bedtime reading

3 Nov 2013

Anyone got any suggestions for some swinger related bedtime reading? we've read Ashley Lister book.

3 Nov 2013

You could try on line . . . literotica

4 Nov 2013

I'm currently reading the "life of riley" series..... if that's any help.

4 Nov 2013

"Forever", by Judy Blume.
(Poor 'Ralph', or whatever he/it was called)
Mind you, I read it in about 4 hours flat. Granted, that was back in 1995 or something lol

4 Nov 2013

could try some "Tarzan", he was the original swinger.

4 Nov 2013

House of Holes, by Nicholson Baker. hilariously bad with one or two good bits.

4 Nov 2013

I'm really look for something about philosophy of swinging - not just erotica - although we like that too

12 Nov 2013

Quote by g_and_f
I'm really look for something about philosophy of swinging

- not just erotica - although we like that too

Although swinging is the label the philosophy of swinging can be very varied I tried looking into the philosophy before we joined here and found you can not learn about anything you have no part in as the view of others is always subjective in the sense that we all know ourselves as we are all individual.
After 7 years being here and getting involved with it and speaking to many people over the years I have my own philosophy about it. I would love to write my own book about it but I believe you can't teach anyone about it as I found out you have to learn about it yourself as everyone would have their own perceptions about it.
I would finish by saying what it has taught me is more about myself and my relationship and a much more deeper understanding about us as a couple and what we personally enjoy about swinging and what we don't enjoy.

15 Nov 2013

I completely agree, any-time we have spoken to other couple they all start and a different point and take different journeys through the swinging world. The different approaches to vary as much as finger prints. We just like taking on as many different views as possible.