belated ejaculation ????

12 Feb 2005

Hi peeps
This is just a topic 4 discussion ok?
We hear a great deal about premature ejaculation, and the many supposed causes and cures for that particular problem, ( been there done that redface

)
But what about the other end of the street? What about when you can rabbit away all nite long , and the person you are with is spent, and you are still as rampant as a hairy goat? (apologies for the graphic description) and the sergeant major just wont sit down?
Is this a related malady?, is it reported? Do we complain?
Seriously though for a minute, it can cause as many problems as the premature kind, like, (imagine this guys) â€œ oh, so thatâ€™s how sexy I am?
As we know its got nothing to do with that â€¦â€¦â€¦â€¦â€¦â€¦ but â€¦â€¦â€¦â€¦â€¦â€¦â€¦â€¦.
Over to the experts

12 Feb 2005

Really vodka & this site dont mix :twisted: the words unlucky spring to mind redface

12 Feb 2005

Tell me about it.
I have that problem, and its not as nice as you may think. Sure its great for ladies to start off with, but after awhile they end up getting sore and need a rest.

12 Feb 2005

RE:- " Belated Ejaculation"
Thankyou for remembering at all :-) We dont celebrate them so much these days . Thanks for the card as well .

12 Feb 2005

Quote by veejay
Tell me about it.
I have that problem, and its not as nice as you may think. Sure its great for ladies to start off with, but after awhile they end up getting sore and need a rest.

True, but the psychology is even harder, you donâ€™t fancy them if u cant keep it up, and u donâ€™t fancy them if u keep it up too long ???
I guess its all to do with timing lol

12 Feb 2005

I think i got this one wrong confused

i thought u meant the guy couldnt reach the post, but reading it again I know think I should STFU & go to bed

12 Feb 2005

Quote by lilacgem
I think i got this one wrong i thought u meant the guy couldnt reach the post, but reading it again I know think I should STFU & go to bed

rotflmao
just before u go smackbottom

sorry, couldn't resist 69position

12 Feb 2005

Quote by Katien_n_John
Tell me about it.
I have that problem, and its not as nice as you may think. Sure its great for ladies to start off with, but after awhile they end up getting sore and need a rest.

True, but the psychology is even harder, you donâ€™t fancy them if u cant keep it up, and u donâ€™t fancy them if u keep it up too long ???
I guess its all to do with timing lol
I know, its strange. But most of the women I've been with were very sexy.
I suppose I'm no good at sex, I always cum last biggrin

12 Feb 2005

:censored:
Thats the point ????
:doh:
Guess its late

12 Feb 2005

Belated Orgasms are most anoying mad

Jax will confirm that on several occasions I've been 5mins into the job in hand when out of the blue a belated orgasm arrives redface

12 Feb 2005

Quote by blasian_cpl
Belated Orgasms are most anoying
Jax will confirm that on several occasions I've been 5mins into the job in hand when out of the blue a belated orgasm arrives

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
You just would not believe whats on the player right now ........... Simply The Best kiss

12 Feb 2005

So when does an orgasm become belated actually dunno

Must remember to set the alarm cock next time wink

12 Feb 2005

Mine always seem bang on time lol

12 Feb 2005

Quote by Katien_n_John
:censored:
Thats the point ????
:doh:
Guess its late

That was a joke.

12 Feb 2005

:shock: despite the hour, starting to feel a bit on my own here..... come on guys. whip

..... surely??? .......no? dunno

oh well, like I said, its late. :giveup:

12 Feb 2005

Chill out John mate , were all pullin yer chain thats all :-) Its Friday night after all

12 Feb 2005

Actually G it's saturday morning yer dirty stop up you . wink

12 Feb 2005

Quote by Silk and Big G
Chill out John mate , were all pullin yer chain thats all :-) Its Friday night after all

OH!!! right ........ :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Glad someone's awake innocent

12 Feb 2005

:gagged:

12 Feb 2005

Believe me, it can be a problem. Betablockers, medically prescribed, can have the effect that seemingly you NEVER come - it's not that the magic isn't there, it's just that the body chemistry doesn't work for good reason. And after a while the lady thinks it's her fault, she isn't doing the right things for you in one way or another. Reassurance doesn't help. So another problem has been set up. It isn't something I'd want to laugh about in the presence of a sufferer.
WW

12 Feb 2005

It is a pain, literally, when yer man takes forever. Who told men it was good to go on and on for hours? The one thing I hate to hear is "Oh, I could do this all night". Not with me, you can't sonny!
As a person who comes very easily and quickly, I did have a problem some months ago, wherein I just could not orgasm. Is all part of my stupid illness. But when I went to see my neurologist, for a routine check up, I mentioned it. He kinda brushed the subject under the carpet. I was livid. I said that if I was a guy, then it would be taken very seriously.
In fact, if you are a guy with MS, you can get Viagra prescribed, for free. As a woman? Nothing.
I did get the problem sorted, but as has been said, it becomes a psych thing too. I was so desperate to come, I began to get tense and it just so was not gonna happen.
OTOH I also went thru a period of spontaneous orgasm. I had to get medical help for that too. Everyone says "You went to get it cured?" Damn right I did. It was exhausting, messy and embarrasing. Again, if I had been a fella, no-one would have thought it questionable that this could be a problem.

12 Feb 2005

I well take your point: faking it is a bit tough for a guy as the evidence is not forthcoming, so I used to try to reassure the lady and, frankly, I was very happy that she'd had a good time and I hope I was sensitive enough not to cause distress. One certainly must not just go on for ever!
It is easy to be flippant about this kind of thing until you've had a problem.
WW

12 Feb 2005

Serious mode on

Now and again I have the problem. mainly if it's a supposed quicky. Meaning, it's a spur of the moment thing to have sex and the foreplay hasn't prepared me mentally. Under these circumstances I would normally be shooting quickly, so I try and hold off for the ladies sake until she has been satisfied.
Problem is sometimes, in trying to hold off, I find myself not being able to cum. So much for the quicky, which is a little embarrasing when you are trying to hide behind the photocopier at lunchtime redface

As has been said by others, the lady then feels she is inadequate or some such similar feelings. Or the classic "don't you love me anymore ??"

Serious mode off

12 Feb 2005

Actually the problem is more common than people think. It is all in the brain as Wicked Wizard said. It is nobody's fault and I know that if a woman perseveres, she can get the guy to ejaculate, but it is generally advisable not to insist, as it causes him distress by making him feel out of par with the rest of the male population. Being a slow cummer myself, I love these guys as I do not have to feel stressed to reach the big O before time runs out on us. lol

There has got to be an element of love, care and understanding between the couple though.
Vix, I once experienced spontaneous climaxing. It was brought on by a starvation diet that kept me constantly aroused to the point I would just feel the bed sheets brush lightly against my skin and I'd cum, put on my slippers and cum, brush my teeth and cum... (Ok last bit I made up but the rest is all true!)

12 Feb 2005

Well when i tore ligaments in my ankle the doctor prescribed me strong pain killers. Anyway sex with my ex at the time could take up to 3 hrs as i couldnt cum and she was left feeling very sore! Which in the summer aint very good with all the sweating that was involved!
But at the time i wasnt really bothered cos my main concern was making sure that she was pleasured.
Now i am off those tablets......but i so still have a couple of strips left somewhere!

12 Feb 2005

Thanks for rescuing this thread guys.
I should have known better than to start a serious conversation on a Friday night lol
Iâ€™m glad Iâ€™m not the only one this happens to.
With me the problem seems to occur randomly, once in a while sort of thing.
We have tried to analyse it to find out what the triggers are, but so far nothing adds up?
I find the important thing during these episodes is to ensure that I donâ€™t go on too long and make the lady involved uncomfortable.
I am quite happy to have sex without coming as I get just as much fun out of the act as I do out of the end result.
During these times I think it is important for the lady to be honest and say when she has had enough, otherwise it can just turn the whole experience into an uncomfortable memory.
Hope this makes some kind of sense? Still half asleep here, long nite lol

12 Feb 2005

I have had it happen a few times. Things can suddenly go numb and the big moment does not arrive. Also after the first orgasm it takes more to reach the next one. This is useful.