Hi all.
As the title says. Does it bother anyone playing with a BBW?
Just thought Id ask, being a lady of the larger persuasion. Also.....interested in chatting to anyone who has been to the BBW nights at Chams.
Thankyou and kisses to you.
xxxx
There are many longstanding members who are BBW's, and they seem to attract plenty of admirers on the site. As with everything else in life some are more popular than others, but I'm not sure the size comes into it. The answer to your question is that there are both men and women on the site who happily meet BBW's, and anyone who doesn't like bigger girls just isn't going to become involved in the prelim's.
As with everything else, you will have to decipher, if indeed it matters to you, whether or not any admiration shown and declared is genuine, or whether it's simply a guy saying what he thinks he should in order to get what he wants.
In many cases, when a man declares that he "adores" a certain type of woman, be it big or small, what he really means is he likes those who will accept his bullshit and him along with it.
I'll mention something not related to your question, but something you will be made aware of, no doubt, as you become familiar with the site. Your profile is new and doesn't have photographs, and these are not essential. However, if you wish to be considered genuine then you will almost certainly have to be visible, either by showing your face on cam in the chatrooms, or by attending a social gathering of bonafide members who will then vouch for you.
There are a number of "unreal" couples profiles on sites like this, and experienced members are likely to be sceptical of people who are not confirmed as genuine.
I have been to chams on a BBW night. I didn't know it was a BBW night until I got there but I digress ... It was a good night, very busy and there were many BBW admirers.
BBW night or not, pretty much wherever you go there will be people of all ages, shapes and sizes; all have their admirers. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder as they say. I can honestly say that it is very rare to see any woman sat on the sidelines, no matter what size she is, unless it is her choice to do so.
I think Toots is off her head with her reply, sorry Toots but I really do this time, much as I often agree with what you say, not this time.
I personally do not play with BBW's though many of my friends are large and extra large. what DOES that say about me, I don't find them sexually attractive but that doesn't mean they are not nice people and good friends, it doesn't mean they are not fun to chat to or supportive of me, it doesn't mean they don't have any of the other attributes my friends have. I neither think it says anything bad about me nor do I think I am losing out by not playing with anyone that I do not find sexually attractive just as people don't lose out if they don't find me sexually attractive.
Many people will not play with me because of my age, that's cool, I don't blame them, I don't think they are missing out and I don't think it says more about them than it says about me, it says they have a preference when it comes to having casual sex with a stranger.
Many people seek black men, many people won't see black men, we all know it is not racist it is just sexual preference and size is no different.
When it comes to sexual attraction there are many things that put people off having sex with someone but doesn't stop them being friends or having respect for them.
Hair quanity
shaved
unshaved
tall
short
large
slim
black
white
bisexual
straight
big boobs
small boobs
circumcised
uncircumcised
All are things which can turn us on or turn us off and that is how we are built, nobody reaches puberty and ticks a list of what they want to find sexually attractive .......
Let's see I think gas masks on large women who are unshaved and enjoy being pissed on is for me or rubber/latex, on slim women, who will take me with a strap-on, no you don't choose what your going to like and dislike, we are given what we are given in sexual taste.
Nobody is a bad person for being what they are providing it is legal, nobody should be vilified for being what they are, nobody should be told they are missing out for not having sex with someone who is hairy, large, slim or anything else.
RIGHT, now to answer the OP, Chameleons BBW nights are good for anyone, BBW or otherwise, yes there is a large % of BBWs in attendance and a large % of people who prefer BBWs including couples and single guys of all shapes and sizes.
The ladies feel comfortable on those nights because no matter how big you are there will be others of equal size or larger, we go to Chameleons be it BBW nights or not because everyone is friendly and nobody judges you for what you are.
Having worked at the club for many years and been a member for more I have noticed that the BBW's get more attention from the guys and more requests to play than the younger, slimmer people be it a BBW night or a standard night.
Chameleons both attracts and welcomes a mix of people by race, age, size and colour because a good mix means there is something for everyone.
I say get yourself down there, you will have a great time and meet some great new friends, you will not feel out of place or uncomfortable about your size.
