ok here goes plz be gentle with me.
We are new members to this site myself and my husband were also pretty new to the scene only having 2 experiences. Theres alot of things ide like to know about the site like how do i post a ad, and how do i look at ppls pic in profiles as when i click the little camera i only ever get to see 1 pic.
Also i hope i aint gonna open a can of worms here but myself and my hubby are both on the large side in fact we are very large , i dont seem to have much confidence with answering emails and such coz i really dont feel attractive. I suppose thats why i really got into the swinging scene so i felt attractive to others not just my husband but sadly its hard to find guys or couples who are into bbws or bbms , we are members of another site and thought we would give this site a go see if we have any luck on here.
Sorry to babble on so much but i am female its what were good at lol
Hello - don't worry we're new to it to. So hello + welcome from us. :giggle:
Welcome to SH.
:welcome:
And dont worry, believe me you are quite normal. Theres all sorts of people in here and mostly we get along just fine. I'm sure you will have lots of fun.
H
Hi guys
I am still fairly new too although Mr Silver used to swing in a previous life. The one thing I have learnt about the whole scene is that there is someone for everyone. In my experience, people are less bothered about looking for so called perfection and more concerned with having a good time.
There is a chat room for BBW - don't know which server tho, sorry. But plenty of like-minded people in there!
Go to my adverts on right hand side and follow the links through there to post. As to profile pics, it sounds like you have found profiles where some of the pics are private - in that case the number of pics shown doesn't tally with how many it says.
There is a thread i the cafe for mentors but feel free to PM me any time with questions. Most people here are dead helpful though so post away!
Silver
Here you go for a mentor: http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/81218.html
First things first...welcome to SH !! :rose:
let me be the first to offer you a rose!
secondly...dont worry, we have all been now at one time or another....
thirdly....im not guna say no more at the mo coz am still abit pissed of at blackburn goin 3-0 down to pompy!!
anyway mini thread hi jack/rand over
as you were
Hi both and welcome :welcome:
Hope you find what you're looking for. Just relax, have fun and good luck :thumbup:
would just like to say thank you to you all for giving me some great advice, i am pretty confident anyway i ooze it when am chatting but when it comes to meeting ppl i always start to think what if they dont like the way i look .But i would never bullshit and not meet with anyone ive already agreed to meet with then once the ice is broke am fine .
You are all such nice wonderful ppl cant wait to get to know you all xxxxxxxx
hello and welcome to SH
big girl here too an i can honestly say i've not found it a problem, just be yourselves
hope you find what you are looking for
Earthy xx
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From a big gal, what I've found is that if you're comfortable with yourselves, having an absolute blast, most people will react to that, rather than your body type. Believe me, I was so worried when I first done the swinging thing, but have found, the more I've relaxed and enjoyed myself, the more people relax around you regardless of fat thin dark light tall short, it's an atmosphere and body language that people tend to respond to :happy:
