Quote by sexyfella
Call me an idiot but im just curious to know from what size is classed as bbw
idiot :giggle: you asked for it!!
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lol SF, this I've been trying to work out for a while.......i honestly dont know.....my personal oppinion is size 22 upwards, however someone else will say size 18 and someone else might say 26!
Having said that, dress sizes alone are misleading - perhaps it's more about body shape, attitude and defying stereotypical images of what other people think bigger women should look like/dress like/behave like.
I dont think there is an 'official' definition - like I said earlier, it's more how you see yourself not which box other people might put you in. If you think of yourself as a big beautiful woman, then that's what you are!
edited to ask : anyone else have views on this? is there a definition of BBW in terms of actual dress size?
Having said that, dress sizes alone are misleading - perhaps it's more about body shape, attitude and defying stereotypical images of what other people think bigger women should look like/dress like/behave like.
I dont think there is an 'official' definition - like I said earlier, it's more how you see yourself not which box other people might put you in. If you think of yourself as a big beautiful woman, then that's what you are!
edited to ask : anyone else have views on this? is there a definition of BBW in terms of actual dress size?
Quote by DarkfireHad that thread a while back still didnt reach an Answer im size 16/18 but tall at 5ft8 am i bbw .Iim not sure.
lol SF, this I've been trying to work out for a while.......i honestly dont know.....my personal oppinion is size 22 upwards, however someone else will say size 18 and someone else might say size 26
But i wouldent label myself as one but in others eyes i proberly am ..
Sex God
is there such a thing as a BBB? coz if there is could i apply to be one?
Orgasminator
Mmmmmm BBWs are my fave too. 
I really don't think it should matter whether you're a size 6 or a size 26..........
Its how you feel about yourself that matters......
If you're not happy with some aspect of your body, then where possible, only you have the power to change it....
Most people on here, as far as i can tell, go more by personality than size......... so who cares what size you are..... you only have one life..... live it to the full.... as you never know when the clock of life will stop ticking for you.............
equi-princess xxx
Its how you feel about yourself that matters......
If you're not happy with some aspect of your body, then where possible, only you have the power to change it....
Most people on here, as far as i can tell, go more by personality than size......... so who cares what size you are..... you only have one life..... live it to the full.... as you never know when the clock of life will stop ticking for you.............
equi-princess xxx
EdinbBW wrote
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Pete_sw
If there wasnt before, there is now! I like BSF's myself - Big Strapping Fellas , do you qualify???
and Debz4u
Well if there's vodka jelly count me in too.
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Pete_sw
is there such a thing as a BBB? coz if there is could i apply to be one?
If there wasnt before, there is now! I like BSF's myself - Big Strapping Fellas
, do you qualify??? and Debz4u
im size 16/18 but tall at 5ft8 am i bbw .Iim not sure.I wouldnt say you were BBW either luv....wanna come anyway?? :D :twisted:
But i wouldent label myself as one but in others eyes i proberly am ..
Quote by true20man
yeah defo count me in please! im a bbb i think also being 6"8 and not shy of a pound! does it bother any of the lovely ladies if i come?
6ft 8??????
helloooooooooooooooooooooo
:happy: Doesnt bother me hunny, the more the merrier!
Where's AndyWolves gone??? it's not even my party and I've kinda taken over here
Andyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
Forum Virgin
seemed to have opened a debate with this thread! As I said I'm new to the scene so had no idea whether there were parties just for BBW's or whether BBW's wer generally welcomed on the scene - yes it should be about the whole package but not size but it's a simple fact that just as some people prefer blondes, others prefer slim women/men.
However, now that I've been mutliply reassured that BBW's are welcome generally, I shall dive in with enthusiasm ...... please let me know if the vodka jelly party goes ahead!!!!
However, now that I've been mutliply reassured that BBW's are welcome generally, I shall dive in with enthusiasm ...... please let me know if the vodka jelly party goes ahead!!!!
Quote by curvyvenus
whether BBW's wer generally welcomed on the scene
My answer to that would be yes, of course not everyones going to like you but that has nothing to do with size that aplys to everyone, i'm over weight and have to admit i have had problems in the past but i'm not a very confident person and i'm sure that has a lot to do with it, i have seen many women in clubs much bigger than me having loads of fun i think its all down to your confidence and personality :thumbup:
My GF is a very sexy size 16, she says shes fat but i always tell her she's VOLUPTUOS
and sexy with it.
Can anyone reconmend any GOOD adult dvds That star the larger lady but it must have a good title instead of the usual poor titled films, you know the ones like "scale busting bimbos #1" as i would like to watch them with the GF but dont want to watch one with such a degrading title- Thats if they exsist!
and sexy with it.
Can anyone reconmend any GOOD adult dvds That star the larger lady but it must have a good title instead of the usual poor titled films, you know the ones like "scale busting bimbos #1" as i would like to watch them with the GF but dont want to watch one with such a degrading title- Thats if they exsist!
Quote by badleeneed2pee
My GF is a very sexy size 16, she says shes fat but i always tell her she's VOLUPTUOS
and sexy with it.
Can anyone reconmend any GOOD adult dvds That star the larger lady but it must have a good title instead of the usual poor titled films, you know the ones like "scale busting bimbos #1" as i would like to watch them with the GF but dont want to watch one with such a degrading title- Thats if they exsist!
theres a porn shop near us that do all kinds of porn, infact i've never seen such a selection
i'd try ur local porn shop, and does it really matter what the titles called? 
Quote by naughtynymphos1
My GF is a very sexy size 16, she says shes fat but i always tell her she's VOLUPTUOS
and sexy with it.
Can anyone reconmend any GOOD adult dvds That star the larger lady but it must have a good title instead of the usual poor titled films, you know the ones like "scale busting bimbos #1" ..... but dont want to watch one with such a degrading title- !
.... and does it really matter what the titles called?
I think the point here is that he's trying to reassure her and trying to alter her perception of self (maybe she's just honest and to the point?? although 'fat' is such an ugly unattractive word in itself I wouldnt use it)
Porn films with degrading titles do absolutely nothing for your confidence and self-esteem if you already have issues about size/appearance and are identifying yourself with the 'actresses' involved - 'scale busting bimbos' and such like only serve to reinforce the 'unattractiveness' idea.
I cant say I find 'scale busting bimbo's' appealing at all.........even though I am one !!
:Dedited to add - scale busting bimbo party anyone?? :twisted:
Quote by Darkfire
My GF is a very sexy size 16, she says shes fat but i always tell her she's VOLUPTUOS
and sexy with it.
Can anyone reconmend any GOOD adult dvds That star the larger lady but it must have a good title instead of the usual poor titled films, you know the ones like "scale busting bimbos #1" ..... but dont want to watch one with such a degrading title- !
.... and does it really matter what the titles called?
I think the point here is that he's trying to reassure her and trying to alter her perception of self (maybe she's just honest and to the point?? although 'fat' is such an ugly unattractive word in itself I wouldnt use it)
Porn films with degrading titles do absolutely nothing for your confidence and self-esteem if you already have issues about size/appearance and are identifying yourself with the 'actresses' involved - 'scale busting bimbos' and such like only serve to reinforce the 'unattractiveness' idea.
I cant say I find 'scale busting bimbo's' appealing at all.........even though I am one !!
:Dedited to add - scale busting bimbo party anyone?? :twisted:
i totally understand what you mean, i guess i'm just a str8 to the point kinda person, wraping something up in a fancy title does not change what it is underneath, would like to know who sits down and thinks of some of these odd titles tho
:lol: Quote by Darkfire
EdinbBW wroteWell if there's vodka jelly count me in too.
:thumbup:
Pete_sw
is there such a thing as a BBB? coz if there is could i apply to be one?
If there wasnt before, there is now! I like BSF's myself - Big Strapping Fellas
, do you qualify??? and Debz4u
im size 16/18 but tall at 5ft8 am i bbw .Iim not sure.I wouldnt say you were BBW either luv....wanna come anyway?? :D :twisted:.
But i wouldent label myself as one but in others eyes i proberly am ..
yes please just let me know when the party is and where hehe
Sexpert
Helloooooo! I'm back!
Sorry Dark stepped out to go to Swindon today, and didn;t realise what I'd left behind!.....I promise to make it up to you 
To all that are interested, give me tonight to get myself sorted and I'll start a new list on the LMU forum - I'll put out another post on here when I've done it to let you know.
Watch this space!!!!
xx
Sorry Dark
stepped out to go to Swindon today, and didn;t realise what I'd left behind!.....I promise to make it up to you To all that are interested, give me tonight to get myself sorted and I'll start a new list on the LMU forum - I'll put out another post on here when I've done it to let you know.
Watch this space!!!!
xx
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Orgasminator
Quote by Kniphofia
I have a BBW party whenever I meet one... we play Kiss Chase, Musical Beds, Open the Parcel, Blow out the Candle, Hide the Sausage...... Lots of jelly and lashings of cream, of course.
Hours of fun.
Trouble is, I just never get to meet enough BBWs. :cry:
Welcome!
Nothing much to add to that apart from this:
Pulls tablecloth causing all bottles and glasses to fall on the floor and break, then beckons you to come near...
The above is not as meaningless as it reads. I am sure kniphofia will understand.
At the risk of sounding a total creep (like I care!), my feeling is that women of all sizes have their own particular attractions. In much the same way as tall women appeal as much as diminuitive ones, but in a different way.
And so, if any of the petite SBWs feel left out and would like to come round to mine for a party of their own.....
And so, if any of the petite SBWs feel left out and would like to come round to mine for a party of their own.....
There are some of us who really love BBWs, but it's not good to put labels on people. I guess what we really appreciate is someone who is happy with their personality, wants to be friendly, and is proud to be a real woman. Being voluptuous can be very attractive, and is certainly nothing to be ashamed of. There's a huge lobby which tries to encourage women to be smaller than they are, and I find that very unattractive and insulting. Just be yourself, and enjoy!
Sex God
Quote by debz4uHad that thread a while back still didnt reach an Answer im size 16/18 but tall at 5ft8 am i bbw .Iim not sure.
lol SF, this I've been trying to work out for a while.......i honestly dont know.....my personal oppinion is size 22 upwards, however someone else will say size 18 and someone else might say size 26
But i wouldent label myself as one but in others eyes i proberly am ..
Well having met Debz4u last nite...... i wouldn't say you were BBW.... I think you have a nice figure and with you being tall(ish) you can carry it
Quote by sparking
There are some of us who really love BBWs, but it's not good to put labels on people. I guess what we really appreciate is someone who is happy with their personality, wants to be friendly, and is proud to be a real woman. Being voluptuous can be very attractive, and is certainly nothing to be ashamed of. There's a huge lobby which tries to encourage women to be smaller than they are, and I find that very unattractive and insulting. Just be yourself, and enjoy!
now reading thro your post i'm sorry but i have to comment on something i have picked up on lol hey u know me never one for keeping my gob shut :haha:
Please read above highlighted bit
so what are you saying anyone whos not a BBW is not a real woman?
you have also put that it is insulting to women to try and encourage them to be thinner, well i would say what you have put is insulting to women who are thinner.
I am over weigh and i do not consider myself to be a real woman because of it, i'm over weight because i eat to much and don't excercise as much as i should, theres nothing good about that
ok rant over
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