't and it bears no relationship what so ever to their dress size
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My personal opinion, confidence and attitude are far more sexy than body size. I've met women of all shapes and sizes, some are incredibly sexy and others aren't and it bears no relationship what so ever to their dress size
i totally agree with you there celestria. as for me....im a size 20/22 and i dont consider myself a Big Beautiful Woman in the slightest! im just a Beautiful Woman
Sex God
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My personal opinion, confidence and attitude are far more sexy than body size. I've met women of all shapes and sizes, some are incredibly sexy and others aren't and it bears no relationship what so ever to their dress size
i totally agree with you there celestria. as for me....im a size 20/22 and i dont consider myself a Big Beautiful Woman in the slightest! im just a Beautiful Woman
missed out sexy too hun
